Hey said:Venus in Gemini. These people LOVE to flirt, and you can't underestimate their need for variety.trouble committing at all.
Hey said:Oh, and I've heard the infamous Venus conjunct Saturn may have a flirting streak, too.
Yes, Venus in Taurus (earth), would certainly be more stable than a Libran Venus, which is 'airy'. Moon in Sag would look for change and movement, is mre restless, due to the mutable quality of the sign, and with fire as its element. Taurus is a fixed earth sign which actually values stability and sincere sentiment.blo1277 said:i am still trying to figure out if venus in taurus would act as some kind of stabilizer. with his moon in sag, I know that it makes him uncommitted, with his aries planets he likes new adventures and the gemini mars would just excaberate the rest. Plus he has a cancer rising. Maybe cheating for him is a guilty pleasure where he can't control himself but somehow regrets later.
Yes, I think that is the important difference when it comes to considering Saturn in this 'affair'. Saturn has a huge fear of rejection and dejection, even low self-esteem, and so finds it difficult letting people come close, and actually getting into a relationship, but Saturnians (Sat aspecting Ven) would actually tend to stay committed once they are past the hurdle of pairing up.Neptune Rising said:The Venus conjunct Saturn chap seems to have more troubles with his relationships though, they seem to cause him a lot of pain.
I second this, too. I have had this aspect in 2 synastries myself, and nothing but disappointment and disillusionment came out of them. And since I have Ven squ Nep in my natal as well, and a Piscean Venus (so again ruled by Nep), I deduce self-deception out of this aspect between both these planets. And I really see the world through rose-tinted glasses - when it comes to even general relationships (Ven in 7). Even if my worst enemy asked me for help, I wouldn't and couldn't reufse , and would give the shirt off my back (that's the 'martyr' Piscean Ven in 7).Neptune Rising said:Venus square Neptune, I've had this experience in synastry. There was no infidelity but loads of illusion. We were better off being 'soul' friends forever.NR
aquarius7000 said:Yes, I think that is the important difference when it comes to considering Saturn in this 'affair'. Saturn has a huge fear of rejection and dejection, even low self-esteem, and so finds it difficult letting people come close, and actually getting into a relationship, but Saturnians (Sat aspecting Ven) would actually tend to stay committed once they are past the hurdle of pairing up.I
aquarius7000 said:Yes, I think that is the important difference when it comes to considering Saturn in this 'affair'. Saturn has a huge fear of rejection and dejection, even low self-esteem, and so finds it difficult letting people come close, and actually getting into a relationship, but Saturnians (Sat aspecting Ven) would actually tend to stay committed once they are past the hurdle of pairing up.I second this, too. I have had this aspect in 2 synastries myself, and nothing but disappointment and disillusionment came out of them.
Seems like it's me you have a bond with, 'cause I too have N-Node conj Nep. Amazing, quite a few connections here, eh . Are yours (Nep& Node) placed in 4 as well, 'cause then our connection (with same yob) could really be karmicNeptune Rising said:Yep, very very true. And me too! Saturn/Venus are inconjunct in my natal, I don't think its as strong as conjunction though.
I have Neptune conjunct my North Node, so who ever I have a strong bond with, usually karmic, has contact with my Nodes, as well as Neptune. I live in delusion! NR
aquarius7000 said:Are yours (Nep& Node) placed in 4 as well, 'cause then our connection (with same yob) could really be karmic