Ukpoohbear
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This is the chart of a man I met from Tinder back in December. I am wondering about his relationship potential.
His 7th house is very busy and Pluto is conjunct the DC and Venus. I can see the Pluto-DC in him. He likes to be in control and does this quite subtly by seeing how he can get to me, almost messing with my head. It's quite dark but its not at an abusive level.
What is dark though is the level of his co-dependency issues. This is probably the Libra Venus influence. He has very low self-esteem and he's slowly healing from a previous toxic relationship, but to deal with this he has multiple casual partners. It's gotten to such a low level at one point before lockdown he was browsing a brothel website and seriously thinking of phoning her before she took her photo down. Is that Pluto or not.
I think the co-dependency and multiple partners with no emotional connection can be seen by the South Node too. His NN wants him to be more independent and less focused on groups.
He also has such a sweet and sensitive side to him as well though. He is really slow to trust and heal, which is why things have been so back and forth between us. I'm not sure where the sensitivity comes from, maybe Pisces intercepted in the 12th house.
I would like some insight into this man please. Can he be faithful/can he make a good partner?
His 7th house is very busy and Pluto is conjunct the DC and Venus. I can see the Pluto-DC in him. He likes to be in control and does this quite subtly by seeing how he can get to me, almost messing with my head. It's quite dark but its not at an abusive level.
What is dark though is the level of his co-dependency issues. This is probably the Libra Venus influence. He has very low self-esteem and he's slowly healing from a previous toxic relationship, but to deal with this he has multiple casual partners. It's gotten to such a low level at one point before lockdown he was browsing a brothel website and seriously thinking of phoning her before she took her photo down. Is that Pluto or not.
I think the co-dependency and multiple partners with no emotional connection can be seen by the South Node too. His NN wants him to be more independent and less focused on groups.
He also has such a sweet and sensitive side to him as well though. He is really slow to trust and heal, which is why things have been so back and forth between us. I'm not sure where the sensitivity comes from, maybe Pisces intercepted in the 12th house.
I would like some insight into this man please. Can he be faithful/can he make a good partner?