There is no TOL because of saturn.
And there is the conjunction with mars yes, but in a declining 12th house will this conjunction be of any good ? i doubt it, especially when moon then goes to square with his secondary significator sun.
My guess is its going to dwindle away, especially now you are 14hrs away and he is away for the festive period.
There is good reception between venus/mars, but their aspect is separating.
Moon in the 12th is showing you are already fearful of something to do with you and him, i.e he's not been in contact much, contacts dwindled off, he doesnt seem that enthusiastic about meeting up when he's back etc.