LostinPhilly
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On our synstry we have:
• (his) Pluto conjunct (my) Venus in our synastry
• (his) Pluto conjunct(my) Sun
• (his) Pluto conjunct (my) Mercury and;
• (his) Pluto sextile (my) Saturn.
His Pluto falls into my 5th house. My Venus and Pluto fall into his 6th house. His Mars and Saturn fall into my 7th house.
He definitely calls the shots as I believe he has the upper hand in the situation. The whole dynamic works according to his own plan, not mine. I can be pushing a hundred daisies at times and he wouldn't be fazed at times. It's very disconcerting. He comes and goes as he pleases. Even if I wanted to control, I wouldn't be able to because he swims away. I am the one who obsesses a bit (a lot), but he's the one deciding whether or not to move forward with our connection.
It's as though we're in this constant power battle even though we get along amazingly. He seems slightly controlling and possessive though which is quite odd because he doesn't strike me as a control freak (he's a Pisces). Yet, he wants to know about whether or not I'm talking to other men and such ... bizarre. I never ask about his past.
He however never fully vanished. He gave me a few doors to open in case I ever wanted to keep chasing. When he swam away the first two times, I was the one to vanish. He did this highly contradictory thing where he'd swim away and then start chasing whenever he gathered I wasn't gonna chase. Bizarre.
I want to add something to this.
I checked my synastry with my college boyfriend who was literally obsessed with me for years (he was online stalking me). It turns out that just like my Pisces, this Taurus' Pluto conjunct my Venus.
He was very very obsessive even when he was dating his now-wife. A month before his wedding, he was still stalking me online. It was very creepy. I never stalked him. I thought of him a lot, but I was not obsessive. He was, until I called him out on it and told him to leave me alone.
Hence, I'm not sure who is the most obsessive, Pluto or Venus?! In the instance with the Pisces, I'm the "obsessive" one. I'm not sure about how he truly feels about me or if he stalked me during these two years, but the obsession seems to be a theme.
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