Solve the mystery of my life ... help me to find happiness and get some peace of mind

arch

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Myself Arch...
date of birth : 22/08/1988
birth time : 8:25 pm
birth place : Jabalpur, Madhya Pradesh, India.

please help me solve the mystery of my life...facing lot of struggle in my life in every department of life..struggle in career...struggle in relationship...no best friend...I've never had a girlfriend and have experienced constant rejection...

when i was young i didn't believe in destiny....i was a true hard worker...
i was very good in academic but after all of that i am not getting desired results in any field...

currently going through lot of depression, stress, loneliness, aimless..

guys.. any kind of suggestion and help i will appreciate...

Thanks to all in advance....:happy:
 

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arch

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ok...tell me something about my career ...because i am not getting desired job....
should i go for business ? or should try for job only ?
what is suitable for me job or business?
 

Osamenor

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ok...tell me something about my career ...because i am not getting desired job....
should i go for business ? or should try for job only ?
what is suitable for me job or business?

You need a real career, not just a job. Your sun is in the sixth house, which means day to day work, and trine with Uranus, which is at your MC. Trines make the planets work together, so that whatever fulfills one of them fulfills the other.

Uranus at your MC is challenging for having a career. You need something that's unusual, out of the box, and you might be inclined to change jobs often. You probably have little patience for any job that doesn't give you enough variety. You also have Neptune at the MC, which can make it extra difficult. With Neptune there, you can't figure out what to do for career just through logic, you have to use your intuition and stumble your way there, probably trying many different things along the way. In the long run, you'll probably need to do something where you need to use intuition a lot.

So, really, it's not an either/or question. You will need a career in the long run, but for now, you might need to just get a job and see how it works for you. You'll probably need to try several jobs before finding something you can make a career out of.

Since Mercury is in your sixth house, you'll probably do especially well with jobs that require the kind of skills Mercury provides: speaking, writing, attention to detail, logical thinking, teaching. Virgo and the sixth house indicate tangible, physical skills, so if you have any inclination to do any kind of craft, or to go into a skilled profession, that could be good for you.
 

arch

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you are very accurate....i have already changed six different kinds of job.
now i also think that i have to face that kind of struggle.....

thanks buddy
 

arch

Member
Now i want to know ...why i am not good in any kind of relationship...???
I always feel rejection in relationships...
In the end i feel alone,depressed,loneliness....
 

Osamenor

Staff member
Now i want to know ...why i am not good in any kind of relationship...???
I always feel rejection in relationships...
In the end i feel alone,depressed,loneliness....

Do you mean you're not having relationships at all? Or are you having them but feeling alone and rejected within them? And are you talking about romantic relationships specifically, or do you also mean friendships and familial relationships?

Your birth chart doesn't reveal relationship problems right off the bat--nobody's birth chart does--but if you're having lots of problems with relationships, my first guess is that you might be going about relationships in a way that doesn't fit with what you really need. Your birth chart shows, in a very general way, what you need in the way of relationships, and if that doesn't match the kind of relationships you've been having or seeking, that would reveal the problem.
 
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arch

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yes i am having relationships but feeling alone and rejected within them ?
And yes i am talking about romantic relationships specifically ?
 

Osamenor

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yes i am having relationships but feeling alone and rejected within them ?
And yes i am talking about romantic relationships specifically ?
That's a very complex problem, and it probably has a lot to do with the state you're in, mentally and emotionally. Your birth chart doesn't show your current state of mind, it's just an overview and very general picture of your life overall.

I don't have enough expertise to fully interpret the possible chart factors here, so I hope someone who does will step in. What I can see is that Venus, which rules your seventh house, is in Cancer in the fourth, and so is Chiron, conjunct your IC. Chiron is the wounded healer. Wherever it appears in your chart, it shows the karmic wound that you're manifesting, and also the possible healing.

Some examples of karmic wounds: if, say, you suffer from chronic depression and you had many ancestors who also did, that's a karmic wound. Or, say you're an alcoholic. That's always a case of manifesting family problems. Or there's something in your family or society that's been going mostly unacknowledged-- for instance, homosexuality, mental illness, hidden disabilities--and you are gay, or have a mental illness, or have a hidden disability. That's another way you might manifest Chiron.

The examples I gave are the kinds of things that come up, in particular, with fourth house or Cancer Chiron. That doesn't necessarily mean any of those things are true of you, just that you may be carrying some deep unacknowledged pain--and it's not just your pain. It's also in your family, whether or not anyone talks about it.

Venus in Cancer suggests that you need a partner who is very nurturing. In the fourth house, there are implications of home, and also of deep psyche. The combination of seventh house cusp in Libra and Libra's ruler in Cancer in the fourth suggests that you're drawn to a traditional marriage, which might mean traditional roles, or might simply be about setting up a home together, raising a family, all that.

On a deeper level, your Venus placement might mean you need someone who can nurture you deeply and help you heal that deep, unacknowledged pain. Realistically, if you are carrying something that deep, a spouse or lover can't do it all for you, but the Venus/Libra/seventh house indicators aren't just about marriage, they also include all kinds of partnership. Working with a therapist or other practitioner is a possible example of another kind of partnership, and it would fit here. However, even if you have that in your life, you still need a romantic partner who is nurturing and can connect with you deeply and help you feel secure.

If that doesn't describe the people you've had relationships with, that right there would explain why you feel so lonely and rejected. But there's also another possible reason. If you're carrying deep wounds, you might not be in a state where you can really let someone else in and accept deep love. If that's the case, no matter how nurturing your partner is, you're still going to feel something's missing. So, again, you would need to work on healing yourself in order to have a fulfilling relationship.
ok...tell me something about my career ...because i am not getting desired job....
should i go for business ? or should try for job only ?
what is suitable for me job or business?
I saw something else regarding your job and career after I made the first post. First of all, it's obvious to me why you did well academically: you have the moon and two powerful planets in Sagittarius in the ninth house. Ninth house and Sagittarius are both associated with learning, especially higher education. It's no coincidence that you were drawn to that and did well. Something about the educational environment worked very well for you. But if you're having problems with work, that same something isn't present in the work environment.

What was it about school that worked well for you? If you can figure that out, you can get a sense of the kind of working environment you need. It would have to be something, not necessarily exactly like school, but that includes what school included that made you so successful.

Your sun also trines your moon and ninth house/Sag planets, so again, whatever feeds them also feeds your sun. And your sun's placement tells us something else. It's right on the cusp of Leo and Virgo and right on the cusp between the fifth and sixth houses. When the sun is in the last degree of its sign, it doesn't quite know which sign it is anymore, so it's acting like a little of both but not quite anything. In your case, your sun message--what you need for personal growth--is roughly equal parts Leo and Virgo, and probably changing from time to time.

Virgo needs to develop itself by developing a skill in something. In trine with Sagittarius, there's a strong implication of learning something, particularly learning how to do something through experience. Leo is about ultimate personality development. It just needs to grow, period. Since your Sag planets are approaching the cusp of Capricorn, there may also be a need for self discipline and achievement. If you're doing the kind of work you need to be doing for your own self development, you'll have an easy time disciplining yourself to get it done, and you'll feel good about achieving something with it. If you're not doing the right kind of work, that isn't going to happen, you'll probably have a very hard time sticking to it, and you'll probably feel directionless, maybe incompetent.

The fifth/sixth house cusp: fifth house is about what you like to do, what brings you joy, and sixth house, as we've covered, is about work. With your sun straddling that cusp, and trine your MC, it looks like your best career path will consist of turning a hobby into a job. It may take time, and you might still have to try several things before figuring it out, but if you can think of something you like to do and find meaningful, even if you've never thought of it as a possible career, you can probably figure out how to make it your career.
 

muchacho

Well-known member
ok...tell me something about my career ...because i am not getting desired job....
should i go for business ? or should try for job only ?
what is suitable for me job or business?
Something where there's competition and risk taking and where you have to be long-term oriented. So, investment banking maybe. Preferably where others don't tell you what to do.
 

muchacho

Well-known member
Now i want to know ...why i am not good in any kind of relationship...???
I always feel rejection in relationships...
In the end i feel alone,depressed,loneliness....
Well, Sun in Leo takes rejections extra hard. You are probably just exaggerating. :tongue:
 

arch

Member
thanks buddy for helpful and detailed analysis...

i think i m going to convert my hobby(astrology) into my profession....hahaha
 

muchacho

Well-known member
you are right buddy...

i also have interest in share market, trading...
... or maybe casinos... :innocent:

But seriously, with ASC, Sun and Moon in fiery signs, you should thrive on competition. You actually may need challenges to really feel alive. However, because your career and work related Houses are in earthy signs, you probably prefer a rather stable position and regular paychecks you can count on.
 
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