Love in My Natal.... Help Please

Birthdate: May 28, 1984 7:08pm Brooklyn, NY (Kings County)

I actually have a few questions which really all balls down to Love...

The Moon opposition the Ascendant is to blame for my constant need to be loved. I've read that I have luck in finding love with venus in my 7th house and will have some sort of financial or emotional gain from my mate. I have to say I can see the truth in that. Which leads me to one of my questions...

I have dated a few men but have felt deeply for 2 and those two both have fame and/or fortune. One is actually now a millionaire. I seem to run into and attract these type of men. I'm wondering is that shown in my chart? It can't be a coincidence because I don't even live in an area where I would just bump into famous or wealthy people. It has always seem like fate and out of no where. They both taught me things emotionally and I have grown because of them. They kind of taught me what love is.

Sad part is ...It didn't work out with the two men, the timing was off. I believe if we met later in life we would of worked.

What I really want to know is when will I be married. I tried looking at the Carol Rushman theory of potential marriages but I'm still new to astrology and I can't figure it out. Can anyone help?

So basically my questions are...

Are my past relationships with famous or wealthy men a sign of who I will end up with?
Around what age or year would you say I will get married?
What will he be like?
What kind of setting would we possibly meet (work, party...)

I appreciate all responses, Thanx in advance

[note: poster made an attempt at astrological interpretation so no need to move to Greenhorns Lounge - Moderator]

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Forum rules state that members must first give their own 'astrological' interpretation before members can respond. Simply saying your moon is opp Asc is not enough. With such limited knowledge it's prob better you post in Greenhorns lounge

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When looking at a woman’s chart the type of man she would look for is her sun sign and mars traits, plus 7th house planets and house cusp ruler and where that ruler was deposited.
When looking at a mans chart for the type of woman he would look for is his venus and moon sign and then 7th house planets and house cusp ruler and where that ruler was deposited.

Although synastry is a valuable tool with astrology it cannot 'make things happen' even if you have the best synastry in the world unfortunately..

If you want to research more into synastry try here
http://cafeastrology.com/astrology_of_relationships.html
http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry/interchartaspects.html
http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry_house_overlays.html
http://www.astrology-numerology.com/synastry.html
http://www.astrology-numerology.com/synastry-houses.html
http://www.astrology-numerology.com/synastryaspects.html
http://www.cosmitec-astrological-compatibility-advice.com/astrology-marriage.html
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=17513
http://www.astrotheme.com/synastry_advice.php

Where in a chart does a person see himself
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?p=157562#post157562

Synastry & divorce--- really great article, well worth reading-----
http://books.google.co.uk/books?id=0OJgX88KKMsC&pg=PA46&lpg=PA46&dq=astrology+2nd+marriage&source=bl&ots=DoV__K_IQS&sig=dI1UAX5oprrQLtfzYUrJ4_XzuKU&hl=en&ei=zBV0SsfnHYqhjAf5rN2nBg&sa=X&oi=book_result&ct=result&resnum=6#v=onepage&q=&f=false

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http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=17546&page=2
Etiquette and telling people their fate
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=17248
10Do’s and Don’ts with astrology by Radu
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Thanx for the info...

I never asked for astrology to make anything happen really... God controls that. I would never even insult god that way to even believe astrology has power. Astrology doesn't determine anything actually God has power over all. For me to even believe in astrology to that degree would be a sin. So don't worry I'm not looking for that.

I was curious to see what my chart had to say. I actually don't know how to determine potential marriage partners.... I read on here that if you go by Carol Rushman theory you can possibly see. I've also read there is a way to get the answers to the questions I ask. YES I know that it will be nothing but a guess. Trust me I don't live my life according to astrology or sit on a couch waiting for an answer to life. I read about astrology and my natal on free reading websites. I understand that the 7th house and those planets help get my question answered, I stated that in my question.... but I have yet to learn how to answer the questions I have asked... and I can't learn that in one day so I posted a question. So if this is in the wrong thread I apologize.

Ok, I took a brief look and wanted to contribute.

First of all - by this theory supposedly the number of applying aspects Sun in a female horoscope makes to planets before it leaves a sign is a number of potential marriages. And the planets in question describe those partners. SO, your Sun has one applying aspect to Uranus, and another to Pluto, which I am not sure whether to count because it is at the very end of the sign.
You do have Jupiter ruling AND in 2nd house, which is often sign of wealth
I see this as a very powerful chart, many not so commonly seen points to discuss.
Most of all conjunctions.
Moon and Mercury in Taurus, then you have Venus conj Chiron conj NN conj Sun, I really don't know where to begin here or how to interpret bit it is all one big bowl of fatedness, with Chiron and NN in the mix.
Then you have a not so happy conjunction of Mars and Saturn in your 12th house Scorpio, opposing Moon Merc conj. I sense there might be so much energy kept within. Maybe this energy is projected onto partners since after all you have 7th house Sun - turning to other. thus you seek and attract powerful men, all the while keeping yourself hidden(asc ruler in 12th)
As for potential husband, he is also represented by sign on DCS - Taurus, ruled by Venus in 7th - again sign of wealth.
Honestly, this conjunction to chiron is not good, may give some losses in love or feelings of betrayal, unprotected, or simply since it's connected to Venus - poverty in some parts of life, yet may not because the Sun is also there. May be 2 marriages because Venus is in Gemini

really interesting chart
hope this helps

Thank You so much.... That helped a lot!

Everyone who looks at my natal says, it is very interesting or powerful. But never explained why or what is so powerful about it. or how it will benefit me. I never understood that, I wasn't sure if it was a bad thing or good thing. You really answered my question well, thank you so much!

What do you mean by a big bowl of fatedness?

And as for this part...

Then you have a not so happy conjunction of Mars and Saturn in your 12th house Scorpio, opposing Moon Merc conj. I sense there might be so much energy kept within. Maybe this energy is projected onto partners since after all you have 7th house Sun - turning to other. thus you seek and attract powerful men, all the while keeping yourself hidden(asc ruler in 12th)
As for potential husband, he is also represented by sign on DCS - Taurus, ruled by Venus in 7th - again sign of wealth.
Honestly, this conjunction to chiron is not good, may give some losses in love or feelings of betrayal, unprotected, or simply since it's connected to Venus - poverty in some parts of life, yet may not because the Sun is also there. May be 2 marriages because Venus is in Gemini

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I'm hoping for a change in Luck in love soon

Thank you again you gave me a lot to think about!

well i cant understand above chart but based on your birth data i saw in vedic chart that your 5th lord is retro in asc.
and also 7th lord retro conjunct with it
so its obvious that all your love stories will end without much progress

and most importantly you dont love people, you love their status and thats revealed to them at some point without your knowledge and making them backoff

you still have almost 4 years to make yourself understand how much you are bothering people by your love towards only wealth but not their hearts
will find right man after that

have you checked out your Juno placing, this can indicate who we are attracted to ie the type of person we would wish to be a long term partner with. however if juno in aries it does not mean you are attracted to an arian but just the charastics of a typical arian.

google and check it out on your chart.

I would agree about the 7th house is also important for relationships and mars for attraction and chemistry.

Thanx everyone...

You guys make it seem like I'm destined to be unhappy but either way I appreciate your input

I think me saying I have dealt with such men is making you guys believe I am latching on or unable to love anyone without money. Which is the furthest from the truth. Soon as people hear I have dated them without even knowing me... I get the "Gold digger" title. I wonder if I haven't said anything would you still have thought that. I don't only date those type of people. I was just saying that they pursue me but I've only actually gave 2 out of 4 the time of day. I date "average" men as well. So please don't prejudge me on my past mates.

Oliva- This part is so true, when I drink I totally lose my head and for some reason attack my current mate. I Cause arguments that don't end well. I have recently given up even having an occasional drink because of that.

You've also got a rather nasty fixed star called Algol on your 7 cusp, and that can lead to losing one's head (metaphorically or sometimes literally). Basically it's confirming that you're not seeing straight when it comes to love. If you drink - don't with men you're dating, at least until you get to know them quite well. Algol comes from the Arabic al-ghoul - alcohol is one of its meanings in English.

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Thank you

@Caro

I'm going to look up my Juno placement


Off To Google, LoL


ETA:

It's placed in cancer

Juno in Cancer: You need a sensitive, nurturing partner. Careful though. If Juno is making too many stressful aspects, you will have to nurture them, and they will whine and complain endlessly.

Juno in the 8th House: You need a Sex Machine for a partner. Since the 8th house rules the partner's possessions, well, they may regard you as a possession (especially if there are stress aspects). Marriage and partnership can also help you to reconstruct or transform yourself (whether you want to or not).

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Hi,

I am a gemini sun in 7th with scorpio ascendant and mercury in sixth too...

So, I understand very very well your approch to astrology as a science which could give you solutions.

We all have problems and don't get so sad because of a certain conjunction in a certain house,...

We can handle any thing and you will be fine...

Take care.

Where in a chart does a person see himself
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?p=157562#post157562

Researching rulers of houses will help you understand more where I joining the dots so to speak
http://www.cafeastrology.com/natal/rulersofhousesinhouses.html
http://www.trans4mind.com/personal_development/astrology/LearningAstrology/housesDerived.htm

12th house planets/aspects
http://www.dkfoundation.co.uk/dkfoun...rmaHouse12.htm
http://www.astrology.com/aboutastrol...s/house12.html
Research threads on AW
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum...ght=12th+house
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum...ght=12th+house
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum...ght=12th+house
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum...ght=12th+house
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum...ght=12th+house

What Astrology Can and Can Not Do
http://www.ofspirit.com/susanmiller1.htm

A lot of us have issues in the love sector – see how many posts on this board relate to that. There is a lot about my chart when I initially saw it that I found hard to understand. Saturn in the 5th for starters!

Maybe once you have worked through some of these issues and when true love comes along it will have been worth the wait!!!

Ive just discovered Juno myself – its fascinating.