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Lion o ness 07-04-2011 04:34 AM

What shows in your natal. How you will meet a partner.
 
I want to learn how you can tell in a Natal Chart how a person will meet a partner..

Is it Sun/Mars for women?
and Venus/Moon for Men?

Then depending on house/aspects?

Plus some houses I can figure out.. Say H6 means while working, or maybe a place with animals? H9 might mean traveling or a foreigner??

But H1,H7... Where is that?? If someone can list the "wheres" for each house..

LonelyRed 07-04-2011 04:48 AM

Re: What shows in your natal. How you will meet a partner.
 
Hi Lion o ness,

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lion o ness (Post 296143)
I want to learn how you can tell in a Natal Chart how a person will meet a partner..

I don't know if this is discernable with precision. I think you might be able to tell under what conditions someone might be inclined to meet a romantic partner, or what kinds of romantic partners they are interested in, and where to find them.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lion o ness (Post 296143)

Is it Sun/Mars for women?
and Venus/Moon for Men?

That might work, if the women in question are strictly interested in men, and the same going for men who are strictly interested in women. I personally am much more open, and think that a number of factors go into, for both sexes, what kind of partner they would want, and where they might meet this person. A woman as much as a man will want someone who is compatible with their moon. I would look at the overall energetics of someone's chart.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lion o ness (Post 296143)

Then depending on house/aspects?

Yes, house placements would definitely have some sort of an impact, but more on the native, rather than the people I think. If someone has Venus in the First House, chances are they are more inclined to put themselves out there for someone to meet them. I don't think this would mean they are more attracted to say, an Aries or someone with a strong Mars, though they may experience, if only briefly, a certain affinity.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lion o ness (Post 296143)

Plus some houses I can figure out.. Say H6 means while working, or maybe a place with animals? H9 might mean traveling or a foreigner??

Well, I'm not really sure. In Equal House, I have Venus in the Ninth, and I definitely feel some comfort and connection with foreigners, but no one I have ever been with has been a foreigner.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lion o ness (Post 296143)

But H1,H7... Where is that?? If someone can list the "wheres" for each house..

I don't know if you can list locations based on these placements. I think there are too many factors that come into play. I have my Moon in the First House, so I have no issue connecting with anyone ever, and I have Sun in the Seventh House, so I am naturally drawn towards one-to-one relationships. I am not a serial dater though, and so I would chalk that up to my Venus in Placidus being in the Eighth House, suggesting I take my affections very seriously. I think that House Placement doesn't tell you where, but how someone meets others.

-LR

Lion o ness 07-04-2011 04:58 AM

Re: What shows in your natal. How you will meet a partner.
 
Thanks for that :) My question is more in general..

As an example... someone with say Mars in H6 would meet a partner from work??? Of course other factors would need to be taken into acct to see if a specific person fits that persons...

So my question is more in general about "where" Which planets are for who?

Plus I dont know all the "places" that would fit each house..

H1 ??
H2 ??
H3= real state??
H4= someone's house
H5= gambling,parting???
H6= Work
H7= ??
H8= banking/ money??? taxes
H9= travel
H10= through your career
H11= through friends?
H12= Hospital, prison..

I met my ex husband at a bar.. But I didnt like him then... Couldnt stand him... but he started coming around my house, and I got to know him, and then months later we dated..

(I have venus in H4)
(I have mars in H6)
I met my best friend at work.. She has been my BF for over 20 years...

LonelyRed 07-04-2011 05:02 AM

Re: What shows in your natal. How you will meet a partner.
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Lion o ness (Post 296149)
Thanks for that :)

you're welcome. :wink:

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lion o ness (Post 296149)

My question is more in general..

As an example... someone with say Mars in H6 would meet a partner from work??? Of course other factors would need to be taken into acct to see if a specific person fits that persons...

So my question is more in general about "where" Which planets are for who?

Plus I dont know all the "places" that would fit each house..

H1 ??
H2 ??
H3= real state??
H4= someone's house
H5= gambling,parting???
H6= Work
H7= ??
H8= banking/ money??? taxes
H9= travel
H10= through your career
H11= through friends?
H12= Hospital, prison..

I met my ex husband at a bar.. But I didnt like him then... Couldnt stand him... but he started coming around my house, and I got to know him, and then months later we dated..

(I have venus in H4)
(I have mars in H6)
I met my best friend at work.. She has been my BF for over 20 years...

I don't know if I could really say that a planet's placement in a house, and that planet's association with partnerships, romantic or platonic, can be linked to say that you will meet someone in a situation associated with that house. As I demonstrated with my own chart, a chart very much inclined to relate to others, it wasn't a matter of where, but with who. I know I am not answering your question, and that is because I personally don't think it can be answered definitively. Maybe someone will come along who knows otherwise?

Lion o ness 07-04-2011 05:06 AM

Re: What shows in your natal. How you will meet a partner.
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by LonelyRed (Post 296150)
you're welcome. :wink:



I don't know if I could really say that a planet's placement in a house, and that planet's association with partnerships, romantic or platonic, can be linked to say that you will meet someone in a situation associated with that house. As I demonstrated with my own chart, a chart very much inclined to relate to others, it wasn't a matter of where, but with who. I know I am not answering your question, and that is because I personally don't think it can be answered definitively. Maybe someone will come along who knows otherwise?

Thanks hon... Im curious (as for learning) to know the "where" you meet...
What specific shows it... I know its shows because of the "natal promise"
So Im wondering.. what those are I guess...

astrologer50 07-05-2011 03:59 PM

Re: What shows in your natal. How you will meet a partner.
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Lion o ness (Post 296143)
I want to learn how you can tell in a Natal Chart how a person will meet a partner..

Is it Sun/Mars for women?
and Venus/Moon for Men?

Then depending on house/aspects?

Plus some houses I can figure out.. Say H6 means while working, or maybe a place with animals? H9 might mean traveling or a foreigner??

But H1,H7... Where is that?? If someone can list the "wheres" for each house..

To start with it's best to look at the individual needs of each persons chart and how they relate and what they are looking for. Astro.com does have an option composite + natal midpoint method (2) which I find helpful. If you choose to post the synastry bi wheel from astro could you please select the 2nd synastry option as it will put the houses and degrees onto the wheel which is far better for us to evaluate matters....
If you post the synastry chart and realise it doesnít show the degrees (which we need to look at) you can find the degrees and other information in a separate PDF on the synastry page of astro.com. Look for the link "View the additional tables (PDF)" and click on it to see the additional information. Reading a synastry chart is mainly about reading the aspects between the planets in the two charts. So once you find the PDF, scroll down to the bottom of the page and look in the synastry grid that is there. Unfortunately, you can only see/read these and not save/upload. Thatís why I like to see both natalís and composite. This grid (in my opinion) has too many minor aspects and the orbs are quite wide. I like to use + - max 3í

When looking at a womanís chart the type of man she would look for is her sun sign and mars traits, plus 7th house planets and house cusp ruler and where that ruler was deposited.
When looking at a mans chart for the type of woman he would look for is his venus and moon sign and then 7th house planets and house cusp ruler and where that ruler was deposited.

Although synastry is a valuable tool with astrology it cannot 'make things happen' even if you have the best synastry in the world unfortunately.

In synastry I use tight orbs and view aspects between one person's outer planets to the other person's inner planets as being "karmic connections"......usually with the outer planet person doing the teaching and the inner planet person doing the learning.

If you want to research more into synastry try here
http://cafeastrology.com/astrology_of_relationships.html
http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry/interchartaspects.html
http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry_house_overlays.html
http://www.astrology-numerology.com/synastry.html
http://www.astrology-numerology.com/synastry-houses.html
http://www.astrology-numerology.com/synastryaspects.html
http://www.cosmitec-astrological-compatibility-advice.com/astrology-marriage.html
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=17513
http://www.astrotheme.com/synastry_advice.php
http://www.astrology-x-files.com/synastry/ascendant.html


relationship sticky
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=28945
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showpost.php?p=254409&postcount=9


Unfortunately, there is no set formula or signature for marriage or childbirth, although others may disagree, apparently horary and vedic seem confident in this area. There are indicators and potential as there would be with natal, solar return chart but guarantees -- (post 2 & 3 below)
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?p=207744#post207744

Claire19 07-06-2011 03:07 AM

Re: What shows in your natal. How you will meet a partner.
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Lion o ness (Post 296143)
I want to learn how you can tell in a Natal Chart how a person will meet a partner..

Is it Sun/Mars for women?
and Venus/Moon for Men?

Then depending on house/aspects?

Plus some houses I can figure out.. Say H6 means while working, or maybe a place with animals? H9 might mean traveling or a foreigner??

But H1,H7... Where is that?? If someone can list the "wheres" for each house..

Socialising is the 5th house along with lovers and romance. So we must look there. Also Venus for love and partnership. The Sun and Mars for women do denote the kind of man they will be attracted to.

I agree that House 6 is everyday work, domestic animals, shelter, food and clothing outlets...House 9 can mean whilst travelling, a foreigner, a lawyer or even a large animal vet, someone who is in trading and export or met at a college or church.

Claire19 07-06-2011 03:09 AM

Re: What shows in your natal. How you will meet a partner.
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Lion o ness (Post 296143)
I want to learn how you can tell in a Natal Chart how a person will meet a partner..

Is it Sun/Mars for women?
and Venus/Moon for Men?

Then depending on house/aspects?

Plus some houses I can figure out.. Say H6 means while working, or maybe a place with animals? H9 might mean traveling or a foreigner??

But H1,H7... Where is that?? If someone can list the "wheres" for each house..


You have Sun and Mars in Leo so a Leo type man for sure would attract.
He may be an actor, a stockbroker, a teacher or guide, someone met on vacation, in a leisure centre or at the casino or races......He should be rather proud and even a bit arrogant but with a heart of gold.
Please post the chart so we can comment further. Anonymise if you wish.

Lion o ness 07-06-2011 04:04 AM

Re: What shows in your natal. How you will meet a partner.
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Claire19 (Post 296625)
You have Sun and Mars in Leo so a Leo type man for sure would attract.
He may be an actor, a stockbroker, a teacher or guide, someone met on vacation, in a leisure centre or at the casino or races......He should be rather proud and even a bit arrogant but with a heart of gold.
Please post the chart so we can comment further. Anonymise if you wish.

THANKS... Can you tell me about the 2nd one? lol
Im seperated now, but I did marry a foreigner. I met him at a bar...

here's my chart..
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum...pictureid=2959

virgo18 07-08-2011 11:14 PM

Re: What shows in your natal. How you will meet a partner.
 
Meeting someone by the 1st, 2nd, and 7th house has been one of my biggest astrological doubts in life.


In the 7th maybe you can meet someone in other's wedding? maybe in an art exposition too? In the 2nd in a bank?
But the answer is: in the 7th is someone who is somewhat selfish, in the 1st someone who is very attached to us, or who is very relationship-inclined, and in the 2nd someone who is sensual and interested in money like a taurus.

Also I have my doubts that the placement of the 7th house ruler describes exactly how will you meet someone... it also describes how is the person. And not how is the person you will marry. As the 7th house describes the "other", our half, the perfect match... I say it describes more the love of our life. And lots of people don't get married with the love of their life at the first try.

This is the example of my parents:

Mu mother has her 7th house ruler in the 6th
And my father in the 12th
They meet each other in a night club. Not in an hospital, work, jail, and all the meanings of the 6th and 12th.... LOL.... nothing to be with those houses.

My parents get divorced because the marriage was a big FAIL, and my mother got married by 2nd time... and her actual husband is a Doctor = 6th house of health. "She says he'e the love of her life"


I say the 7th house describe our soul mate more exactly than people who we marry but are not our soul-mates.

Its something difficult to understand as Astrology is subjective... not objective.

BobZemco 07-09-2011 01:10 AM

Re: What shows in your natal. How you will meet a partner.
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Lion o ness (Post 296143)
I want to learn how you can tell in a Natal Chart how a person will meet a partner.

That is not even possible in a Natal Chart.

Your Natal Chart will tell you if there is a promise of marriage, and if there is, it will describe the general characteristics of your partners, and whether you'll marry early or late based on your culture/social class, and it will even tell you if you will outlive your partner or they you, but not how you meet them.

I don't know of any predictive techniques that would answer that either.

Contrary to what people might think, there are limitations to astrology. I mean, basically what you're asking is, "What will I eat for dinner tonight?"and astrology doesn't really concern itself with banal or trivial matters.

virgo18 07-09-2011 01:20 AM

Re: What shows in your natal. How you will meet a partner.
 
I completely agree with Bob

This cannot be known even with an Horary, or SR.

All of the charts show when you will get married (best year for wedding)... Not place and time of first meeting or proposal.


And only with the natal chart you can know how will your partner be, and how is the people you like.
So the house where is the 7th r. placed also tells how the other is (i.e personality).

astrologer50 07-09-2011 11:22 AM

Re: What shows in your natal. How you will meet a partner.
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by BobZemco (Post 297355)
That is not even possible in a Natal Chart.

Your Natal Chart will tell you if there is a promise of marriage, and if there is, it will describe the general characteristics of your partners, and whether you'll marry early or late based on your culture/social class, and it will even tell you if you will outlive your partner or they you, but not how you meet them.

I don't know of any predictive techniques that would answer that either.

Contrary to what people might think, there are limitations to astrology. I mean, basically what you're asking is, "What will I eat for dinner tonight?"and astrology doesn't really concern itself with banal or trivial matters.

100% agree I think lots people have unrealistic expectations of what can and cannot be done. Although Horary will disagree, they 'purport' supposedly that they can answer 'anything'

this is why I copy/paste this all over the forum :innocent:

What Astrology Can and Can Not Do
http://www.ofspirit.com/susanmiller1.htm
http://www.cafeastrology.com/articles/whatastrologycandoforyou.html
http://www.astro.com/astrology/in_kdvalue_e.htm

http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showpost.php?p=234549&postcount=7
Perhaps you should read this thread entitled: astrology predicts meanings, not events
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=17546&page=2

Ajay102 07-13-2011 07:26 AM

Re: What shows in your natal. How you will meet a partner.
 
I know Natal chart can say when someones life partner meet.I want to know, Can a natal chart say where a person meets his partner ?

Angels 01-23-2013 06:11 PM

Re: What shows in your natal. How you will meet a partner.
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Lion o ness (Post 296143)
I want to learn how you can tell in a Natal Chart how a person will meet a partner..

Is it Sun/Mars for women?
and Venus/Moon for Men?

Then depending on house/aspects?

Plus some houses I can figure out.. Say H6 means while working, or maybe a place with animals? H9 might mean traveling or a foreigner??

But H1,H7... Where is that?? If someone can list the "wheres" for each house..


Hi! i am here for the same question and still havent got an answer lol but lately been researching on it all by my self haha. so i can share some ideas with you :)

http://www.ehow.com/how_8335640_astr...iage-sign.html

I have a result that it could be a Taurus/pises/Gemini or a Capricorn.

strick out gemini as he was my ex, and i havent met anyone of taurus or pisces.

So far Capricorn is what i wish he should be. still not sure until i get married :) in couple of years.

Angels 01-23-2013 06:17 PM

Re: What shows in your natal. How you will meet a partner.
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Lion o ness (Post 296637)
THANKS... Can you tell me about the 2nd one? lol
Im seperated now, but I did marry a foreigner. I met him at a bar...

here's my chart..
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum...pictureid=2959


He could be one among them a cancer, Pisces, Capricorn,leo or virgo

including ur ex (strick him out lol)

i notice Neptune at ur 9th house (2nd marriage) Neptune rules Pisces.

ur 1st one would have been at ur early years.

My guess he would be a Pisces sun and you may meet him in a foreign land.

Angels 01-23-2013 08:07 PM

Re: What shows in your natal. How you will meet a partner.
 
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Lion o ness 01-23-2013 09:41 PM

Re: What shows in your natal. How you will meet a partner.
 
Thanks.. That's funny.. I did fall for a Pisces sun.. I guess he fit from me...
But things didn't work out..

Maybe another pisces will come around.

Claire19 01-24-2013 12:09 AM

Re: What shows in your natal. How you will meet a partner.
 
Please load a chart as the data is tedious and we are visual creatures here.

Venus and the Moon for men show their template of what they want in a woman regarding nurturance and love and desire.

Sun and Mars for women yes for their male principle, but it all depends on the ruler of the 7th house and where it is and what planets may lie there. Sometimes the fourth house for family matters is more prominent.

Where Venus sits often shows how and where we will meet love. The 5th house is for romance and affairs and what rules there.

Lion o ness 01-24-2013 12:38 AM

Re: What shows in your natal. How you will meet a partner.
 
Claire do u use h9 for second spouse?


My chart is loaded.. I did Marry a Virgo..

Angels 01-24-2013 08:38 AM

Re: What shows in your natal. How you will meet a partner.
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Lion o ness (Post 449428)
Thanks.. That's funny.. I did fall for a Pisces sun.. I guess he fit from me...
But things didn't work out..

Maybe another pisces will come around.

thats really amazing :D I feel positive about my work. I am getting there i hope.

ur venus falls over cancer at ur fourth house he probablly is a cancer? i am not sure though.

Likely him i feel....

BTW exclude the virgo and pisces as they are ur ex now. remaining...cancer or a leo

if he is a cancer you will meet him at a family gathering! or at church


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