Well, here's Robert Hand on your aspects (Planets in Youth):
Moon opposite Venus: "You very much need affection from others, and you will go to great lengths to get it. You are a very warm and loving person, and you will be liked by many people... This aspect can be a sign that your mother has been overly possessive at some point..."
Any of this sound like you?
This is the only piece about this aspect that I've ever read that I could relate to. I will take up Robert Hand on that then.
I struggle with understanding this aspect and am perplexed when I read what it means. Many things, as I say, I just can't connect to. My head and heart are sometimes on different pages, yes, but I don't think I struggle with that. I always try to reconcile them or make the best judgement of both the head and the heart. What is a problem, is I notice that I continue to be kind and helpful when someone is obviously rude or unkind to me - that will stop - the sheriff is on watch now and I will turn that around.
I'm coming back to this now as I think I've seen a fair bit of one of the traits of this in myself recently - the need for harmony. It's almost like having Mercury in the 7th, when I mentioned the other day that it takes some time to drain my patience enough for me to no longer be diplomatic in conversation, people chuckled - they knew it - and by their reactions I learned how obvious it was to others. Also, the Moon rules my 1st house and so this aspect further gains importance to me.
Also, with the Moon, there is often reference to the public, like the Moon in the 10th house. I've read some vague things about this aspect and favour with the public, anyone know anything? I don't see how.
Moon in Virgo, 3rd house
Rules 1st house
opposition Venus, seperating, appx 2 degrees, Venus in 9th
square Saturn, applying, appx 2 degrees, Saturn end of 5th
Venus in Pisces, 9th house
Rules 4th, 11th houses
opp Moon ^^
square Saturn, applying, appx 5 degrees, Saturn end of 5th
trine Pluto, seperating, appx 7 degrees, Pluto in 5th