Female, 19
Sun: Cancer (3rd decan)
Moon: Scorpio (1st decan)
Rising: Virgo (3rd decan)
Venus: Aries (2nd decan)
Mars & Mercury: Gemini (3rd decan)
Pluto: Scorpio (1st decan); Pluto conjunct Ascendant
Favorites:
Aries: They know what they want in life, they give interesting stories and their fiery spirit is just contagious. What I like about them is that they are real and upfront about things so small petty issues won't snowball into bigger problems. While other people see their fiery temper as annoying, I find it hilarious when an Aries is mad because the way they tell/describe their stories become very pumped-up.
Aquarius (male): They are really one of a kind, considerate, helpful and resourceful. They will open your mind in so many ways and it's hilarious to be around them. They are also spontaneous and creative. However, I don't get along with female aquariuses, I find them extremely & discreetly socially manipulative; mind games do not entertain me.
Cancer: Tricky one. It depends on their level of maturity, but they are great storytellers, caring and sensitive to your needs. Always there if you need a shoulder to cry on. If you find the right one, keep them for life as they are truly loyal people. They need people who are emotionally aware to their mood swings; the people to give them the right balance between comfort and space.
Scorpios: I really relate to Scorpios. I appreciate that they see the ugliness in reality, instead of looking the world through rose-tinted glasses like most people do. They really intrigue me with their passion and ability to read minds/through people's facade, and they are mostly analytical/deep thinkers. Most importantly, I like their idea of revenge as getting justice, as I think it is justified (although not necessarily correct) to make people who hurt you, feel what you felt. Also, their dark humor is my cup of tea. Their dark side is scary tho, don't get on a Scorpio's bad side; otherwise ur dead meat to them.
Sagittarius: Their jokes are really out of this world, their comments are really hilarious where appropriate, and they overall give this shining aura when they enter a room with their smiles. I like their honesty and being upfront, just like Aries. Sags teach me the value of embracing freedom both within ourselves and our environment, the beauty of travelling and learning about other cultures, and seeing the silver lining in the darkest times; something which I struggle to do.
Virgos: Oh I love them. They are very hardworking people, which is always something to look up to. They also help get your life in order by having the right advice/input to problems, and it honestly works. I love how straight and honest when they speak, it's savage as, more often than not, they base it on facts/observations! Sometimes may act as a know-it-all, but for me it's better if I know something new than not gaining any information.
Neutral:
Pisces: They are imaginative and creative, but might be too clingy and sensitive/suspicious even without much evidence to call people out for their wrongdoings.
Leo: Their confidence and charisma is something to admire about, but their high standards and attention-seeking/spotlight nature is something I would avoid.
Gemini: They are really good conversationalists and are bright thinkers, but they seem too fast-paced for me, and I don't see them sticking around for long-term connections.
Hate:
Libras: Libras, libras, libras. Ugh. First of all, don't criticise my post about me being "unbalanced" about your sign - read the title of the post. I wrote only what I like/don't like about the 12 signs, and for a sign to be placed under "hate", these words can sting but don't take it personally.
I am biased towards disliking Libras, because not just based on one, but, based on numerous short-lived, ex-friendships with them, I barely see good in them even after giving the benefit of the doubt. I'm glad I cut them off, as I dislike untrustworthy people making me feel susceptible/exposed; you never know when they will switch sides with whoever (could be ur enemy) is favorable to them.
They try to conceal their insecurities with their charm/innocent look and sweet, manipulative words. They follow the crowd and don't stand their own ground, making them superficial or disloyal. They also are very hypocritical and quick to judge others, all because they are really insecure inside. What I absolutely HATE about Libras is they can't choose between which tribe of people to stick to, because their identities are torn between different influences of different groups. Thus, I don't trust them at all because they are very swayed by people or situations that benefit them the most instead of their friends, which may cause harm to other people's feelings. Yes, it is important to do so sometimes, but turning your back against people close to you, and expecting to be validated by those people? Dream in La La Land.
If you are no longer useful to a Libra, say bye-bye, they will ditch and dismiss the connection you thought you had. Even if they perceive their faults, they will make sure the people around you have a bad impression on you by trash-talking behind your back, twisting your words.
Another thing that BUGS the hell out of me is that Libras tend to NOT LISTEN to other people but expects to be listened to all the time, so in my argument with an ex-Libra friend, I had little say on my opinion as she kept on cutting me off - to Libras, they MUST be right no matter what.
She was basically blaming the fall of our friendships on my friends & I not inviting her sometimes (to me, she being immature as she did NOT consider our different schedules and impromptu decisions), and was angry at me for treating her as a 'secondary friend', when, at that point in time, we had barely got to know each other. (To a Libra, a stranger is a potential friend, but to me, strangers may be a form of malice; depending on their intentions. Thus, I had a cold exterior as a defense mechanism.)
She also told me that I'm not giving her enough attention - which is ANNOYING because she does not understand how important privacy/alone time is for me to recharge; meaning I can't be there for you 24/7. She thought that I was just merely being hurt, over her ditching our friendship so suddenly, but there was so much more to it, I just couldn't express it as I feel she wasn't even worthy to hear my other thoughts.
So, I just plainly told her that I'm not a controlling person over people's choices in friendships and told her that "Stay, stay or Leave, leave" and that I couldn't see her as a friend anymore, but a mere acquaintance.
Basically, she told me she didn't want to have any bad blood with me as she knows how vengeful I can be, so I pretended to play along, but I'll make sure she gets a taste of her own medicine whenever it's the right time.
God, I feel like Eve was a Libra.
Again, I am biased towards disliking Libras all because not a single Libra in my life has been of well-intent, and tend to act the same. So, Libras, don't go complaining after this saying what a ***** I am for roasting you, go ask a Leo to seek validation for yourselves lmao.
Capricorns: I honestly don't understand why they have to be so closed off and still expect people to be friends with them. Their cunningness and thrist for power is not cool, it just intimidates potential friends/allies because they think they are just being used for resources/personal benefits. Also, watch that temper of yours, it makes you look mad lmao. I overall feel unease when with them because you never know what they are thinking/plotting. However, this may not apply to most Caps cus I just happened to have a bad encounter with a really shitty Cap (unlike in the case of Libras).
What I feel both capricorn and libras have in common is their lack of openness in a relationship, which leads to false and negative assumptions made about the other party. However the difference is that Capricorn's nature likes closed off, while Libras dislike conflict and prefer subtle passive-aggressiveness. This makes both signs difficult to talk diplomatically with the other person when problems arise in a relationship. And for me, if I sense or find out you're hiding something for me, that's a dead end to you.
Taurus: Can I just say, that most Tauruses are - S t u b b o r n? However, I'm not in the best position to roast this sign as I only met a few crazy Tauruses, so I can't jump to conclusions based on one person. There is not much to rant about this sign, but one of my encounters with them has been very negative. This Taurean girl stole her best friends' boyfriend and twisted people's words to tell fake stories to other people. Back then, she even almost tried to badmouth me for being an introvert to other people, so that they would purposefully have a negative opinion on me. Looking back, it was foolish of me to give the attention she wanted and to care what others thought about me. But the moral of the story becomes strikingly clear - actively hurting people is not cool, and you reap what you sow - karma will get you. I saw her being isolated by her friends, where she is now, with my own eyes because people have found out what she truly was.