Maybe it's the moon opp venus that finds you subjected to them ladies' insecurities... could also indicate mistrust in dealing with other women.
I remember reading somewhere - pretty sure it was a Liz Green book - that in a woman's chart, Moon-Venus hard aspects might show that the mother was vain and self-preoccupied, making the little girl always insecure about her appearance and sexuality, her ability to be "attractive".
My mother has the Moon-Venus square, natally, and that reallly fits her. Her mother was a vain, narcissictic socialite type( a Sag with Venus conjunct Ascendant in Capricorn) who never told my mother she was pretty, resulting in my mother's life-long feelings of inadequacy and believing she was totally unattractive, despite being well above-average beautiful.
She also seems to believe that women are worse than men and not to be trusted.
I, on the other hand, being born under a Moon-Jupiter tight conjunction in Gemini, have grown up feeling spoiled by women, and have hardly ever had difficulties in charming them.
I usually know how to play their inner mothering instincts by acting very cute and innocent. Mature and elderly women, especially, cannot resist me
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So I always wanted to have girlfriends. It hasn't been that easy, though. Sadly, I find that most women are so brain-washed by social demands that they end up judging other women by male criteria.
For instance, I was downright outraged when a few girl classmates in high school started criticizing me for not having a boyfriend.
Up until that point, I thought it was understood that women should stick together.
I also have Mars conjunct that Moon-Jupiter conjunction..have I mentioned that?
So, yeah, I see women as kind of she-wolves, ideally. Independent, but with a backbone and strong sense of duty/responsibility towards "the pack". Which is pretty much how I've seen my mother.
Funny enough, you'd think a Mars-Jupiter conjunction would make me get along well with men, but..I don't.
I have hated men my whole life, although that can come from having Saturn in the 4th house, and having a bad father figure.
Basically, I don't trust them at all and have no interest in developing relationships with men.