I don't think Nancy Pelosi "hates" anyone, any more then I do. I say this because she is from my neighborhood, (although older then I am by a few years), and she went to St.Leo's Catholic School & Church in Little Italy, her home port.
This is not to say that a Catholic girl who also went to Catholic High School and has Algol prominent in her natal chart is not capable of hatred, but I really did believe her that she prays for him as she said.
She was simply disgusted by all his lies and exaggerations at the SOTU last night. Many were. He was awful! No class whatsoever, turning the Chambers of Congress into a rally
https://abcnews.go.com/Politics/pelosi-trumps-state-union-speech-tear/story?id=68776852