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Somna7H 02-17-2020 06:40 AM

Emotionally Detached ?
 
Man's Moon and Venus Opposite Female's Asc, Mars and Venus. Composite Moon in 6th House. Female always complaining Man is Emotionally Detached. Is it true ?

ElenaJ 02-17-2020 07:48 AM

Re: Emotionally Detached ?
 
So she has mars on her ascendent? Grouchy personality in general.
His moon and Venus on the descendent is warm and cozy for a relationship but that mars opposing moon can be physically attractive but gets the emotions stirred up.
Moon in 6th has difficulty expressing itself well.

Somna7H 02-17-2020 08:13 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ElenaJ (Post 1027652)
So she has mars on her ascendent? Grouchy personality in general.
His moon and Venus on the descendent is warm and cozy for a relationship but that mars opposing moon can be physically attractive but gets the emotions stirred up.
Moon in 6th has difficulty expressing itself well.

Yes she is Grouchy.
She is very raw and emotionally immature(my point of view).
Who has emotional problem(oon in 6th Composite) male or the female ?
I'm the man here.
I have posted detail charts here
https://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?p=1026762#post1026762

ElenaJ 02-17-2020 08:20 AM

Re: Emotionally Detached ?
 
You said the moon in 6th is the composite, correct?
Which would mean it is a general quality of the relationship.

Somna7H 02-17-2020 09:17 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ElenaJ (Post 1027656)
You said the moon in 6th is the composite, correct?
Which would mean it is a general quality of the relationship.

I'm not good in Synastry and Composite reading. Please take a look and help me. Thank you.

ElenaJ 02-17-2020 09:31 AM

Re: Emotionally Detached ?
 
The link is to a solar return.

Somna7H 02-17-2020 09:37 AM

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Originally Posted by ElenaJ (Post 1027660)
The link is to a solar return.

No, it's actually a thread. And it has all required charts. ok I will try to post the links here.

Somna7H 02-17-2020 09:39 AM

Re: Emotionally Detached ?
 
Composite Mid Point Method

https://i.imgur.com/mbxmu6A.png

Somna7H 02-17-2020 09:41 AM

Re: Emotionally Detached ?
 
Synastry (Blue me and Orange Female)
https://i.imgur.com/K96nFsC.png

ElenaJ 02-17-2020 09:54 AM

Re: Emotionally Detached ?
 
I'm getting dizzy. This composite does not correspond with what you wrote originally.

Somna7H 02-17-2020 01:36 PM

Re: Emotionally Detached ?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by ElenaJ (Post 1027664)
This composite does not correspond with what you wrote originally.

Please tell me why you are seeing. :sad:


Quote:

Originally Posted by ElenaJ (Post 1027664)
I'm getting dizzy.

But Why ?
I never said that I'm Emotionally Detached.
She complain that I'm Emotionally Detached and sometimes I behave rude to her.
Then she cry and scream in anger.
Sometimes went physical too.
She said that she love me very much but as I can see she has no intention to marry me.
Though I have my own fault.
I'm economically very poor without any social status.

Somna7H 02-17-2020 01:38 PM

Re: Emotionally Detached ?
 
Ref. Point Method Composite
https://i.imgur.com/ZrSE68Y.png


Davison Chart
https://i.imgur.com/70ZprdB.png

ElenaJ 02-17-2020 02:43 PM

Re: Emotionally Detached ?
 
It looks like the pluto/uranus conjunction on your descendent has a lot to do with this situation.
Your Uranus wants freedom in the relationship, it is airy and independent. She takes that as being unemotional.
Your Neptune on her mars and ascendent reinforces this, she can't see you as you are, you are elusive. She can't get a grip on who you are and it frustrates her. This shows in the composite as Lilith on pluto, near mars, an explosive combination.
The sun/moon conjunction is a nice marital aspect, especially on the descendent, and mercury near Venus is very positive.
Chiron on the north node gives a theme of pain to your relationship. Not that you will be suffering every day, but continuous fate interventions that causes grief. Karma on the south node says you are paying off something from the past, and slowly the debt will wear away.

Somna7H 02-17-2020 03:39 PM

Re: Emotionally Detached ?
 
Will this Relationship lasts ?
or this is an temporary illusion to distract me ?
And that will leave a scar in my heart forever to suffer me till death ?


Quote:

Originally Posted by ElenaJ (Post 1027698)
but continuous fate interventions that causes grief. Karma on the south node says you are paying off something from the past, and slowly the debt will wear away.

Yes, it's FATE.
I wanted to marry her but we will never get married I think.
She wanted to get physical with me but it will never happen I guess.
I'm totally aware that I'm paying off something from the past.
But I don't know what I have done wrong in past life but I never did anything wrong here in this life time yet I'm suffering since I was born.
In my life all of these years she is the first one who attracted toward me and love me.
Do you really believe I will clear my past life debt ?
But how ?
I almost spent more than half of my life and now find someone who love me for the first time yet so much obstacles and grief in life. :(

ElenaJ 02-17-2020 03:46 PM

Re: Emotionally Detached ?
 
"Will this Relationship lasts ?"

You should do a horary to find the answer to this question.

Careful, my comments about karma and debt apply ONLY to this relationship, not to your life! And, there are lots of married couple who also have this contact.

Somna7H 02-17-2020 04:03 PM

Re: Emotionally Detached ?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by ElenaJ (Post 1027705)
"Will this Relationship lasts ?"


https://i.imgur.com/SI964fO.png

ElenaJ 02-17-2020 04:30 PM

Re: Emotionally Detached ?
 
I fear this chart was provoked by my commenting to you, not because you really felt it in your heart. Is this right?

Somna7H 02-17-2020 04:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ElenaJ (Post 1027711)
I fear this chart was provoked by my commenting to you, not because you really felt it in your heart. Is this right?

Yes.
Should I create new chart when I feel different ?

ElenaJ 02-17-2020 04:50 PM

Re: Emotionally Detached ?
 
I would strongly advise it
Do the chart for the moment when you think the question spontaneously .

Somna7H 02-18-2020 12:04 AM

Re: Emotionally Detached ?
 
Will this Relationship lasts ?

https://i.imgur.com/znFfqPn.png

Zora 02-18-2020 12:52 AM

Re: Emotionally Detached ?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Somna7H (Post 1027663)
Synastry (Blue me and Orange Female)
https://i.imgur.com/K96nFsC.png

Quote:

Originally Posted by Somna7H (Post 1027655)
Yes she is Grouchy.
She is very raw and emotionally immature(my point of view).

Quote:

Originally Posted by Somna7H (Post 1027678)
She complain that I'm Emotionally Detached and sometimes I behave rude to her. Then she cry and scream in anger. Sometimes went physical too.She said that she love me very much but as I can see she has no intention to marry me.


Hello Somna,

you don't talk very nice about this woman here- guessing a lot on your own - but not knowing much for sure -because of non-talking to herself in a direct way ? But want to get married to her ? Why ?

This woman has her mars in 12h house with mars/neptune correspondence sitting on her ASC and venus direct under ASC - and she both puts on your 8th house cusp - taking your neptune in the middle - who sits on your 8th house cusp (your are kinda endangered to get addicted yourself from your chart) and opposing your physical 2nd house venus - you put on her DC.

Her mars sextiles your pluto as your ruler of 7th house - your mars squares her ruler of 7th house and your 2nd house mercury trines her mercury as ruler of her 7th house. Her pluto semisextiles your jupiter as your ruler of 8th house (jupiter pluto correspondence) and vice versae your saturn semisextiles her moon as ruler of her 8th house (moon/pluto correspondence). 8th house = longlasting relationship and marriage.

This is in total definitely and an intense passionate physical attraction - because what is special in your synastry - that your 2nd/8th house cusp and possession/property axis 2/8 looks nearly exact overlapped by her physical birth and encounter ASC/DC axis.

Somna7H 02-18-2020 04:22 AM

Re: Emotionally Detached ?
 
Thanks you for your reply!

Quote:

Originally Posted by Zora (Post 1027800)
you don't talk very nice about this woman here- guessing a lot on your own - but not knowing much for sure -because of non-talking to herself in a direct way ? But want to get married to her ? Why ?

So she is right.
I'm rude and bad person ?
She deserve better man ?
Should I give up on this relationship then ?


Honestly.
I was never in any relationship in my whole life except this. This is my first relationship so it's very easy to make mistakes from my side. I'm not good at relationship. My other relationship(non romantic, friend, family, co workers, boss etc) are not good either. More than 37 years I was alone without any relationship. For the first time someone liked me. But she had experience in relationship AFAIK. So it it's natural that she is good at relationship matter.
Though I believe in Destiny. Still I always wanted to relationship with one woman and only wanted to marry her. But alas Will Power doesn't work always. So may this relationship is not for me ? May be I will become alone again and stay Single rest of my life ? :(

Zora 02-18-2020 05:12 AM

Re: Emotionally Detached ?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Somna7H (Post 1027816)
So she is right.
I'm rude and bad person ?
She deserve better man ?
Should I give up on this relationship then ?


No - I didn't tell any word like this. Moon rules your 3rd house - your mind and your thoughts - you have a tendency to get overemotional in every subject.

Why don't you enjoy your first relationship and being with her ? And discuss and talk to her about all you told us here in a direct way ? Women like that.

Somna7H 02-18-2020 05:36 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Zora (Post 1027818)
No - I didn't tell any word like this. Moon rules your 3rd house - your mind and your thoughts - you have a tendency to get overemotional in every subject.

Why don't you enjoy your first relationship and being with her ? And discuss and talk to her about all you told us here in a direct way ? Women like that.

Thank you I will try.
I have no interest to search for new relationship everyday. I just want to be happy with one romantic relationship.

ElenaJ 02-18-2020 10:36 AM

Re: Emotionally Detached ?
 
So just try to enjoy the good parts of it, and learn from this how to be in a relationship. We are not born knowing how to do these things. We make mistakes, correct our behaviour, move on, learn more, and one day we find we almost know what we are doing, and destiny puts us in touch with what we need.

Do you have any idea how many people at your age have already been in several relationships, divorced, re-married, divorced, separated, etc? Are they better off than you?
Everyone has their own path to follow.


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