HELP ME PLZZZZZZZZ,I M SOOO FRUSTRATED n puzzled

ABHI84

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Hello all
i m actually very frustarted careerwise.i am trying hard to get a good govt. Job, but dont know when i will get .it is getting too late plz help me sir.any one...................
I gave 2 atempts of indian civil services exam but did nt clear,have 2 attemots left...dont know wheather i will clear or not.i want to join a good bureaucratic and simultaneously trying 2 get an alternate as lectureship career.
Can any one tell me which career will suit me and in which field i should try to get sucess in life
d.ob.--18/04/1984
time-11:15 am ist
place -lucknow-india
sex-male
 

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R.J.

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Hello all
i m actually very frustarted careerwise.i am trying hard to get a good govt. Job, but dont know when i will get .it is getting too late plz help me sir.any one...................
I gave 2 atempts of indian civil services exam but did nt clear,have 2 attemots left...dont know wheather i will clear or not.i want to join a good bureaucratic and simultaneously trying 2 get an alternate as lectureship career.
Can any one tell me which career will suit me and in which field i should try to get sucess in life
d.ob.--18/04/1984
time-11:15 am ist
place -lucknow-india
sex-male


Good evening, Mister Shukla:

Greetings from Canada, sir ! How are you doing, today... Thank you, kindly, for your private email and natal chart information...I only received it, today ?

First of all, I am not a vedic astrologer, but a western astrologer. I posted here because you gave both versions of your natal chart.

I am very concerned about your current mental state and also, your thoughts about committing suicide.

Please remember, I am here to help you, but you must also promise me that, after this career analysis, you will go find some trusted member of your family, (maybe your Mom or Dad, or an uncle?) whom you can talk with, and help you get some counselling !

You need to find, asap, someone YOU trust in your local city to help you ? Perhaps your family Doctor can help you, but if you have no family Doctor, maybe your priest or minister of your church can also help you ?

You need to talk to your family, right away, about your depression and also, about your problems with finding work, which I believe is quite prolonged ?

If you cannot get a sympathetic response, then please email me, back, and I will try to find you someone who can help you...

Regarding your natal chart, you have natal Sun in Aries, Moon in Sagittarius and Cancer rising.

Moon, the ruler of this whole chart, is found in the 5th house of love, sports, recreation and creativity.

The Moon makes an interesting conjunction with the VERTEX, and Mars in Scorpio, also in the 5th house. Moon conjunct the natal vertex FREQUENTLY suggests someone who works with the public or who works in fields associated with Cancer, such as the food and beverage industry, restaurant work, real estate, hotels, etc.

Your MOTHER may also play a very important role in your career or life, as well ! Your MOM is also a very religious/pious woman who is very strict with you and can also be annoying ? (Moon in Sagtitarius conjunct Mars !)

Since Mars also rules your Aries midheaven or career, what this means is that, you MUST take RISKS, in order to advance your social standing or career standing.

Doing the 'same old, same old,' as everyone else, is not likely gonna get the desired results...my friend... During certain periods of your life, you MUST take risks and roll the dice...as they say...

Or else, your life will not get better...

The 5th house rules sports, are you good at sports or play sports ? If so, you can make a career out of the area of sports, if not professional athlete, then coach or trainer of athletes.

You also have proven abilities with young children and you could do well as a teacher or working with kids.

You are also very creative, and have much musical or artistic abilities ?

When the career marker is found in the 5th house, a career in the entertainment business is very possible.

I have found that many self-employed people or small business people have an active natal 5th house ?

Or else, a career springs from some hobby that you like ?

What are your hobbies ? That could tell you a lot about what future career to choose from ?

Regarding a career in the government, the government is ruled by Saturn and you have natal Jupiter in sextile aspect with Saturn, so you can find work in that field.

The reason is that Jupiter rules your natal 6th house of work ?

However, if you took the entrance exam, twice, and failed twice, maybe the universe is trying to tell you SOMETHING ? Maybe the civil service or government work is NOT meant for YOU ?

You will need to determine for yourself whether that is a good choice for you or not ?

If I were you, I would not put all of your 'eggs' in one basket, a typically Aries philosophy ? I would apply for work with different employers, not just one employer.

I think you should try to get into the workforce, as soon as possible ! Not doing government work, but ANY type of work !

You have the natal SUN in the 10th house...That means that WORK or career is part of your inner core of being ? You NEED to work !


I also believe that, once you find a job, that all this talk of suicide and depression with be dealt with, but you STILL NEED COUNSELLING !

You must see your Doctor to help you with your depression ?

Right now, you have two very difficult transits in your life ? Saturn, by transit in 27 Libra, opposite your natal SUN in Aries. Also, SOLAR ARC NEPTUNE SQUARE natal Sun in Aries.

Thoughts of depression, inadequacy, and despair are VERY COMMON with those transits...

However, those are transits..they do not last forever, things are GONNA GET BETTER for you, IF you change your thinking...

Jupiter by transit is currently in Taurus. When it eventually goes direct later this month and conjoins your natal Mercury in Taurus in late January, early February, 2012, that is when I see you returning to the work force...

Until then, keep smiling and keep busy...Keep looking...

I firmly believe that EMPTY HANDS are the tools of the devil...

Finally, you have Natal Venus Square jupiter in you natal chart... That aspect can generate an unhealthy sense of entitlement and also, some degree of laziness or slothfulness ?

Essentially, what that aspect suggests is that you have basically GIVEN UP finding work, true ?

You are not a lazy person, in my opinion, but you need to stay focused on realistic goals, (broaden your work search?) versus focusing on ONE EMPLOYER ONLY ? (ie. Indian government ?)

Finally, with all of your 5th house energy, I wonder whether the reason you are depressed is also because you have no romantic ties in your life.

Your Solar ARC Neptune is currently in the 7th house of love partners, (square natal Sun). I wonder if you got ripped off or cheated by a female partner or spouse, previously.

On the other hand, you have natal Mercury in Taurus opposite Pluto in Scorpio, so you could do the SAME THING !

So maybe, it's not just ONE THING going on (ie lack of work), it could be that you have no 'woman' in your life, or 'female' problems, as they say, as well ?

Comments, please !

take care, let us know how things are going...

all the best,



R.J. Smith
 
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ABHI84

Active member
@ R J SMITH
sir i m really thankful 4 ur support and ur concern.i m really touched, and feeling there are d ppl in this world who r that much caring 4 strangers.u have become very much respectful person 4 me i really mean that .
love u sir,thank a lot
sir according to ur interpretation some things are very exact but some r very wrong.
i m a creative person ,i m into singing (won many medal state level ),play writing; wrote so many plays at college level and directed too,i dance well(just as a hobby),i design cloths or ornaments just as my hobby to my near dear they really appreciate that n says dat it is very unique and different.so creatvity is true.
but as u asked that i m in to sports,so regarding that , i never played a single outdoor game in my life,just in my child hood days i played badminton with my frends in evenings and always get defeated hahahhah.....
next my mom is very near 2 my heart n i m more connected to her rather than my father but she never been annoying 4 me and she is not at all strict 2 me.in fact she does what ever i demand her or tell her to do,but ya she is very pious lady ,one man women,never gave a look 2 another man except my father.
sir as u said i can go in the field of my liking or creative but my education does not suits that field and i did not get any formal education regarding that.
i have done masters in public administration and after that i cleared a national level lectureship exam conducted by indian govt, 4 teaching at university level.curretly doing phd from an university here in LUCKNOW(UTTAR PRADESH)_INDIA,(i m trying to make it as an alternate career if i wont get through bureaucratic job)
sir actually my father was a bureaucrate, he is retired now,my sister is an judicial magistrate,so there is a demand from my father and family dat i sld join any job relted 2 power and i want that too.i personally like the charm of these jobs and want that too.so clearing civil services xams has become a matter to prove my self.and i also want to become that
so i just wanted to know that weather i can be come an administrator or any service related to power or not
actually here in INDIA these type of services have a lot of charm and social recognition,i know that in west, ppl are generally self centred and do the things for their own satisfaction,but in here in india ppl feel satisfied with their social economical recognition.
so i m also a part of that have to live here in india n cant change these things.
my family condition is also like that ,i do a job which suits it.my only brother is mentally retarted and i m his only brother to look after him so how will i mange by doing any job in which i wont be able to live here in this city.so according to many conditions a respectful govt job suits me .
sir but u r really a gem ,i really felt so good that how much ppl are concerned for a person whom they even dont know.
ur way of messeging changed my view 2wards world
thank you 4 ur support
love u
 

R.J.

Banned
Hello Shukla:

How are you ? Thanks for your heart-warming feedback...Appreciated it !

Regarding astrology and 'empathy,' I firmly believe that ALL professional astrologers (in my opinion?) need to be helpful to their clients, regardless of system or zodiac used !

Unfortunately, not all astrologers are helpful, but that is the BEEF about today's astrology, in general... It has become MUCH like fortune-telling, essentially a 'game' to make money and extract money out of people...?

Therefore, you will learn, in time, who are the exploitative astrologers and also, who are the lousy ones...

THE TRUTH of all things.. comes OUT in the WASH, my friend ! The cream will eventually separate from the milk, and will RISE to the top, I think...in many, many cases...

Thank you for sharing your thoughts about your parents pressuring you to become a certain career or occupation ?

That is a cultural factor in Indian culture, that western astrology, (in many cases ?) either ignores...or refuses to acknowledge ?

I have had previous discussions with Vedic astrologer Moo Min Bey about these sensitive topics and he largely agrees with me ?

That said, you have a debilitated natal 4th house, since Pluto in the 4th house is opposite Mercury in the 10th house. What that suggests is that you will experience OVERALL unfairness in dealings with your father (in this lifetime?) even if your father were an American born or English born ?

This aspect denotes power struggles and/or malicious gossip particularly with your father (natural ruler of your 4th house?) Venus, the ruler of the 4th house, is also squaring Jupiter, the ruler of the 6th house of work.

Therefore, due to this rift in your own family, your own job search has become more difficult, due to your family's apathy,. so I would not expect much help from them in this regard ?

Venus/Jupiter adverse aspects denotes major philosophical differences between you and your father, over matters of career and work.

I will predict that the overall dynamic of your relationship with your father will change, dramatically, when Saturn by transit, moves into Scorpio in early 2012, and conjoins your natal Pluto in Scorpio? (There may be two additional conjunctions of Saturn over Pluto, as well, it's a prolonged cycle...)

How that will change, I don't know, but it's gonna change BIG TIME ! It might get better or it just might get worse. With Pluto, you never know the outcome....The themes are always transformation, death, and/or regeneration..

Please let me lay it on the line for you, this is NOT a very pleasant or 'easy' transit (T. Saturn conjunct natal Pluto) by ANY means, but after this transit is over, you will be much freer as a human being and you will survive, regardless of what happens in your immediate family ?

Meanwhile, the future transit of Neptune going into Pisces and squaring your natal Moon in Sagittarius is also quite troubling and you need to be very practical about your emotions, in general, and also, how to manage your emotions.

One repercussion of this transit is being deceived by your own family...Or else, you might deceive yourself, since the Moon rules your 1st house Cancer Ascendant !

If you take prescription drugs to deal with depression and/or anxiety issues, be aware of potential side-effects, including physical ones...

If you have addictions to booze or drugs, Neptune transits bring out the worst of conditions, possibly a crisis of personal proportions...

Regarding government work versus teaching work, I would pursue both types of work, not only to please your father or family, but simply, to be as practical as possible !

You need to 'dumb down...'ALL expectations of 'power career' and relationships at this time, as Saturn by transit, is in your 4th house of home and family.

You are currently building a foundation, which will culminate in approximately 12 to 14 years, when Saturn, by transit, when conjoins your natal Midheaven...



good luck to you,


R.J. Smith


p.s. I see that you are now seeking advice from others regarding your own death or demise, Shukla ? Just to advise you (as a profesional horary astrologer of 35 years...) you CANNOT ask a horary question about your OWN DEATH ! The rules cannot allow this question, EVER !

The reason is that death...solves everything....it;s a completely USELESS question !

You know, I was very frank with you in my last post about qoing to seek professional help, immediately, and YOU NEED to do that, Shukla....

Please go seek out a family doctor immediately or go check into your nearest hospital...emergency ward...

In astrology, the natal 12th house rules suicide,,,and your 12th house ruler (Mercury in Taurus) is about to receive an opposition with Saturn in Scorpio, while Saturn will conjoin natal Pluto. Plus, you have SA Neptune square natal Sun, while TRANSITING Neptune is squaring your natal Mars in Scorpio !

To add to all of the above, NATAL MERCURY in Taurus opposes Pluto in Scorpio, an aspect of mental obcession, stress with everyday matters, and/or inability to personally cope with either family or career/work limitations...

Therefore, the threat of suicide (for you!) is VERY REAL, so you need to check into a hospital, immediately !

The local hospitals has psychiatrists on duty, they can help you !

Here is a list of hospitals and phone numbers in your area...If no one picks up the phone, please take a taxi to the nearest hospital...check in as an inpatient to EMERGENCY department... Please take a friend or relative along, if you can...you are going to be there for a while...


1. Medical College, Lucknow
Phone : 0522-2265424/2266310

2.Vivekanand Hospital
Vivekanand Puri, Niralanagar, Lucknow
Phone : 0522-2321277, 2328486, 2325082, 2325851, 2320822, 2328942, 2328943, 2327382

3. G.M.Associate Hospital
Kgmc Shahmina Road, Chowk, Lucknow
Phone : 0522-2266722, 2265721, 2265614, 2266724, 2266734

4. Sewa Hospital and Research Center
Sewa Nagar, Sitapur Road, Lucknow
Phone : 0522-2734553, 2734507, 2734506

5. Dufferin Hospital
Gola Ganj, Lucknow - 226018
Phone : 0522-2224050

6. Blue Cross Hospital
43/56/49 Gaurabagh, Kursi Road, Lucknow
Phone : 0522-2365075

7. Cantonment General Hospital
Lucknow- 226001
Phone : 0522-2451152, 2451377, 2480813

8. Civil Hospital
Park Road, Lucknow
Phone : 0522-2239595

9. Communicable/Infectious Diseases Hospital
Near Iron Bridge, Daliganj, Lucknow
Phone : 0522-2283584, 2222301, 2222020

10. Lifeline Hospital and Heart Centre
B - 1/31, Sector K, Aliganj, Lucknow
Phone : 0522-2321686, 2763433, 2364344

11. Lucknow Hospital
Police Station, Kanpur Road, Behind Krishna Nagar, Lucknow - 226004
Phone : 0522-2451617

12. Tuberculosis Hospital, Lucknow
Phone : 0522-2263367

13. Medwin Hospital and Health Centre
2/57, Vijay Khabd, Gomtinagar, Lucknow
Phone : 0522-2394762

14. Shalimar Hospital
A-989, Adjacent Surya Restaurant, Indiranagar, Lucknow
Phone : 0522-2389001

15. Rajendranagar Hospital
74, 2nd Street, Rajendra Nagar, Lucknow
Phone : 0522-2274444,2216917,2222022

16. Veerangana Jhalkari Bai Female Hospital
Near State Zoo, Lucknow
Phone : 0522-2239126

17. Rajpoot Hospital
Azad Nagar, Alambagh, Lucknow
Phone : 0522-2451183



best regards, let us know how things work out...


R.J.









@ R J SMITH
sir i m really thankful 4 ur support and ur concern.i m really touched, and feeling there are d ppl in this world who r that much caring 4 strangers.u have become very much respectful person 4 me i really mean that .
love u sir,thank a lot
sir according to ur interpretation some things are very exact but some r very wrong.
i m a creative person ,i m into singing (won many medal state level ),play writing; wrote so many plays at college level and directed too,i dance well(just as a hobby),i design cloths or ornaments just as my hobby to my near dear they really appreciate that n says dat it is very unique and different.so creatvity is true.
but as u asked that i m in to sports,so regarding that , i never played a single outdoor game in my life,just in my child hood days i played badminton with my frends in evenings and always get defeated hahahhah.....
next my mom is very near 2 my heart n i m more connected to her rather than my father but she never been annoying 4 me and she is not at all strict 2 me.in fact she does what ever i demand her or tell her to do,but ya she is very pious lady ,one man women,never gave a look 2 another man except my father.
sir as u said i can go in the field of my liking or creative but my education does not suits that field and i did not get any formal education regarding that.
i have done masters in public administration and after that i cleared a national level lectureship exam conducted by indian govt, 4 teaching at university level.curretly doing phd from an university here in LUCKNOW(UTTAR PRADESH)_INDIA,(i m trying to make it as an alternate career if i wont get through bureaucratic job)
sir actually my father was a bureaucrate, he is retired now,my sister is an judicial magistrate,so there is a demand from my father and family dat i sld join any job relted 2 power and i want that too.i personally like the charm of these jobs and want that too.so clearing civil services xams has become a matter to prove my self.and i also want to become that
so i just wanted to know that weather i can be come an administrator or any service related to power or not
actually here in INDIA these type of services have a lot of charm and social recognition,i know that in west, ppl are generally self centred and do the things for their own satisfaction,but in here in india ppl feel satisfied with their social economical recognition.
so i m also a part of that have to live here in india n cant change these things.
my family condition is also like that ,i do a job which suits it.my only brother is mentally retarted and i m his only brother to look after him so how will i mange by doing any job in which i wont be able to live here in this city.so according to many conditions a respectful govt job suits me .
sir but u r really a gem ,i really felt so good that how much ppl are concerned for a person whom they even dont know.
ur way of messeging changed my view 2wards world
thank you 4 ur support
love u
 
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selfless

Banned
MOON IN 8th HOUSE

By Vedic Astrology
MOON at 8th House-----when Moon is in 8th house from the ascendant , then the native has the chances of drowning(water), the doctors often visit his house , because he often falls ill (diseases like TB, running nose,chronic cold)...he/she has a sharp intelligence, but often gets involved in quarells..he is disturbed by his enemies , he is mentally tensed, often feels sorrow,and he/she has a good habit of doing charity..

the above report is of general type and may not match always..
 

ABHI84

Active member
@ R J
o my god so much concerened
infact yesterday i went 2 a doctor,s place.he advised me to exercice and gave some presciption
o my god u ppl r so good and kind.u searched d list of all medical hospitals in lukcnow .o my god i m sooooo touched really
but u need not 2 worry.i went 2 a doctor and he suggested that contiue medication just 4 2 months i will b fine and he said exercise is must
i m fine and plz dont worry my dear frend ,sir
i love u 4 ur support
 

selfless

Banned
u are now 33 years of age (running)...
36 th year of age is GOLDEN/BEST PART of ur Life....
HAVE FAITH IN GOD..
u were born on thursday, shukla paksha, Prurnima..
ur Moon is at 27 degree 04 minute ,chitra Nakshatra 2nd pad..
Vimsottari Balance dasa while Birth, Mangal 5 years 14 days.
the problems in ur horoscope are--
budh is debilitated (very weak, neechastha).
Shoni is Retrograde (Bokri).
Shukra is Nisfola(can not give proper result)..
u have Bhouma Dosha/ Mangolik Dosha..Mangal is at 7th house(marriage).
5th house's lord is at 12th house with Rahu, No chance of Love Marriage..
Shoni , and Rahu together at 12 th house, in ur life u may be deceived/deprived by someone..
at present, dasa of ,
Brihospoti/Shukra from 8.03.2010 to 8.11.2012.
Brihospoti / Ravi from 8.11.2012 to 26.08.2013.
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u will shine after 9th November 2012, have faith, u may be a hi-fi man after that..
just do the remedies below for 3 months, and u may always be happy..
Remedy:-1.... Worship DEVI MAA DURGA.
2...New unused earthen pitcher with cover to be dropped in running water (river/nalla)..
3..oil to be given on Saturdays..
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in ur Horoscope , Shukra is at 23 degree 33 min at Purva Bhadrapad nakshatra ,2nd pad, this has made u a poet, a lover of arts...u can write ur best poetry now within 8th november 2012..
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ur Sun is glanced by exalted Brihospoti(Jupiter), u may scintillate brilliantly after November 2012 in ur life/job/profession..Budh is the lord of ur job/profession, follow the Remedies given above , soon will get job/good job...
 

R.J.

Banned
@ R J
o my god so much concerened
infact yesterday i went 2 a doctor,s place.he advised me to exercice and gave some presciption
o my god u ppl r so good and kind.u searched d list of all medical hospitals in lukcnow .o my god i m sooooo touched really
but u need not 2 worry.i went 2 a doctor and he suggested that contiue medication just 4 2 months i will b fine and he said exercise is must
i m fine and plz dont worry my dear frend ,sir
i love u 4 ur support

Thank you for your response, I am glad that you saw the Doctor and you are being medicated...Please be advised that these medications (especially for depression or anxiety) often take some time to kick in, (usually about a week to 10 days) so you cannot expect instant results...

Regarding a fitness/exercise routine, I think that that is a very good idea, as long as you focus on simple stretching, cardio, as well as a hammer strength training program... I am a government-certified, NCCP Level 2, professional fitness instructor, by the way... I have instructed/trained hundreds of people over the years...

I think that you can also maximize your physical well being at this time by doing meditation and even regular prayer at a local temple or church...

The arcs to your natal Sun and Mars at this time also suggest a 'Neptunian' approach to sports and exercise, so how about something like yoga or even walking or light jogging...

In spite of your limited interest in sports, your essense of being is actually found through the 5th house of sports, exercise, etc. as natal Moon is conjunct Mars in the 5th house...(actually, natal Mars in found in the 4th house of home, so some of your exercise routine can be done from home, or at a gymnasium not far from your home...)


good luck,


R.J.
 
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