(this is not about anyone particular, as i don't know anyone here
) remember also that just because someone *says* something about your chart, doesn't mean it is so. or maybe it is so, "but...", and mitigating circumstances or other chart influences alter it.
just don't let "tendencies" become self-fulfilling *prophecies*. like, say your map sez, "there are holes." so you don't go running headlong down the path in the dark of night. but someone could read it is, "oh, my! you fall in holes!" and you get so worried and distracted, that you indeed fall in holes...