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keenlao 10-24-2020 04:34 AM

Pluto opposite Moon/ Pluto Conjunct Venus/ Mars Venus DW
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Hello! I would love to get someone's take on this synastry. A lot of mirroring going on and several really intense aspects. The relationship is on hold right now and I think it's because of the underlying intensity and I wonder if it will circle around again or if it's a done deal. Does it seem like this synastry would trigger deep emotions and attractions in both parties or is it one sided?

The female is a Libra sun, gemini rising and the male is a Gemini sun with Libra rising.

There are several DW aspects: Pluto/Venus, Mars/Venus, Mercury/Moon, Mercury/Saturn.

Mars and Mercury in each others' third houses. Females Sun, Pluto, Saturn and Mercury all in male's first house. Her Chiron and NN are both in his eighth house.

Top it all off with her pluto opposite his moon and his pluto conjunct her venus.

kimbermoon 10-24-2020 09:36 PM

Re: Pluto opposite Moon/ Pluto Conjunct Venus/ Mars Venus DW
Indeed this is a very dynamic chart. The connection of Pluto between the charts does indicate that patterns from the past [or karmic, perhaps] are rising up in this current relationship, and typically these can be hidden within the individual’s psyches but can’t be ignored. What would ultimately be required is for both to seek counselling for their individual psychic issues.

You have recognized some of the influences between your Suns and Ascendants being compatible, however there is some dissonance between your Moons, and that is where the emotional intensity comes in. We would look to any tensions between the Sun and Moon in the individual charts to get a hint at difficulties in the past that may be played out in the present.

In her case, Sun and Moon are in tense aspect, suggesting a high likelihood that problems with the ‘father figure’ are playing out. While hers creates a great deal of emotional moodiness, which often she is unaware of, your connection of Mercury with the Moon allows you to pick up and be affected by these emotional instabilities, but may be difficult to communicate about.

While your Moon in Taurus can be quite considerate and sensitive, it is still earthy by nature and can thus be more concerned with physical stability and pleasure. You may find it very difficult to tolerate her moods, which means you need to be more willing to gain better understanding.

The connection of Pluto to Venus is definitely a hard challenge for any relationship. It may involve issues of domination, power/control or sexual abuses that she has already experienced, and her sensitivities may be reflected by your Pluto.

Scorpio and Pluto are both ruled by The Phoenix, which must rise up from death and be born again: symbolically it means one must rise up from ignorance, denial, lack of consciousness and power issues on the mundane level and seek higher enlightenment and awareness. Indeed that can be a hard shell to break through in a relationship. The state of the world today can only add a lot of pressure to an already unstable situation. Wishing you the best of luck.

keenlao 10-25-2020 10:03 PM

Re: Pluto opposite Moon/ Pluto Conjunct Venus/ Mars Venus DW
Thank you for your response Kimbermoon.

Do you see love and stability here or just difficulty and intensity? There is an age gap that is not insignificant and I wonder if it's worth the effort to overcome these challenges, or best to move away from each other.

Also, given the intensity, would you think a platonic friendship is reasonable? Or would that be even more challenging than it already is?

The time spent with each other has never been arguementative, or difficult. Always very fun, inspiring and comforting. So the abrupt separation was a surprise.

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