appreciate your ack and sharing feedbacks.
whether astrology is right is matter of personal experience.
people in true love do not need synastry and astrology,
as they are emotionally attracted and appreciate and understand each other;
and are ready to walk-together life long, come what may.
being friendly pre-marriage sharing and talking on a cup of coffee now and then,
and living together in marriage commitment and children
and sharing responsibilities to run family and life is something else.
Many people in love do break-up sooner after marriage
living and sharing life under the same roof and being part of a larger family,
having to live together day in and day out 24x7x365 for life,
not able to tolerate each other, getting real.
Astrology and chart matching is insurance against this separative phenomenon,
which needs to be done with care and judiciousness, enabling people,
while not encouraging what is not compatible.
the fact one seeks astrological input before getting married,
is perhaps proof there are self-doubts about living together life-long;
unless done for mere curiosity after marriage, to understand each other more,
or to solve residual issues and through remedies etc.
astro-data has been provided on compatibility,
it is for one to judge for oneself whether it applies experientially,
and whether there are alarm bells to consider before proceeding,
while planning to live together all life
with commitment and responsibility towards each other,
the children and the two extended families,
living with love-peace-sacrifice-tolerance with total acceptance of each other for life
with strengths and weaknesses and ups and downs of life;
other expert opinions too could be taken, double checking always,
especially when you like each other;
again true love does not need any synastry analysis,
being already prepared beyond doubt;
best wishes, kshantaram
moon nakshatra for R is chitra
moon nakshatra for Shi is Uttarabhadrapada
His is uttarabhadra. I somehow feel he is playing mind games with me. I dont like men who hv planets in Scorpio sign. He has sun in Scorpio maybe why he is manipulating n also egoistic.. in 7th house and moon mars conjuct in Pisces in 11th house probably why addicted to substance. His AK is mercury so again he makes use of his cleverness with me.. am I reading into this right ?btw which one is His chart? chitra/uttirabhadra?
hope information enables pick clues as relevant : uttirabhadra
sun scorpio 7th seeking a brilliant passionate well-to-do spouse,
while prone to separation; research-occult-forensic aptitudes;
mars lord 7th over 11th, gains through spouse;
moon-mars pisces 11th, gains from govt,
volatile emotions and finances;
jup lord 11th for gains over taurus asc,
gains through artistic aptitudes and advisory roles;
jup asc protective of the chart,
and aspect sun scorpio protective of marriage-relationship;
mer-venus libra 6th, winning opponents through personal charm,
literary-oratory-artistic-pharma aptitudes;
mer-venus lords 1/5 for prosperity though through extra efforts;
jup lord 8th for chronic disease transit mer-venus libra 6th,
prone to health issues - kidneys, liver, intestinal, skin, etc
sat lord 9th negating to 8th, negating luck;
sat now 2.5yrs transit natal sat 8th for chronic diseases;
cap inimical-malefic for taurus asc,
stress-delays in luck-edu-father-travels etc, settling at 36+
sat lord 10th over 8th, career issues;
sat sag aspect own acq 10th, protective of career
but not healthy boss relationships;
jup debilated aspect over inimical cap 9th affecting luck-edu-father-travels again;
last quarter 018 jup moves to sun scorpio 7th,
prospects of well-to-do marriage,
trine moon-mars pisces 11th for gains,
and trine elevated aspect cancer 3rd for initiative, writings, advisory roles;
rahu NNode now transit cancer 3rd for initiative-progress, excessive risk taking;
ketu SNode now 1.5yr transit inimical cap 9th, distant travels;
pain-injury-surgery knees-thighs etc;
natal ketu leo 4th, high self-pride, detached attitude at home,
detachment from mother-motherland;
pain-injury-surgery heart-stomach-lungs etc;
ketu next transit natal-transit sat sag 8th,
pain-injury-surgery, urological, thighs, etc etc
detachment from career-job-father probably;
do ack and share salient feedbacks how true-insightful-prospective etc etc
wishing well, kshantaram
Can you please guide me in any way about the guy and his current situation?
Because he mentioned that he is going through a rough time while he was under the effect of substance.. but when he is sober .. he doesn’t talk to me.
And he mentioned he was hospitalised twice in the last six months.. so am quite concernedं.
When I talk to him he says I talk too much, when I don’t .. he feels I don’t care.. I don’t know what I am suppose to do here .. especially after what he told me .. I would really like some insight into his situation and guidance of any kind of what can I do?
it is specific chart reading practically all about his chart, in case you would like to explore and take interest dispassionately.
you are after his chart though mentioned not basically compatible, you feel the connect;
the connect probably is he is sun secretive scorpio,
and you are saturn scorpio wanting to dig the secrets, equally secretive, suspicious, sentimental, passionate etc.
while sun-sat are mutually strong enemies and not compatible.
sorry in case all my reading effort has not been of much direct use, while you are indulged in your own thoughts and personal concerns.