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ellie04 04-25-2019 02:10 PM

What kind of person is he?
 
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Can someone help me to read what type of person he is? Is he serious in love or a player?

He seems to get deeply attached easily yet he claims that he doesn't... that he lets go easily.

At times he seems completely honest, yet at times he acts like he's not honest.

Unfortunately I don't know his exact ToB (except he was born early morning) so houses not accurate but aspects are. Moon is definitely Libra.

EDIT: It appears that I've gotten his ToB close to accurate so the house placements should be right.

ellie04 07-10-2019 06:45 AM

Re: What kind of person is he?
 
Bumping this up for any kind of insights. Thanks.

katydid 07-10-2019 08:41 AM

Re: What kind of person is he?
 
Can someone help me to read what type of person he is? Is he serious in love or a player?

He seems to get deeply attached easily yet he claims that he doesn't... that he lets go easily.

At times he seems completely honest, yet at times he acts like he's not honest.


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I do not think he is a player. I think he takes relationships very seriously. And he probably expects others to do the same, if they want to be involved with him.

His Moon/Pluto conjunction is being sandwiched by Pallas and the North Node. He is likely very affected emotionally by love relationships and feels things deeply.

The difficulty comes in trying express those heavy feelings. He may keep his partner guessing at times. Moon/Pluto at the very bottom of the chart likes to stay hidden, for their own comfort and security. He may push people away when he feels emotionally threatened, even if he doesn't want to push them away. :ninja:

The square to Moon/Pluto from Mars/Jupiter in Cancer exaggerates and magnifies the emotional turbulence. I think he might crave drama. It might be difficult to be in an intimate relationship with him because he likes things to be chaotic and intense.

He has a very difficult Sun/Mercury square to Neptune. The midpoint of his Sun and Mercury is squaring Neptune , in the 5 or 6th.

Why is that difficult for him? Mercury in Virgo likes facts, data, certainty, and logic. It feels anxious and uncertain when the facts/circumstances are not known and settled.

That exact square to Neptune, by midpoint, creates self doubt and confusion.

With the Venus trine Neptune, that energy can create a gifted writer, artist, musician, designer, etc. :love:

But when under emotional stress, that afflicted Neptune can create an imbalance, creating the tendency towards certain vices, like alcohol, drugs, or other addictions, or the tendency to distort reality or to deceive oneself through denial, delusion etc. :bandit:

That Neptune square might create circumstances where he is suspicious, for no logical reason, and jumps to negative conclusions, partially because he might crave the drama of it all? :unsure:

Neptune can transcend that negative phase and be a spiritually enlightened soul and be inspirational and if so, then it would be better than what I wrote above.^^
:sideways:

ellie04 07-10-2019 06:46 PM

Re: What kind of person is he?
 
^^ Thanks! I'm glad that the chart doesn't show him as a player. He has lotsa gal pals and poor alcohol control so when he drinks he gets friendly & flirty and this makes me feel insecure, that's why I asked if the chart shows him as a player.

And you're spot-on about the love of drama. I feel this about him too. He always seemed to purposely do things to rile me up or he'd tell me he miss me one moment then push me away the next. I never knew what he was thinking or how he really felt about me. :( And for someone who's apparently so emotionally complex, he doesn't seem to welcome it when I bare my feelings to him. He'd tell me to calm down and don't be upset while he prances around me.

I'm glad to know I'm not crazy... that he has a complex way of expressing his emotions.

Blaze 07-11-2019 05:05 PM

Re: What kind of person is he?
 
Poor alcohol control....interesting. Wonder if he has a bad temper as well. Or perhaps one of those "simmering" tempers that blow over eventually. That terrible Mars conjunct exalt Jupiter on ascendant, yikes.

As for the question: I dunno about being a player, but a violent temper is something I can see from here.

Hkk 07-11-2019 05:10 PM

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Originally Posted by ellie04 (Post 985053)
^^ Thanks! I'm glad that the chart doesn't show him as a player. He has lotsa gal pals and poor alcohol control so when he drinks he gets friendly & flirty and this makes me feel insecure, that's why I asked if the chart shows him as a player.

And you're spot-on about the love of drama. I feel this about him too. He always seemed to purposely do things to rile me up or he'd tell me he miss me one moment then push me away the next. I never knew what he was thinking or how he really felt about me. :( And for someone who's apparently so emotionally complex, he doesn't seem to welcome it when I bare my feelings to him. He'd tell me to calm down and don't be upset while he prances around me.

I'm glad to know I'm not crazy... that he has a complex way of expressing his emotions.

Sounds like someone I knew once. Once I stepped away from the toxicity I realised he was narcissistic. Your defo not crazy

ellie04 08-04-2019 10:16 AM

Re: What kind of person is he?
 
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Originally Posted by Blaze (Post 985378)
Poor alcohol control....interesting. Wonder if he has a bad temper as well. Or perhaps one of those "simmering" tempers that blow over eventually. That terrible Mars conjunct exalt Jupiter on ascendant, yikes.

As for the question: I dunno about being a player, but a violent temper is something I can see from here.

Sorry, I took awhile to respond. He has a wilful temper, I would say, but not violent. But you're right he has a simmering temper. He can stay angry with me for some time w/o saying anything and then it blows up and he'll rant & rant... then it blows over.


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