Cancer ASC and Moon is sitting on the ASC at the cadent side... We are astro-siblings
I'm also experiencing the same transit.
Saturn transit the 7th house is when you start to question your relationships. Are they worthwhile? Saturn usually gives you a pair of glasses that helps you to see the raw reality. It's different from Neptune's pink glasses when you see that everything's fine even it's not.
So Saturn's glasses shows you what's really there. If it's positive it shows that if it's negative it shows that also.
Meanwhile Neptune's gives you those pink glasses in your 8th house. 2nd house is your self-worth and 8th house is how other people worth you. So these two transits are a little bit confusing. I have Neptune transiting my Pisces MC (I was born up north so my MC is not Aries as yours
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Saturn is showing you the reality how shitty your relationships are but Neptune is fogging how these peers worth you
Me too! Pluto has crossed my DC into my 7th recently, and Saturn is now crossing my DC. I recognize everything that's been written here..
Pluto conj DC was pure hell. My husband had Pluto conj moon at the same time, and the relationship went through 3 yrs of trials and ordeals. From being warm and stable in 16 yrs, it became unpredictable, painful and filled with power struggles, quarrels, deception, hostility and a large void between us.. I lived with him with anxiety, grief and a sense that I had lost him.
He came around, but lots had been changed, and we still struggle to land the relationship again to this day. I now have Saturn on DC, which indeed has sparked a springcleaning feeling for me relationship-wise... Saturn has made me see the harsh reality, and all the things I struggle to endure with him. Making me considering if it's worth it. Which I never ever doubted previously.
I also have Uranus conj my Venus, which- naturally- has led new people into my life, and new things romantically. Something I never, ever expected either, a couple of yrs ago.. But that was before I knew what Pluto and 3 years of rejection in love could do with a person
Pluto transformed me, made me stronger, more confident, not fearing loss anymore. And me giving up my dependence on him, has pretty much magically changed the whole dynamic between us.. It is also true that Pluto doesn't let you get up from your face-down position in the mud until you literally let go of what has been. I clung to our past history, didn't want anything to change. Which made this whole transit all the more painful. I truly suffered, was absolutely heartbroken, alone and sooo scared. Until I let go. now my husband is the one missing our past.. he feels I am more distant (saturn on DC, remember)- but *he is now experiencing saturn conj his moon (feeling isolated/alone). There we are, in a mess of messy transits. But we're still going strong.
(I have Pluto trine sun in my natal, though, and trine Jup and Sat.. Maybe that has helped me to avoid total breakdown of the relationship..)