I'm in a situation where I'm talking to this wonderful woman who I developed feelings for and we've been talking for going on 5 months now but something about her doesn't feel right for some reason I don't know. I see everyone around me and their situations in dating and their situations seems much happier and satisfied. But yet with this woman everything seems so slow, delayed and even having the feelings of it not going anywhere. she seems interested in me and she mention she's attracted to me and like me alot but the pace shes going it feels like shes not being honest even when I ask her to about us. It feels like shes keeping secrets, secretly trying to "Friendzone" me or take advantage of me until she do find someone she really wants. I've been hurt in the past before like that and learned alot but maybe someone can help me out as far as are there's any aspects or houses that shows this conflict or secrecy between us.
I am uploading both our natal charts and synastry.
my chart:
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her chart:
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Synastry chart:
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sorry for saying that but ,you keep an eye on her bro
she does not seem so faithfull trustfull person
you said it yourself 'she says the she likes you and she's atrracted to you but
things go slow and she does not look so excited etc..
i smell secret activity behind your back are you sure that he does not seeing someone else?
search this thing bro i dont say that you necessarily have to be a spy but if you love the girl,then unfortunately you have to be one.
you should search what she's hiding from you and why she's not so warm and nurturing as you are,because this is not normal
usually women tend to warm and nurturing more when they like a guy
while at the same time guys tend to act like they re serious and that are not interested,even if they like the girl
at least thats what i would do if a love a woman i would even dig in to
the depths of hell to find the answers to my questions
do you prefer τo stay with those Questions on your mind and suffer ?
or do you think it is now the time to take action ?
be honest with her tell her that you re not satisfied with the way that she acts
and you want her to be honest with you
if you dont want to talk about that with her because you have the fear that you re going to offend her, and she will stop talking to you
then i suggest to make an investigation in what the heck is going on with this girl.
but as i said i smell secret activity with other guys
btw the most IMPORTANT = the girl has Mars on Aries which means that she likes dominate,confident,tough,strong,direct,guys,and usually with great body or muscular build
so if you re not that type of guy maybe this is the problem,
she likes the bad boys with tough attitude,she like the true alpha males who do not complicate things and they are true and direct with their words
women with mars on aris do not like the nice guys who treat the woman like a princess,
and if you are that kind the nice guy
thats the reason you re in the friend zone because you are a nice guy.
try to ignore her, stop talking to her and change your attitude into an ignorant bad boy to see how things will go
stop contact with her for 2 weeks -1 month or so ,
im pretty sure at the end you re going to see some signs of interest from her.