Yup, you guessed it ! 😊
Huh, so many things to reply, i don't know where to start...
I put already our relationship horary, also the synastry...
I'll start with why his dad hates me, I know it sounds like i'm not honest but I really don't know. I would like to know.
He never said anything directly to me (that would be awsome, then I could ask him about his problem with me), but he said that to other people (including my boy* ) a lot of times... I think his main problem is that his son is easy to play with (as a toy) and I'm not... When I was doing modeling he had the opinion about me aa being almost a prostitute (for God sake), he is sooooo afraid about me spending their money (like I'm some poor girl who wants it), whenever my boy and I have fight he is telling you don't need her, leave her, she is this, she is that, especially since he started living in the same building (one floor lower so he can hear us), we have the same cleaning lady (she says to me sometimes about his behavior), few months before car accident he said to a friends sister (not knowing that she'll tell me) that while he is alive i won't be his daughter in low (can you imagine my feeling when i heared that- i don't even know WHY he hates me so much)... Last year he brought a girl to be with my boy on terace (cousin of friend) he said let me call Mary to be with us "No, be with her alone this time" (really??? You assume how I know, my boy definetely tells me everything , also that's how I know that dad is filling his head with me being "bad").
I already wrote that before this car i had some old one, which he hated, he was telling that he is so ashamed of the car i'm driving .
His (second ) wife, (now ex, she left him too) asked him why he doesn't buy me a car since he is so ashamed - he bought it to first daughter in low... He said that I didn't gave him a grandchild (I'm not even married, also I wouldn't take that car, I'm just telling you to have more infos about situation)... One time she said to him C'mon you know that they're gonna get married, why you can't love her, she is so nice... He just said "never".
If it's him, am asking you HOW to get the proof?? That's so hard...
*about my boy
When that happened first two days he was normal, third he got so i don't have explanation- affraid, angry, stressed about all the stuff... we were fighting , he didn't have empathy for me, he even called my mom to come to pick me up because we were fighting a lot... He said that i'm safer at my house, since there is my family, and that that is my family's problem to be solved (that's our guilt, when police asked do we have some problem we said one- it was legal problem with one family- long story short they went trough polygraph- nothing on them)...
(From the start they are telling they have nothing to be affraid of)
So since then I'm with my family, he was wisiting... After like 3 weeks I started going back there and sleeping... He was all the time with his friends (the connected story is that recently all of his friends became single, so you know men), he was coming back home to sleep, I became unhappy, I told him, he said he is under pressure, that I'm so negative (can you imagine what happened to me, I watched my car set on fire and it's so strange that I'm under stress , I haven't left home for a weeks because I was affraid -but the worst part was I didn't know who should I be affraid off...)... basically he needs space from me to figure what he wants.
For a month we haven't seen each other, He wanted but I didn't , after that we have, but he is still in the same mood, he still needs time to think about this, this, this & what kind of family are we since we got somobody put our car on fire (The fun fact was that the key moment or the blow moment was when the agent told me to come with him to police, and told him that there are no evidence to my side, that this was something on his, or his family's and if they can help with infos did they have some fights, debt or whatever similar).
Current situation: my stuff are still at the appartment, but packed, he didn't let me take them out, but he doesn't know if he wants to be with me, he needs time, he feels good alone, but if we can stay in touch and see each other since he doesn't know exactly what he wants. OMG
On Sunday I saw his father , he knocked to cars door(boy and i were together,because I went to talk)- he was like what's up, what's new all happy - I guess he was happy that I was sad since I cried literally 2 mins before)
So that's the story about boy, ex, or whatever.
About guys who did that being different race, ethnick, religious- that's possible, usually people hire somebody close to crime stuff...
So to get back to car... I had that car for just a few months, and yes my boy was driving it sometimes, yes... mine was always more available and easier for short drives, it's almost the same car , just different color...
Honestly, I didn't have anyone to stop me talking about anything (I mean not that I know)...
Shouldn't those stuff come with a note? Like you get call or note why that happen, so you know...
About the question what is the father saying (i guess about the car) let me tell you something HE was THE ONLY person who didn't go out from the building when that happened...EVERYBODY got out, not him. Even his wife (ex now) for like half an hour, BUT NOT HIM. Police stayed there all night... they were also at the appartment with me 'till morning. He is the only one who didn't show up... Do you really hate me that much or are you happy?
Two days after I saw him normaly walking with his wife & child and he was like "what are you doing" (I am confused)...
I won't tell you that he at least ONE time called me to see how I'm doing because he didn't , not once.
On the other side boy's mom (who lives alone for a few years ) did for several times, and called my mom also.
About drug stuff, I don't know really... Maybe sombeody is using, maybe some friends of my boy are... I don't know... especcially about wepons. That's too much for me, honestly.
About debts , you know they have family complany, maybe they have some debts, maybe this was revenge, maybe somebody thought that they bought me a car, or that it's their new car...
I don't know.
I hope I helped with claring the relations between all of us.
I'm glad you like my mistery case