anjelik
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I am not even sure how I would go about interpreting this, so I was hoping for some insight.
A friend of mine began talking to some guy on a dating site about a week ago and she is also going bananas for him. The catch here is that the man lives in South Africa. Upon her giving me the back story many things are unclear and I feel like she is omitting information. I found it very strange that someone in South Africa would join an American dating site - she cannot use her login to access the site in other countries and only the .com domain works for her membership so I would think the same would apply globally. It seems a little suspect to me, but of course I question everyone's motives constantly. Anyway, he has been what'sapping her and they have spoken on the phone so we do know he actually does live in South Africa, but is he who he says he is? Also, he has told her he will be coming to NY in October but has not given her a definitive date - is he attempting to do a "Bachelor" kind of situation where he lines up a bunch of dates to find an eligible lady in the US? Lastly, what is his true intention of joining a US dating site? He is 46 and supposedly quite wealthy so I doubt he is looking for a green card. Basically I am wondering what this man's intentions are and if my friend is just going to wind up very disappointed in the end.
Anyone care to give it a go? My gut indicates that she should not even bother getting further involved. Also, is there something about this she is not telling me? Her explanation about how they came to start talking was very very vague. She has a heavy Scorpio chart so I am kind of used to this with her.
A friend of mine began talking to some guy on a dating site about a week ago and she is also going bananas for him. The catch here is that the man lives in South Africa. Upon her giving me the back story many things are unclear and I feel like she is omitting information. I found it very strange that someone in South Africa would join an American dating site - she cannot use her login to access the site in other countries and only the .com domain works for her membership so I would think the same would apply globally. It seems a little suspect to me, but of course I question everyone's motives constantly. Anyway, he has been what'sapping her and they have spoken on the phone so we do know he actually does live in South Africa, but is he who he says he is? Also, he has told her he will be coming to NY in October but has not given her a definitive date - is he attempting to do a "Bachelor" kind of situation where he lines up a bunch of dates to find an eligible lady in the US? Lastly, what is his true intention of joining a US dating site? He is 46 and supposedly quite wealthy so I doubt he is looking for a green card. Basically I am wondering what this man's intentions are and if my friend is just going to wind up very disappointed in the end.
Anyone care to give it a go? My gut indicates that she should not even bother getting further involved. Also, is there something about this she is not telling me? Her explanation about how they came to start talking was very very vague. She has a heavy Scorpio chart so I am kind of used to this with her.
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