ScorpioChick99
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OK so "my Lion" probably isn't accurate anymore but. . .
I am a scorpio and dated a leo recently for a few months. He was the first leo I have dated and absolutely the most intuitive man I have ever met. We had a connection unlike I have ever experienced, I guess in part because we are both very intense people. We always pondered how much we were alike.
You probably won't be suprised to know that we also fought a lot. He knew how to "push my buttons" (so to speak) and I, being the stubborn individual that I am, called his bluff. A lot. I always felt like if we could learn to communicate -- if I could learn to express how I felt and he could learn how to put me at ease, we would have a deep and powerful connection. But alas, we never made it that far.
He came down to visit Labor Day weekend and we had a pretty big fight. The end of it went something like, Him: "If you leave, we are done." Of course, being the stubborn, stupid individual I am, I left. Well so did he (lol, can you blame him?).
Over the next few days, I texted him quite frequently to apologize and he mostly ignored me which was very rare; he always had something to say when we fought, even if it was mean. Though when he did respond, his responses indicated that he was on the fence about the relationship. He finally said "I need space right now, I don't think this is going to work out." I told him that I agreed but just needed to hear him say so.
And that was it. I texted him one more time about 5 days later (and one week ago) to say that I didn't like the way that things ended, hoped we could at least be friends and told him to "give me a call sometime if [he] wanted to talk." Radio silence.
Problem? I am sick with wondering what could have been. I didn't feel like we dated long enough to really know whether we were compatible. I haven't felt a connection like that in many years, if ever. My curiosity is killing me and my stubborn scorpio heart just wasn't/isn't ready to give up.
So, my questions are (1) are Lions not even the least bit curious the way scorpios are? (2) should I try another quick, small lighthearted apology? (3) Is he still "sulking" or do Leos not sulk this long?
Any "thoughts" are much appreciated. I am really having trouble letting this one go :-(
I am a scorpio and dated a leo recently for a few months. He was the first leo I have dated and absolutely the most intuitive man I have ever met. We had a connection unlike I have ever experienced, I guess in part because we are both very intense people. We always pondered how much we were alike.
You probably won't be suprised to know that we also fought a lot. He knew how to "push my buttons" (so to speak) and I, being the stubborn individual that I am, called his bluff. A lot. I always felt like if we could learn to communicate -- if I could learn to express how I felt and he could learn how to put me at ease, we would have a deep and powerful connection. But alas, we never made it that far.
He came down to visit Labor Day weekend and we had a pretty big fight. The end of it went something like, Him: "If you leave, we are done." Of course, being the stubborn, stupid individual I am, I left. Well so did he (lol, can you blame him?).
Over the next few days, I texted him quite frequently to apologize and he mostly ignored me which was very rare; he always had something to say when we fought, even if it was mean. Though when he did respond, his responses indicated that he was on the fence about the relationship. He finally said "I need space right now, I don't think this is going to work out." I told him that I agreed but just needed to hear him say so.
And that was it. I texted him one more time about 5 days later (and one week ago) to say that I didn't like the way that things ended, hoped we could at least be friends and told him to "give me a call sometime if [he] wanted to talk." Radio silence.
Problem? I am sick with wondering what could have been. I didn't feel like we dated long enough to really know whether we were compatible. I haven't felt a connection like that in many years, if ever. My curiosity is killing me and my stubborn scorpio heart just wasn't/isn't ready to give up.
So, my questions are (1) are Lions not even the least bit curious the way scorpios are? (2) should I try another quick, small lighthearted apology? (3) Is he still "sulking" or do Leos not sulk this long?
Any "thoughts" are much appreciated. I am really having trouble letting this one go :-(