In this thread alone, you've changed your mind several times. First you said you want to be friends with benefits but you don't want a romantic relationship. Then you said you would be willing to have a committed relationship with him. Then you said you don't care about having a sexual relationship with him at all. Now you're back to saying you want to be friends with benefits.
My interpretation is just an interpretation, not absolute truth. One way or another, that second chart you cast shows his significator domiciled and yours in detriment in his sign. I would say that means you would have to have a relationship on his terms, but there's something about his terms that isn't comfortable for you. Since you were at that point saying you wanted a friends with benefits relationship but nothing serious, I took that to mean he would be the one to want a serious, committed relationship, which you would not be comfortable with.
However, it looks like what's going on here is you can't decide what kind of relationship you want with him. Your significator in that chart is the moon, which regularly changes. His is Saturn, which holds steady and sticks to something. I initially interpreted that as a desire for commitment on his part because Saturn and Capricorn tend to do that--want stability, commitment, and staying the course--and because you were making it sound like that was what you didn't want.
It does look like he's more sure of himself, whatever it is that he wants, than you are.
He may be interested in you, but based on that chart, it looks like the two of you have different ideas, and different desires, when it comes to actually having a relationship. If you do get together, those differences will surface pretty quickly.
That said, the chart isn't telling you what to do. You can still pursue this relationship if you want to, and if he's still willing. It just doesn't look like a relationship with strong compatibility.
