Abby83
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So I’d like to look at astrology in regards to sadism and masochism.
I was a masochist until I worked on my subconscious mind with the help of a psychotherapist. The patterns I fell into were dangerous. I am Pluto in libra 12th house with sun and Saturn there too. I’ve always been strongly attracted to sadists before I even knew that they were. But I never had sex with them. They were the types of guys who enjoyed hurting me emotionally or through social humiliation to boost their ego and then they’d jack off about it later.
As for the sadist, I’m wondering if they would have a prominent 1st house with strong Pluto or Aries? The thing I find interesting about the sadist is that he takes pleasure in hurting the woman. He receives sexual gratification when he can lower her. The masochist loves the man being dominant but also is stimulated by pain. I know this sounds silly, but I’m confused whether this is healthy. Of course abuse is not ok. Part of me sees that both of them are attracted to each other. I see the masochist enjoy submitting and sacrifing themselves. But I somehow feel the sadist would take things too far.
I’d love to hear other ppls experience on this. I won’t be too shocked or disturbed by stories so please feel free to express what you know about the matter. Both astrological and personal experiences.
I was a masochist until I worked on my subconscious mind with the help of a psychotherapist. The patterns I fell into were dangerous. I am Pluto in libra 12th house with sun and Saturn there too. I’ve always been strongly attracted to sadists before I even knew that they were. But I never had sex with them. They were the types of guys who enjoyed hurting me emotionally or through social humiliation to boost their ego and then they’d jack off about it later.
As for the sadist, I’m wondering if they would have a prominent 1st house with strong Pluto or Aries? The thing I find interesting about the sadist is that he takes pleasure in hurting the woman. He receives sexual gratification when he can lower her. The masochist loves the man being dominant but also is stimulated by pain. I know this sounds silly, but I’m confused whether this is healthy. Of course abuse is not ok. Part of me sees that both of them are attracted to each other. I see the masochist enjoy submitting and sacrifing themselves. But I somehow feel the sadist would take things too far.
I’d love to hear other ppls experience on this. I won’t be too shocked or disturbed by stories so please feel free to express what you know about the matter. Both astrological and personal experiences.
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