PlutoLibScoAsc
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Are there natal aspects that attract sick or ill partners (healthwise)?
Edit add: placements etc. you name it.
Edit add: placements etc. you name it.
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Where's the chart?
Sorry, unable to share the chart but do you know any specific aspects that would have attracted such cases?
Of course. But I am not going to pplay "Guesss my Aspects". And it can be more than just aspects.
How about Chiron in the 7th house or conjunct the ruler of the 7th house.
Perhaps someone who has 'saviour' aspects. Like maybe Neptune /Venus/Moon aspects on the angles?
I knew a nurse with Moon conjunct Neptune in her 7th, squaring Venus in the 4th. She always attracted 'wounded' types, that she wanted to fix. It usually backfired and she had to take out restraining orders instead of wedding invitations.
you mean this natally, right? Any stories that you could share?
Yes, natally and no, I don't have a specific story to share but it seems a likely placement to find. Also Neptune in the 7th house would show a partner who was helpless, needy and clingy.
Also Neptune in the 7th house would show a partner who was helpless, needy and clingy.
Thanks! but the wounded type that you mean here, is it only in the emotional form? or like eg. wounded in a wheelchair (healthwise)?
Or a partner who is addicted or mentally ill. Or a partner who is very spiritually oriented. Or, especially when older, you might be attracting people who are in recovery from addiction: the mature version of the addicted partner, who has come out the other side.
Neptune in the seventh could also bring a tendency to idealize your partner(s), to the extreme. Which would be a setup for codependency, particularly with an addicted or mentally ill partner.
Your Venus aspecting their Chiron which possibly would be in the 6th house or placements in the 6th house.
Mostly emotionally wounded , although her ex-husband was an army vet, with issues from wartime. Not physical wounds, mostly psychological. Although he did have PTSD.