Thank you for your response, Waybread
How lucky could he be if people say things about him like you did, dd78? Being in jail is not my idea of luck.
He doesn`t care, he barely leaved home anyway. He doesn`t work and isn`t interested in working or having any responsibilities. His mother is old and sick and she cooked and did 90% of the daily chores etc. He spent his time playing PC games and getting intoxicated. Of course, she covered all the expenses. Now he doesn`t even have to do the dishes. He will use his jail time to make connections with the underworld and exchange experiences and knowledge on methods of using others with other inmates also convicted for domestic violence. So generally he is in a comfortable situation.
It would be terrible for most people, but not him.
How many people would describe this man as lucky in a blind chart reading without the introduction?
In reading a chart, I think it's best to try to view life from the person's probable own perspective on himself.
This is one of those charts with several indicators that I call, "It hurts to be you."
Sun square Pluto
Moon conjunct Chiron
Probably he feels vulbnerable and that the best defense is a good offense. Life doesn't seem fair to him, so he tries to dish back what he thinks he gets.
Do you know anything about his early childhood?
he had never known his biological father, his mother was a single mother and spoiled him as her only child. He was allowed too much, without facing adequate consequences for any wrongdoing or disobedience . He never accepted any authority or father figures. He didn`t socialize in early childhood with his peers. He used to dominate other kids and was physically aggressive towards them, so he played with his toys home alone instead of playing with other kids in kindergarten and preschool.
His mother is a teacher, so when he went to school (the same one, in which she was employed as a teacher ), he was a VIP and was protected from facing much (if any) consequences of his inappropriate behavior, feeling no authority above him, denying all the rules.
all I learned about his past from himself later proved to be lies and half-truths. I know the truth about it from his mother and aunt.
Saturn square Mars can indicate actual cruelty if other factors support it.
He lacks empathy and accepts rules only if he has no other choice. He uses emotionl blackmail and is obsessively controlling . He always referred to me as being his possession, not a partner. Unless in an early stage of love bombing.
The "talent triangle" involving Pluto, Mars, and Mercury-Jupiter probably makes him feel good (Jupiter) about being ruthless (Mars-Pluto) and getting away with stuff. Traditionally Mercury rules liars and thieves.
Exactly! From his early years he excels at lying, manipulating and using others and getting away with it.
This is his gratest talent, indeed!
He is no stranger to shoplifting, stealing from his mother and other family members etc. and drug dealing and more sophisticated forms of crime.
He has been mastering his talents and making good use of his seemingly endless good luck.
Never showing his real face and always acting to manipulate others.
After we had split up, He went as far to simulate a suicide attempt. In order to manipulate me again into being his slave and just another source of profit. Foot-in-the-door technique.
Since I cut all contact with him, he had no other choice. SO after a few years of no-conytact he came to the city I lived and still live in and jumped from a bridge into a big river, but then swam to the shore and was taken to a psychiatric hospital acting delusional and paranoid. The keyword is ACTING = FAKING IT.
Hospital personnel wasn`t taken in - he is a picture perfect example of Cluster-B personality disorder. It wasn`t a suicide attempt. He manipulated his mother to call me and ask me to bring him some stuff to the hospital. The hospital is in the city I live in and he lives with his mother far away , much closer to other hospitals. So he had apparently a good reason to be in contact with me again. In his mind he was justified - he was sick, depressed, disoriented. He always took advantage of my readiness to help others in need and exploited my kind heart.
But he was very considerate and tactical:
he did it only 3 months after my child (also his child) had died. He never gave or did anything to support the child. Instead, he demanded his "share" of child support I was getting from the country. Luckily, he was forced to move out of our hometown and I received psychological support, because I was basically a wreck. Drained of all my resources - physical, emotional, financial. (he used to take all of my money by using various manipulative tactics). He also did a great job in separating me from any people and activities not connected to him. Also from any activities that were a source of pleasure to me. ANd any emotional connection, trust, self-esteem etc. He made me think my parents didn`t love me and that I was totally worthless. And that nobody would ever love me, so I should be grateful to him for his kindness and not hurting me physically on a regular basis. In reality he was hurting me emotionally and I literally turned into a Zombie because of him. He decided about just ANYthing, including who I was supposed to invite to MY birthday party, despite the fact that he wasn`t going to celebrate. Whenever he noticed me feeling good for any reason, he did all his best to destroy it. And usually succeeded in it.
His Saturn-NN sits on my AC. That speaks volumes about how I was treated by him. I learned the hard way how to avoid being hurt and used.
Composite is symbolic: unaspected Moon in 6th house on Aries Point.
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