nicoleeehi
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Which one do you think is the most important?
Which one do you think is the most important?
Which one do you think is the most important?
Most important factor for horoscopic astrology synastry is time of birthWhich one do you think is the most important?
Hi nicoleeehi,
Definitely synastry. It's been statistically validated. Both modern and traditional techniques work. Avoid composite or Davison charts. Put charts side-by-side or use dual wheel, whichever is easiest for you to read.
You're looking for partner's Sun in your H1, H5 or H7. Moon will work, too, especially if it's a night birth. Lots of trines or sextiles between Sun, Moon, Venus and Jupiter, and Mercury if he is in a good place.
If you're not seeing that, don't panic. Your partner's Venus in H1, H5 or H7 trine your Sun is same-same. Your Jupiter in partner's H1, H5 or H7 trine partner's Sun or Venus or Moon same-same. Like that. Your partner's H1, H5 or H7 ruler in your H1, H5 and H7 same-same, although it would be beneficial to have a trine or sextile with your Sun, Venus or Jupiter.
Trines are better than sextiles, suggesting greater stability and longevity of the relationship.
Avoid Sun in H6/H12. That's indicative of a lop-sided relationship where one partner is manipulative, controlling or dominating and the other partner never gets to express themselves. You see it a lot in abusive relationships.
Likewise, avoid H4/H8 Suns, because those relationships never work/last.
Suns in H2 (money), H11 (social status) and H10 (position) tell you what your partner is after. They might love your money or social circle you hang with more than they love you.
Hi nicoleeehi,
Definitely synastry. It's been statistically validated. Both modern and traditional techniques work. Avoid composite or Davison charts. Put charts side-by-side or use dual wheel, whichever is easiest for you to read.
You're looking for partner's Sun in your H1, H5 or H7. Moon will work, too, especially if it's a night birth. Lots of trines or sextiles between Sun, Moon, Venus and Jupiter, and Mercury if he is in a good place.
If you're not seeing that, don't panic. Your partner's Venus in H1, H5 or H7 trine your Sun is same-same. Your Jupiter in partner's H1, H5 or H7 trine partner's Sun or Venus or Moon same-same. Like that. Your partner's H1, H5 or H7 ruler in your H1, H5 and H7 same-same, although it would be beneficial to have a trine or sextile with your Sun, Venus or Jupiter.
Trines are better than sextiles, suggesting greater stability and longevity of the relationship.
Avoid Sun in H6/H12. That's indicative of a lop-sided relationship where one partner is manipulative, controlling or dominating and the other partner never gets to express themselves. You see it a lot in abusive relationships.
Likewise, avoid H4/H8 Suns, because those relationships never work/last.
Suns in H2 (money), H11 (social status) and H10 (position) tell you what your partner is after. They might love your money or social circle you hang with more than they love you.
Hello. I agree with most of your post, especially about the H1, 5 and 7. But why is partner's Sun in 4th house bad? The 4th house is an emotional house. Plus it's angular. It's a very powerful house and I had always thought connection to this house was important.
I love this answer!!!! Thank u
Hi nicoleeehi,
Just to clarify, I'm talking about sign aspects.
Your Sun in partner's H1 and partner has H5 Venus.
That's a trine. Orb doesn't really matter. If they happen to be in orb, that suggests a more powerful connection. I don't know, what would call that? Suppose the aspect was exact. I guess you'd call that "soul-mate level."
So if your Sun H9 and parnter's Sun in your H7. That's a sextile. Don't get hung up on degrees. If your Sun H9 and partner's Sun your H1 that's a trine. If they're in orb, that's fantastic but if not don't worry.
Likewise, avoid H4/H8 Suns, because those relationships never work/last.
while Saturn and Mars in conjunction, square or opposition bring divorce with abuse and violence
"not seeing" abuse or violence does not mean it is not happeningQuote:
Originally Posted by petosiris
while Saturn and Mars in conjunction, square or opposition bring divorce with abuse and violence
This is inaccurate
... and it's not right to sentence a r/s to death over one aspect.
I personally know long-term couples who have synastry Saturn square/opposite Mars
but I don't see abuse or violence, neither divorce.
For friendship, conjunctions, sextiles and trines between Ascendant, Sun, Moon and Lot of Fortune (use the so-called diurnal formula for night charts), Ascendant for pleasure, Sun and Moon for choice, Lot of Fortune for need. Disjunct places cause lack of sympathy. Squares and oppositions cause enmity.
For marriage, mostly Sun and Moon matter in the same way, especially the Moon of the husband and the Sun of the wife.
Jupiter and Venus in any aspect with the luminaries in harmony keep the marriage pleasant, agreeable, and profitable, while Saturn and Mars in conjunction, square or opposition cause quarrelsome, unpleasant, and unprofitable marriage.
When the luminaries are inharmonious positions, but Jupiter and Venus are in aspect, marriages do not end, but they bring about renewals and recollections, which preserve kindness and affection, while Saturn and Mars in conjunction, square or opposition bring divorce with abuse and violence, Mercury in similar aspects adds more to the above.
This is something similar to what AJ said, although I would recommend ''orbs'' of 15° instead of whole sign aspects. This preserves the wide range of configurations without having 91° trines and 119° squares.
"not seeing" abuse or violence does not mean it is not happening
also in any event
you missed the key factor which is:
'...when the luminaries are in inharmonious positions...'
i.e.
here's the complete quote as originally written
"not seeing" abuse or violence does not mean it is not happening
also in any event
you missed the key factor which is:
'...when the luminaries are in inharmonious positions...'
i.e.
here's the complete quote as originally written
This is inaccurate... and it's not right to sentence a r/s to death over one aspect. I personally know long-term couples who have synastry Saturn square/opposite Mars but I don't see abuse or violence, neither divorce.