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Unread 05-03-2017, 02:44 PM
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Re: Sibling charts - are me and my sister doomed to never get along?

Hi.

I think you can get along better, if you understand where she is coming from. And taking a higher ground when you talk to one another. Your both very fiery individuals- both wanting to be "right" or win an argument. Perhaps listening to each others feelings more, would go a long way.

What I see based on the charts -
Is your natal mars conjunct the ic, on her chiron -"where it hurts" - "wounds".
You will lash out because she will make you deeply angry - as you said "push your buttons". That is your Mars - reacting. For her, your Mars, can be like salt in a wound. She will lash out to defend herself in some way. Chiron is a very sensitive point in the chart.

I hope you guys can work out these issues, as squabbling over petty stuff, is a waste of precious time; family is not around forever and you should make the best of it, while you have it.
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