Bubuza_dulce -
What I did was 'break-down' my personal planets and linked them up with the gender for the sign that they are in.
Sun, Moon, Mercury & Venus - Masculine energy
Mars - Feminine energy
My ego & life force
The way I deal with things emotionally
The way I communicate and think
& My sense of beauty, personal taste and what I find attractive are all in masculine signs.
My sexual energy is in a feminine sign, and it trines my feminine Asc and my femine Neptune.
So all this masculine energy is having to express itself through a feminine water sign, which it doesn't like to do.
I feel though, that this feminine trine of Mars to my feminine Asc is why, despite having so much masculine energy, that I'm not a lesbian.
(even though many think I am)
In your chart, you have 3 masculine and 2 feminine personal planets.
I have 4 masculine and only 1 feminine.
The differences in our charts are:
my sun - masculine.............
your sun - masculine
my moon - masculine...........
your moon - feminine
my mercury - masculine.......
your mercury - feminine
my venus - masculine..........
your venus - masculine
my mars - feminine..............
your mars - masculine
my Asc - feminine...............your Asc - masculine
The reason you get along well with women is the feminine/water Moon & Mercury. The rest of your personal planets are in masculine signs.
I have alot of problems with men because of the masculine energy of my personal planets. Some men are intimidated, or feel threatened by my 'strong woman' mentality. This could explain why you have similar problems with them. I have found this especially true when dealing with
'alpha' male types that think women are on this earth only to serve them.
Your masculine Sun, Venus & Mars energy is having to express itself through a masculine Asc. I could see this causing problems relating to men. Why would someone want more of something they already have? You may want to find someone who has feminine energy planets that will balance out the masculine energy planets that you have.
Below are some descriptions of the masculine/feminine energies. Take your planet's basic meaning (sun-ego, moon-emotions, etc) and link it to the masculine or femine descriptions below. This will give you a better idea of your true essence, and help you figure out what YOU need in a relationship - not what society says you need. Hopefully then, you will understand my point better.
masculinity/femininity. It has little to do with being macho or girly. In fact, men with astrological femininity often compensate by acting macho (working out, claiming to be promiscuous or tough) and women with astrological masculinity often compensate by acting "girly" (wearing "girly" clothes and makeup, claiming to be emotional).
- Astrologically masculine qualities: Independent, dates a lot, travels a lot, energetic, active, headstrong, talkative, confident, open-minded, rude, sexual, flirtatious, prefers to pursue a mate
- Masculine/Fire (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius): Physical and active, tends to be passionate, confident, talented, charismatic, in good shape, into sports. In a word, the "doers."
- Masculine/Air (Gemini, Libra, Aquarius): Mental and active, intelligent, energetic, charming, good with words, articulate, optimistic. In a word, the "talkers."
- Astrologically feminine qualities: Prefers long-term relationships, prefers to stay at home, needs more sleep, methodical, considerate, reliable, kind, stubborn, depends on others, polite, shy, prudish, prefers to be pursued
- Feminine/Earth (Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn): Physical and passive, tends to be introverted, confident, reliable, consistent, interested in many things. In a word, the "thinkers."
- Feminine/Water (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces): Mental, passive, and attractive, emotional or sensitive, fantasize, creative powerful thoughts and actions, passionate. In a word, the "feelers."
Here is the approximate ranking of signs from most masculine to most feminine: Aries, Sagittarius, Leo, Aquarius, Gemini, Libra, Capricorn, Virgo, Taurus, Scorpio, Pisces, Cancer.
The
masculine signs make a person proactive, positive, and inclined to initiate things and “stay the course.”
Feminine signs, on the other hand – are the opposite. They make a person more passive, feeling-oriented, and inclined to respond
TO things that happen, as opposed to MAKING THEM HAPPEN
You can tell if a person is more masculine or feminine especially by how they respond in a crisis. If they tend to RETREAT and get stuck in their emotions, and do nothing to fix the situation at hand – they are feminine.
If, on the other hand, they leap to action and “take care of business,” fixing the problem without becoming overly emotional – they’re masculine. If they need to be comforted and attended to – they’re feminine. If they want to take care of and reassure others – they’re masculine.
Women who are more 'masculine' (4 or 5 masculine 'personal planets' out of 5) relate better to men than to women. In a sense she is beginning to go out of balance because
she is more ’animus’ controlled i.e. unconsciously driven by ‘male’ influences and convictions. She often appears too pushy or aggressive, and can project her personality in such a loud or insistent way that she is not well received.
She unconsciously devalues her feminine Self, considers male archetypes to be superior and, at worst, resents or rejects the biological role in which she is cast.
In her head
she places more value on intellectual development and professional standing than on emotional rapport and close personal relationships.
This woman has the potential for being the super intellectual type.
She thinks about everything she does and communicates emotions on a mental rather than a feeling level. She seeks mental companionship but also wants to be constantly reassured that she is a woman.
Though physically attractive she does not believe it. Sub-consciously she is not sure of her femininity. Some of these women seek compensation by appearing too feminine or sexy, as well as tending to behave in a provocative manner. To get attention as a woman she may over-expose her body then get angry when someone notices!
She could be sexually maltreated if she sets herself up for it. This makes for a troubled existence because
men do not know how to handle women with this kind of energy. They look so female and desirable that men have trouble comprehending that they need companionship and communication.
They project not from a feeling, or physical, or intuitive level, but from an intellectual level.
The man sees a lovely lady but hears masculine conversation and ideas, and will not know what to do.
Some solve the problem by having large families to prove they are real woman, but this ‘idea’ energy must also find release in a career. As they develop a personal identity of self worth and self love, they will change their appearance, project the right messages, and solve their problems.
my natal:
Anyway, in equal house system, I have no planets in 3rd house. My saturn is placed in 2nd house. But when I changed the house system into whole sign format, my saturn is in 3rd house. What house format should I use then? And what does it mean having saturn in 3rd house (in whole sign format)? Does it mean I prefer serious-looking friends? Or boring? 
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