Ukpoohbear
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I have recently met this man and things are going really well so far even though it is early days and last night I got his permission and birth details for the first time and now I would like to know what type of man is he.
We have been talking since December but only had our first date on Valentine's Day and it actually went really well. Then we have met up a couple of weeks ago and meeting up again tonight. So it is still early days but I can't believe how healthy our dynamic is together and how lovely and well-mannered he is but not in a 'pansy' way, he still has something about him. We just seem yo be a really good match for each other!
His good manners can be seen by the Libra rising and the trine from Jupiter to his Venus and Moon. The Moon-Saturn aspect will help make him well-mannered too, he is quite reserved in a shy way. He still has something about him though, he was confident enough to take the initiative and kiss me the first time we met up.
I am a very jealous person and can be insecure. After the first time we met up, I noticed he had been on a dating app so I phoned him up (I tried to stop myself but I couldn't) and told him to get the f*** off Badoo and hung up. He messaged me saying I cant blame him if we have only met up once and then I said well what happens if you hook up with somebody, no way I would sleep with you then and he said, OK , I haven't spoken to anybody else and a he updated me he had deleted everything off his phone. I apologized for being aggressive and he said its ok I like it I just wasnt expecting it so soon. That was so nice!!!! Im so used to having to fight to stand my ground and end up getting hurt because the guy is always meaner.
This guy describes himself as submissive. I think this is the Mars Cancer retrograde but trine Pluto, so he still has something about him and isnt a wallflower and he said he knows exactly how to handle me. For example, my insecurities and my walls, I start arguments and it never usually gets anywhere with the guy. This even happened with his big brother who asked me out a few years earlier and a few days after I agreed to meet up, I started a pointless argument. I did the same with this guy and he did not get impatient at all, he did not answer back or give me any ammunition to go on so eventually I just laughed and said youre so funny and he said lol youre cute.
So you can see he is not just submissive but has some thinking behind it. He is giving me the power. Because I feel so happy and healthy I just feel really passionate towards him. He even asked me if he could watch **** and what type and I just kinda sat with my mouth open for a few seconds feeling really happy but confused. Why have I not met a man like this before.
Anyway, I would like someone to dissect him please so I can see if he has relationship potential.
He has Venus square Pluto - he told me he has learnt the hard way not to be too persistent because it scares the girl off. So he is passionate but he has learnt to hold himself back. It is a shame he has has to learn that the hard way because he really is just passionate and has good intentions all round.
The only thing is is the second time we met up he was on cocaine. When he told me I was shocked and his eyes widened and his mouth quivered in a funny way like he was in trouble from his Mother which was quite cute. This is the Neptune opposite Mars, I think he struggles with his shyness. He was still so calm on the outside, the only way I could tell he was on cocaine was when he said feel my heart it is beating really fast. He just acts so calm on the outside.
So as we spend more time together and he is less shy, I am hoping the need for drugs will go and I will offer him a more healthy lifestyle. But he is healing me because he is so polite and respectful towards me. This is not an older man like the man previous who is an injured soul who needs healing. This man lack confidence (moon-saturn) but is healing me as much as I could heal him.
Sorry for the long explanation, I am just so amazed by how nice he is. If anyone could give me some greater insight to him so I can make sure I understand him and the connection grows I would be very grateful.
We have been talking since December but only had our first date on Valentine's Day and it actually went really well. Then we have met up a couple of weeks ago and meeting up again tonight. So it is still early days but I can't believe how healthy our dynamic is together and how lovely and well-mannered he is but not in a 'pansy' way, he still has something about him. We just seem yo be a really good match for each other!
His good manners can be seen by the Libra rising and the trine from Jupiter to his Venus and Moon. The Moon-Saturn aspect will help make him well-mannered too, he is quite reserved in a shy way. He still has something about him though, he was confident enough to take the initiative and kiss me the first time we met up.
I am a very jealous person and can be insecure. After the first time we met up, I noticed he had been on a dating app so I phoned him up (I tried to stop myself but I couldn't) and told him to get the f*** off Badoo and hung up. He messaged me saying I cant blame him if we have only met up once and then I said well what happens if you hook up with somebody, no way I would sleep with you then and he said, OK , I haven't spoken to anybody else and a he updated me he had deleted everything off his phone. I apologized for being aggressive and he said its ok I like it I just wasnt expecting it so soon. That was so nice!!!! Im so used to having to fight to stand my ground and end up getting hurt because the guy is always meaner.
This guy describes himself as submissive. I think this is the Mars Cancer retrograde but trine Pluto, so he still has something about him and isnt a wallflower and he said he knows exactly how to handle me. For example, my insecurities and my walls, I start arguments and it never usually gets anywhere with the guy. This even happened with his big brother who asked me out a few years earlier and a few days after I agreed to meet up, I started a pointless argument. I did the same with this guy and he did not get impatient at all, he did not answer back or give me any ammunition to go on so eventually I just laughed and said youre so funny and he said lol youre cute.
So you can see he is not just submissive but has some thinking behind it. He is giving me the power. Because I feel so happy and healthy I just feel really passionate towards him. He even asked me if he could watch **** and what type and I just kinda sat with my mouth open for a few seconds feeling really happy but confused. Why have I not met a man like this before.
Anyway, I would like someone to dissect him please so I can see if he has relationship potential.
He has Venus square Pluto - he told me he has learnt the hard way not to be too persistent because it scares the girl off. So he is passionate but he has learnt to hold himself back. It is a shame he has has to learn that the hard way because he really is just passionate and has good intentions all round.
The only thing is is the second time we met up he was on cocaine. When he told me I was shocked and his eyes widened and his mouth quivered in a funny way like he was in trouble from his Mother which was quite cute. This is the Neptune opposite Mars, I think he struggles with his shyness. He was still so calm on the outside, the only way I could tell he was on cocaine was when he said feel my heart it is beating really fast. He just acts so calm on the outside.
So as we spend more time together and he is less shy, I am hoping the need for drugs will go and I will offer him a more healthy lifestyle. But he is healing me because he is so polite and respectful towards me. This is not an older man like the man previous who is an injured soul who needs healing. This man lack confidence (moon-saturn) but is healing me as much as I could heal him.
Sorry for the long explanation, I am just so amazed by how nice he is. If anyone could give me some greater insight to him so I can make sure I understand him and the connection grows I would be very grateful.