Hello helike,
1) This will help you get attached and passionate about what you aspire to and enhance yourself over what you will do. You will be selective about what you like. This will be in favor of reconciliation with what is wrong and listening while being appreciated. You will know how to make the most of being appreciated or loved. What will please you or promote love will be to assert yourself in a goal while committing to what you aspire to. It will be in favor of being appreciated or loved by showing yourself convincing. I'm in a decision paralysis at the moment. In a daydreaming state with that Neptune transit.
And I've always had difficulties to be 'passionate and committed' about something. Mars in a fixed sign, intercepted, retrograde and choked by Saturn So I rarely act... I'm the one who are usually acted upon I just go with the flow trying to pick up the thread of my life. I try to trust the Universe and the Divine Plan but now I am confused.
I find it curious and rather negative your way of approaching astrology through your answers: "Saturn in V = difficulty living with sex", "Saturn conjunction Mars retrograde in intercepted sign of Scorpio" = Mars suffocated by Saturn ", "Neptune transits my MC = decisional paralysis, state of reverie", etc ... I advise you to ignore all these nonsense if you want to move forward.
The transit of Neptune that you should take into account is that of Neptune in 2021. All the others before and after are not significant.
Regarding the passionate side, I was referring to the future transit of Venus which is less important than that of Jupiter ... but which will still count for you.
You have the ability to make decisions when it comes to your aspirations and what you have to do. I think that the decision problem to which you allude comes from the fact of not being appreciated, not to say loved. You need to know that you are loved, that is what is of concern and reflection. It can be experienced as inner suffering and a fear of not being listened to. Do you still have to justify yourself?
I think the key to unlocking lies in your aspirations. Then you may no longer recognize yourself ...
Honestly, I think you two can do something good in 2020.
2) NB: your answer to the previous post confirms the correction of your wife's birth time at 9:51 am very precise. You can take it into account.
I asked her mom.... She said 'pukul sepuluh dah siap dah' that means by 10am it [the birth of my wife] was ready so you hit it
Regarding the search for the time of birth of your wife, it could have been more difficult because there were several possibilities but they quickly proved to be invalid so that only one remained. And it's not 9:50 am or 9:52 am but 9:51 am! I admit that it is rare to have such a result.
Ecliptique.