wan
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Hello. I am just wondering which you prefer using, composite chart or synastry comparison, when trying to decide whether two people will work out, in terms of romance.
Personally, I find that composite chart carries more weight than straight synastry comparison. There is this guy that I have been talking to for over a year, and we have a lot of heavy-weight contacts between our charts: His moon conjunct both my Saturn and descendant, and his mars conjuncts my ascendant. We have Sun-Pluto double whammy, where his pluto squares my sun and my pluto also squares his sun. His saturn conjuncts my moon. However, I am just not attracted to him in any romantic way, and when I drew up our composite, I saw that most of the planets fell in the 3rd house, a cadent and very "unromantic" house.
The synastry between me and my ex-manager (lol yes, we are still talking despite the fact I quit on him) is quite bad, his Moon is in my 12th, my Venus, mercury, Sun and jupiter in his 12th. Our Moons square very closely. My mars square his venus. However, I feel this insane attraction for him, and when I drew up our composite, lo and behold, we had a packed 4th house that included, among other things, the Sun and the chart ruler. The composite sun also trines the moon very closely.
The previous guy I liked had an even sh*ttier synastry with me, however I was absolutely head over heels for him, and we had a grand trine in our composite.
And it is because of these experiences that I personally have had, that I reach the conclusion that composite chart prevails over synastry, and I don't seem to be alone in thinking this. I have read a few articles online where the author felt similarly. Anyway I would like to learn what other members here think, what their personal experiences have been. Thanks.
Personally, I find that composite chart carries more weight than straight synastry comparison. There is this guy that I have been talking to for over a year, and we have a lot of heavy-weight contacts between our charts: His moon conjunct both my Saturn and descendant, and his mars conjuncts my ascendant. We have Sun-Pluto double whammy, where his pluto squares my sun and my pluto also squares his sun. His saturn conjuncts my moon. However, I am just not attracted to him in any romantic way, and when I drew up our composite, I saw that most of the planets fell in the 3rd house, a cadent and very "unromantic" house.
The synastry between me and my ex-manager (lol yes, we are still talking despite the fact I quit on him) is quite bad, his Moon is in my 12th, my Venus, mercury, Sun and jupiter in his 12th. Our Moons square very closely. My mars square his venus. However, I feel this insane attraction for him, and when I drew up our composite, lo and behold, we had a packed 4th house that included, among other things, the Sun and the chart ruler. The composite sun also trines the moon very closely.
The previous guy I liked had an even sh*ttier synastry with me, however I was absolutely head over heels for him, and we had a grand trine in our composite.
And it is because of these experiences that I personally have had, that I reach the conclusion that composite chart prevails over synastry, and I don't seem to be alone in thinking this. I have read a few articles online where the author felt similarly. Anyway I would like to learn what other members here think, what their personal experiences have been. Thanks.
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