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Unread 05-05-2019, 04:29 PM
ChildOfVenus ChildOfVenus is offline
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Re: Being hit on by Married Men

Originally Posted by Sagcap88 View Post
First of all, I’m sorry that a grown married man was your first kiss. Unfortunately, in these situations, men are only drawn to your youth.

Hmmm, good question. I don’t specifically know but I’ll share a few theories that came to mind:

A) This could be a 4th house/Saturn thing. Maybe at some point in your childhood you didn’t receive enough attention due to a parent’s infidelity and therefore, reenact this in an attempt to feel what they felt by acting it out in some way or another. Maybe there’s a feeling of gratification in messing with someone else’s marriage because someone hurt you by messing with your parents’ marriage. Maybe not. Just a theory.

B) Where’s Black Moon Llth and Llth in your chart? Women with this conjunction their AC or DC or Venus, etc can attract married men. Some even enjoy home wrecking. Many are highly seductive.

C) Pisces DC or prominent Pisces/Neptune/12th house. I have a Pisces DC. I’ve been an empathic sucker for narcissistic energy vampires in the past.

I think C fits best, given your Venus square Neptune. The struggle is real. I think when we have those Neptune or Pisces placements, we have to work to protect ourselves. Jewel Mayberry has some videos about the astrology of an empath — great stuff. There are also tons of good articles for empaths to learn how to protect themselves from attracting vampires.
I think it's the Venus square Uranus thanks for your input though. I will check my Black Moon Lilith and Lilith. I personally don't think I'm a homewrecker though. The one time I got involved was when I was a teenager and I didn't have sex with guy. He just kissed me and felt me up. I always said I'd never get involved like that again because it was a mess when everyone found out. But it's still an issue I don't engage in it though I just let them flirt.

Last edited by ChildOfVenus; 05-05-2019 at 04:32 PM.
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