I'm sorry to hear that your relationship ended.
Horary-wise, I did not think that the two of you conjuncting to oppose Uranus (from the 8th no less) could in any way be a good thing and it happens in 4 degrees here. Your breakup occured 4-5 weeks after you asked this chart (mutable succeedent house would show weeks). It was all in the Uranus opposition and the square with malefic Mars. Thanks for the update, although I am sorry to hear of your relationship's demise.
Im not sorry it's over. The entire relationship was based on how we could make him happy, not how we could make us happy. When the subject would come up about how it's all about him, he would tell me to tell him what he could do to make me happy. When I would tell him small things like, clean up behind his self, take out the garbage and things like that, he would start things but then he would stop. When I would tell him how he never completes anything, he would tell me that he is forgetful and for me to just remind him, which I felt was a cop out because I never forgot to look out for him, not in the least bit. If you love someone, you don't forget how to make them happy unless making them happy is not really a priority to you. Which may be explained in this particular thread...
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=19281 any way, it got to the point that when I did reminded him like he told me to, he would accuse me of looking to start an arguement, so, I could not win for losing.
Any way, the day that I broke up with him, I didn't say to him that I want it to be over but after he told me that I complain to much, I basically told him that I didn't want to make him feel like he was trapped with me, that i felt he should fly free and I meant that. He walked me to my car and before he departed away from me, he basically said "we will work this out"
I'm like saying to my self (I'm not working aything out, I gave my all and now I am just done). I haven't heard from him sense that day, it's been about 4 days now and
I can't tell you how much freer I feel from all of the head trips he tried to lay on me. I am free at last.
I am going to come back and post both our charts later on today.
Astrologer4U