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GeminiSun 10-03-2018 02:30 AM

Why have I been single for years?
 
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Other then being extremely low key since Saturn hit Scorpio a few years ago.... Then went into Sagittarius... And now it's in Cap? Things are looking so much better for me. BUT. Yeah, I've been single for a really long time. For years. I haven't been in a serious committed relationship in some time. Anyone know if things will change for me in the next few months? I don't mind if it doesn't. I've been working on myself for these last few years and finally I feel like the bad times are definitely over but it would be nice to know if a serious relationship is in the future or not... But I do feel like something is coming. Like big life changes.

Januarystorm 10-03-2018 11:45 AM

Re: Why have I been single for years?
 
basically there are several ways to interpret wether or when an important relationship is going to begin...other than transits you have to look at your progressed chart, your solar return charts for the upcoming years, there are others but if you incorporate these three major predictive methods and you can see from all three of them that they point to changes in your romantic life- then you can be able to make an assumption

i can just give my remarks on your upcoming transits

about your saturn-remark:

1. yes saturn over scorpio will have left you more low-key, that was what saturn has initially wanted from you- leave all you have behind and start a new chapter in life- ive been through the same and yes i am still very low key after saturn hit sagittarius...its not fun but its going to be worth it

and now...for love and blessings we turn to the great benefic jupiter and see whats up with him and what he is up to in your chart

2. jupiter in scorpio would have made a whole lot better for you either way- when jupie transits your ascendant it usually brings a lot of opportunities to you- and you usually have the energy and belief to take them during this very fortunate time! so this transit should have already brought more good fortune your way after saturn did his job

3. BUT as most of your planets are in air or fire signs- jupiter in scorpio other than trining your mercury there for a bit at the beginning and crossing your ascendant- for all your other placements it didnt do much concerning love life

4. soooo that being said, jupiter IS at the final degrees of scorpio now and he is about to jump in to his own sign of sagittarius- and while he is THERE jupiter is going to conjunct your sagittarius moon (this year before the year ends even), and after that it will sextile your natal jupiter in libra, after that it will trine your mars in leo and after that it will finally...trine your aries venus- and last but certainly by no means least jupiter will trine your mc

5. this being said- the major positive aspects of jupiter for you are yet to come- and because he will be in his own sign of sagittarius- jupiter is double as strong- so he doubles the blessings (as for when he crossed your ascendant in scorpio- while he IS strong there- its different then when he trines your venus from his own sign being in such a powerful position)

so i would say jupiter in sagittarius 2018-2019 will be THE transit for your love life as well as for practically almost everything as you have figured out already...ALSO because he is transiting your second house this also means money money- and more money means more opportunities to do things- and doing more things means you have a bigger chance of meeting someone because you are now out and about and not lowkey still cursing the day saturn went over your ascendant..

also he will be conjuncting your north node as well in the second house

hmmm by the way now that i noticed your north node..i have read somewhere it is said that when jupiter conjuncts your north node- it is possible for a potential (life)partner to come in your life- as jupiter gives love and luck and blessings and the node is your karmic point...so jupiter joining him may give you your like- soulmate (if you believe in this if not) chances are- when jupiter joins your north node- youll meet someone and fall in :love:

if i were you i would check my solar return for next year- as well as any progressions happening during 2019...

cheers!

GeminiSun 10-07-2018 01:58 PM

Re: Why have I been single for years?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Januarystorm (Post 918766)
basically there are several ways to interpret wether or when an important relationship is going to begin...other than transits you have to look at your progressed chart, your solar return charts for the upcoming years, there are others but if you incorporate these three major predictive methods and you can see from all three of them that they point to changes in your romantic life- then you can be able to make an assumption

i can just give my remarks on your upcoming transits

about your saturn-remark:

1. yes saturn over scorpio will have left you more low-key, that was what saturn has initially wanted from you- leave all you have behind and start a new chapter in life- ive been through the same and yes i am still very low key after saturn hit sagittarius...its not fun but its going to be worth it

and now...for love and blessings we turn to the great benefic jupiter and see whats up with him and what he is up to in your chart

2. jupiter in scorpio would have made a whole lot better for you either way- when jupie transits your ascendant it usually brings a lot of opportunities to you- and you usually have the energy and belief to take them during this very fortunate time! so this transit should have already brought more good fortune your way after saturn did his job

3. BUT as most of your planets are in air or fire signs- jupiter in scorpio other than trining your mercury there for a bit at the beginning and crossing your ascendant- for all your other placements it didnt do much concerning love life

4. soooo that being said, jupiter IS at the final degrees of scorpio now and he is about to jump in to his own sign of sagittarius- and while he is THERE jupiter is going to conjunct your sagittarius moon (this year before the year ends even), and after that it will sextile your natal jupiter in libra, after that it will trine your mars in leo and after that it will finally...trine your aries venus- and last but certainly by no means least jupiter will trine your mc

5. this being said- the major positive aspects of jupiter for you are yet to come- and because he will be in his own sign of sagittarius- jupiter is double as strong- so he doubles the blessings (as for when he crossed your ascendant in scorpio- while he IS strong there- its different then when he trines your venus from his own sign being in such a powerful position)

so i would say jupiter in sagittarius 2018-2019 will be THE transit for your love life as well as for practically almost everything as you have figured out already...ALSO because he is transiting your second house this also means money money- and more money means more opportunities to do things- and doing more things means you have a bigger chance of meeting someone because you are now out and about and not lowkey still cursing the day saturn went over your ascendant..

also he will be conjuncting your north node as well in the second house

hmmm by the way now that i noticed your north node..i have read somewhere it is said that when jupiter conjuncts your north node- it is possible for a potential (life)partner to come in your life- as jupiter gives love and luck and blessings and the node is your karmic point...so jupiter joining him may give you your like- soulmate (if you believe in this if not) chances are- when jupiter joins your north node- youll meet someone and fall in :love:

if i were you i would check my solar return for next year- as well as any progressions happening during 2019...

cheers!

Thank you so much for taking the time to look into this and this thorough response! And oh my gosh I can totally feel positive energy coming. I have been in a major hole since like end of High School and only recently started to crawl out of things I never thought I could get myself out of lol. So it's super cool to know Jupiter will be supporting me next year. :love:

waybread 10-08-2018 04:39 AM

Re: Why have I been single for years?
 
With Venus in Aries square Uranus, I think you value your independence.

Also, how would you rate your trust factor with men? I'm looking at Mars conjunct Chiron square Pluto.

With Saturn square moon do you feel you deserve a good relationship?

I'm all for surfing on helpful transits. But in the meantime, see if you've got any internal factors going on that affect your relationships.

GeminiSun 10-09-2018 11:04 AM

Re: Why have I been single for years?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by waybread (Post 920052)
With Venus in Aries square Uranus, I think you value your independence.

Also, how would you rate your trust factor with men? I'm looking at Mars conjunct Chiron square Pluto.

With Saturn square moon do you feel you deserve a good relationship?

I'm all for surfing on helpful transits. But in the meantime, see if you've got any internal factors going on that affect your relationships.

I do value my independence, that's why I don't rush into relationships. It has to be with the right person. Someone I could actually see myself with for a long time. There is definitely a bit of a lone-wolf in me. I just really need someone who truly understands me so they can be a comfortable staple in my life.

It takes me an extremely long time to truly, truly trust. Anyone. Man, woman. Anyone outside my core family unit.

I feel like.... I do deserve a good relationship. I think it would stabilize me in many ways. And teach me new things. But whether it happens or not, things are looking really positive for me in life right now so I'm just happy about Jupiter eventually going into Sag and keeping things rolling :rightful:

Januarystorm 10-09-2018 01:00 PM

Re: Why have I been single for years?
 
check out your solar return for the year 2020/2021

:wink:

Gemini Pyramid 10-10-2018 05:47 PM

Re: Why have I been single for years?
 
Hello,


I was going to say,


Sun in 8th house is bad for relationships,


because work is better for them.



Dignity

GeminiSun 10-12-2018 02:19 AM

Re: Why have I been single for years?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Gemini Pyramid (Post 920428)
Hello,


I was going to say,


Sun in 8th house is bad for relationships,


because work is better for them.



Dignity

Lol so mean yet so direct. Yeah, kind of noticed this. Not just romantic relationships, friendships can end up messy too.


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