Hi,
Californian, whilst reading your chart, I wanted to ask you if career is not at least as important as marriage to you. Then I saw one of your later posts and got the answer to my question. It's wise to always look to the Lord of the Ascendant house and sign wise. Yours is the Moon (being a Cancer Asc), and the Lord sits in the 10th, so you identify yourself with your career and public standing alot. However, the Moon is not particularly happy in hot-dry Aries. There could be changes/fluctuation in job, or even career direction, and you might have boss
women you work with.
Regarding marriage, I too have to agree that you might either marry late (mid 30's), or, if you marry before that, marriage could be with a man much older in age. This is not just due to Cap ruling your 7th house of marriage, but also due to Saturn being in Cap (dignified and calling the shots). Saturn in Cap likes things stable, after lessons have been learnt, but does not mind delay. Also, Saturn does not have much help from the benefics, Jup and Ven. Ven is not happy in cold-dry Cap, whilst Jup, though well-placed (exalted) in Cancer, is retrograde (so weak) and in the not-so-happy 12th house. From there it forms an exact opposition (so Saturn does not accept it) to Saturn. Also, Saturn is in conjunction to Nep, so there is a tendency to be a bit blinded by the other sex, or at least always feeling like standing on water and not on solid ground. However, when you do marry, it will be for keeps. Another thing, with the Nodes on the 2nd-8th axis plane, try
not to look to a partner for financial security - that is one of the lessons in life for you per your chart. You have been obssessed with marital issues since two-three years, not much longer, I should think. You have Pluto going back and forth over your Venus. Remember also the golden rule, the more we run after something, the more it runs away from us. Take it easy.
AQ7