Crazy Plutonic Love šŸ’–

Hkk

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We hear a lot about Pluto on here but I have yet to see a serious talk about Pluto and love. How crazy is it? What are your insights and experiences with this?
 

or1000

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We hear a lot about Pluto on here but I have yet to see a serious talk about Pluto and love. How crazy is it? What are your insights and experiences with this?

I have heavy Pluto. Venus opp Pluto. So everybody in my generation I have it with. Iā€™ve got Venus chart ruler.. something Iā€™ve wanted to chat with someone about actually, the impact this will have on my overall personality.
 

Hkk

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I have heavy Pluto. Venus opp Pluto. So everybody in my generation I have it with. Iā€™ve got Venus chart ruler.. something Iā€™ve wanted to chat with someone about actually, the impact this will have on my overall personality.

When you say heavy Pluto what do u mean?
 

or1000

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I see. Would you say you get crazy in love? Like bunny boiler šŸ°

Love (what I know of it) has helped to realise things within myself and so helped me to transform heavily. Itā€™s a learning matter for all I suppose
 

Hkk

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Love (what I know of it) has helped to realise things within myself and so helped me to transform heavily. Itā€™s a learning matter for all I suppose

I understand and yes thatā€™s true. With love you learn a lot about yourself. Do u think your Pluto comes out though? Like do I get obsessed with it etc
 

or1000

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I understand and yes thatā€™s true. With love you learn a lot about yourself. Do u think your Pluto comes out though? Like do I get obsessed with it etc

To be honest, Iā€™m still trying to understand it. Not easy, this life, is it, hey?
 

or1000

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I appreciate this thread actually. Would be nice to hear some positive information on this aspect. In terms of the good you can get out of the transformations through relationships in them showing you about yourself. Cause Iā€™m still on this journey.
For a long time I could notice that I was seeing myself in others... but I was afraid of it in myself.
I clung to some people in my life for a while that showed me parts of myself but very, very north node in 1st type of way. No escape.
Plenty related to this aspect is what provoked me to delve into my pluto issues...
 
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Hkk

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I appreciate this thread actually. Would be nice to hear some positive information on this aspect. In terms of the good you can get out of the transformations through relationships in them showing you about yourself. Cause Iā€™m still on this journey.
For a long time I could notice that I was seeing myself in others... but I was afraid of it in myself.
I clung to some people in my life for a while that showed me parts of myself but very, very north node in 1st type of way. No escape.
Plenty related to this aspect is what provoked me to delve into my pluto issues...

Pluto has passion and depth and is no means fickle or superficial and in that sense itā€™s so strong and powerful in a love chart. It depends on how we use it or how we see it. Iā€™ve seen a lot of crazy love and thatā€™s why I was asking what aspects of Pluto cause this. Iā€™ve inky ever come across crazy love but I think with Pluto there can be true love even though I read somewhere that Pluto doesnā€™t represent love it represents people and obsession. I think that all planets have a good and bad side so Pluto can be good in love. Well I hope it can but I donā€™t know what the positive of it looks like.

When I think of Pluto I think of intense deep passion and hunger. Strong determination and willpower. That can be used positively like anything but I donā€™t know how.
 

or1000

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Pluto has passion and depth and is no means fickle or superficial and in that sense itā€™s so strong and powerful in a love chart. It depends on how we use it or how we see it. Iā€™ve seen a lot of crazy love and thatā€™s why I was asking what aspects of Pluto cause this. Iā€™ve inky ever come across crazy love but I think with Pluto there can be true love even though I read somewhere that Pluto doesnā€™t represent love it represents people and obsession. I think that all planets have a good and bad side so Pluto can be good in love. Well I hope it can but I donā€™t know what the positive of it looks like.

When I think of Pluto I think of intense deep passion and hunger. Strong determination and willpower. That can be used positively like anything but I donā€™t know how.

I understand where youā€™re coming from. It can feel like obsession yes and thatā€™s what Iā€™ve struggled with in the past. In my opinion love shouldnā€™t be wanting to obtain and hold something until the death of you. Pluto Venus can have you feeling like that. I had to learn to stop projecting and take ownership and put that strength into something for myself. Obviously, it really isnā€™t easy, and itā€™s taking back a lifetime of projection.
 
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Hkk

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I understand where youā€™re coming from. It can feel like obsession yes and thatā€™s what Iā€™ve struggled with in the past. In my opinion love shouldnā€™t be wanting to obtain and hold something until the death of you. Pluto Venus can have you feeling like that. I had to learn to stop projecting and take ownership and put that strength into something for myself. Obviously, it really isnā€™t easy, and itā€™s taking back a lifetime of projection.

I know where your coming from as Iā€™ve been there too. Where the relationship is far too controlling and about power. Once out of all that it feels like a huuuge weight off my shoulders. Yes thatā€™s great advice about using that strength for something for you. Itā€™s amazing how strong you can feel after your ā€˜releasedā€™ as it does feel like a trap when your in the thick of it
 

or1000

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I know where your coming from as Iā€™ve been there too. Where the relationship is far too controlling and about power. Once out of all that it feels like a huuuge weight off my shoulders. Yes thatā€™s great advice about using that strength for something for you. Itā€™s amazing how strong you can feel after your ā€˜releasedā€™ as it does feel like a trap when your in the thick of it
Itā€™s interesting because itā€™s not reversible either, as weā€™ve said before, our chart is our chart for life... so as much as itā€™s painful, the only way would be to transfer to something else and keep reminding self that this the souls journey !!!! Ahhhhh šŸ˜­
 

Hkk

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Itā€™s interesting because itā€™s not reversible either, as weā€™ve said before, our chart is our chart for life... so as much as itā€™s painful, the only way would be to transfer to something else and keep reminding self that this the souls journey !!!! Ahhhhh šŸ˜­

I know what you mean. Frustrating
 

Gemini888

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I may not be a good person to talk about love, with my unaspected Venus. My experience with Pluto is more about commitment and power (Pluto/Sun/Mars, 8H Pluto). It doesn't help that I also have Scorpio NN in 7H. I absolutely DESPISE betrayal. I have very high level of commitment and I expect people to do the same to me. I also have a tendency to remember betrayal ("betrayal" may sound pretty dramatic. It's because I put everything that goes against an agreement as betrayal. Scorpio much?). I can get very overbearing to some people who like to be more casual. It's just because I value relationship and I only want serious commitment. This is really out-of-character for a Gemini. But my Gemini side only appears to people whom I don't think worth my time. If you see my Scorpio side, you should feel honored.
 

or1000

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I may not be a good person to talk about love, with my unaspected Venus. My experience with Pluto is more about commitment and power (Pluto/Sun/Mars, 8H Pluto). It doesn't help that I also have Scorpio NN in 7H. I absolutely DESPISE betrayal. I have very high level of commitment and I expect people to do the same to me. I also have a tendency to remember betrayal ("betrayal" may sound pretty dramatic. It's because I put everything that goes against an agreement as betrayal. Scorpio much?). I can get very overbearing to some people who like to be more casual. It's just because I value relationship and I only want serious commitment. This is really out-of-character for a Gemini. But my Gemini side only appears to people whom I don't think worth my time. If you see my Scorpio side, you should feel honored.

You know, I get this. I think it can be what makes it a bit of a difficult aspect in general apart from the fact of it being an opposition anyway. I have a Gemini Venus but opposite Pluto. My Gemini Venus is very, what some would say superficial. Iā€™m interested in socialising and enjoying varied good company. But when I spot potential, I donā€™t have the same Gemini energy, and I expect commitment. I KNOW that I feel that stronger pull towards someone but I just want to be a social butterfly now and then and treat them like a friend too. But I would never ever be unfaithful.
 
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Hkk

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I may not be a good person to talk about love, with my unaspected Venus. My experience with Pluto is more about commitment and power (Pluto/Sun/Mars, 8H Pluto). It doesn't help that I also have Scorpio NN in 7H. I absolutely DESPISE betrayal. I have very high level of commitment and I expect people to do the same to me. I also have a tendency to remember betrayal ("betrayal" may sound pretty dramatic. It's because I put everything that goes against an agreement as betrayal. Scorpio much?). I can get very overbearing to some people who like to be more casual. It's just because I value relationship and I only want serious commitment. This is really out-of-character for a Gemini. But my Gemini side only appears to people whom I don't think worth my time. If you see my Scorpio side, you should feel honored.

I understand this Gemini. I feel betrayed when someone turns out to not be on the same page as me when it comes to friendships and in fact any relationships. I have pluto 24 degrees in my first house of libra. I'm not overbearing as I just walk away when I realise I have been betrayed. I think the reason why I do this is from experience as before I would try to 'work' it out.

I can relate Gemini and yes your right its Your 8th House. So you have your sun Gemini in 8th?
 

Hkk

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You know, I get this. I think it can be what makes it a bit of a difficult aspect in general apart from the fact of it being an opposition anyway. I have a Gemini Venus but opposite Pluto. My Gemini Venus is very, what some would say superficial. Iā€™m interested in socialising and enjoying varied good company. But when I spot potential, I donā€™t have the same Gemini energy, and I expect commitment. I KNOW that I feel that stronger pull towards someone but I just want to be a social butterfly now and then and treat them like a friend too. But I would never ever be unfaithful.

Gemini Venus is usually a social butterfly from the ones I have come across. Where is your Pluto or1000?
 
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