anjelik
Well-known member
I've read all of the posts and I think you should just back off and let him come to you (if that is what he wants). As Glinda mentioned, online dating can be a bit of a mindf*ck in a way - at least that was my experience. I never had a shortage of messages from guys, but we would go on a few dates and it would get wishy washy. I think online dating gives men an easy way to collect lots of women in their net with minimal effort. So if he is not giving you the same amount of attention, move on and you will find someone that will give you 100% of their time and effort. I dated in NYC for a long time and the mind games and uncertainty can be draining. I remember the days of calculating my text responses, waiting hours to read/respond to play the game back. I do not miss those days and there are people out there that feel the same way so you can find them if you just go with your gut. If this man comes back to you, then he does, if not then there are more fish in the sea! That's just my two cents (and if you have loads of time you can go back into my posts from like 6 years ago and see all of my stupid questions about guys that were going no where)!