Will She Divorce?
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Osamenor
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What's your relationship to this woman?
We need to know that to know which house to use for her. Is she your friend? Love interest? Sister? Cousin? Each of those would be represented by a different house.
And how does whether she'll divorce or not affect you? We need to know that to know if the chart is valid in the first place. For it to be valid, you would have to have a personal stake in the outcome.
We need to know that to know which house to use for her. Is she your friend? Love interest? Sister? Cousin? Each of those would be represented by a different house.
And how does whether she'll divorce or not affect you? We need to know that to know if the chart is valid in the first place. For it to be valid, you would have to have a personal stake in the outcome.
aquarian.sun
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I'm kind of confindant for her lately...We are really close.
Osamenor
Staff member
That doesn't answer the questions we need answered to be able to interpret the horary.There's no house for "kind of confidant." In horary, what she is to you has to be specified, and your stake in the question has to be clear. Just being close to her is not a personal stake.
aquarian.sun
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We've met at the office so we are co-workers.I started to grow love feelings for her..I can't do anything since she's married.She doens't love her husband like she used to according to her.
uranianplutonian
Account Closed
It looks like Mercury Rx, NN, and Jupiter in the Seventh House show her reflecting on her future and what she wants to do with her marriage. Jupiter and Mercury Rx there could signify her pondering a relationship with you since it’s ruler of her turned ninth house (if you’d be her second marriage partner), or it shows her pondering her marriage with her current second marriage partner (if he is her second marriage partner).
It also looks like you’re chasing her, as you are Venus and she is Mars. You’ll eventually conjoin, however you’ll be in Leo when you do. You’ll change signs once before going into Leo.
Venus in Cancer approaching her might show you being there for her emotionally and nurturing her in a way. Whether that means she’ll leave her husband… I’m not sure.
Moon is exalted in Taurus, but it’s in the twelfth house — an unfortunate house. SN in the First House is a bit suss as well.
I’m seeing 50/50.
If you’ve developed a romantic emotional and physical connection with her, then she has to decide to stay or leave her marriage. Otherwise, she’s not being considerate of your feelings or her husband’s feelings, which is NOT wifey material vibes, in my opinion. She made an oath to her husband, and if she chooses to continuously disregard that oath, it’s not looking good in terms of predictions of how she’ll treat you in a relationship.
The longer she waits, the more painful it’ll be for all of you. It’s not so simple though since she’s bound to him by a piece of paper registered with the government.
If it’s a crush and nothing ~serious has really developed, then RUN RUN RUN LIKE THE WIND. There are plenty of single fish in the sea, mon ami. Save yourself the headache. Who knows how her husband will react if he finds out she’s leaving him for a colleague. He probably knows where she works, so seriously be careful. You never know. People can get crazy when it comes to ‘love.’
I’m with @Oddity on backing off a bit. Or, completely.
All the best.
Antiks72
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Her husband is Venus, she is Mars. Her husband may be looking for a divorce attorney because he is in his 9th house. The 9th house also shows you asking about this using astrology. He is more dignified than her, and also has mutual reception with Mercury, which shows the lawyer. It could be another issue altogether, because the 9th house deals with other things too, such as research. Being that there is no aspect between them, things are in limbo, and she's obviously unhappy in her communication and short-distance travel house. They have a sexless marriage though.
Moon in badly dignified in the 12th, which is HIS hidden enemy house. Since she's in Cancer ruled by the moon, she is working against him via communication.
He has the upper hand, legally speaking. Mercury the lawyer is moving away from Venus.
My judgement: they might, and it will probably be him who starts it.
aquarian.sun
Active member
I can confirm that she want's him to make the first step.She keeps all the earning to her....They don't have sex..She doesn't want him anymore.I could be her 2nd marriage if she decides that.
uranianplutonian
Account Closed
SN in the First House and Moon in the twelfth house don’t look like a good omen from the cosmos on this one.
Essentially she’s emotionally manipulating him into provoking the divorce, so that she appears a victim, and then she keeps the “earning to her….”
aquarian.sun
Active member
Yes...She's trying to determine him to divorce...The question is...will it happen?
uranianplutonian
Account Closed
Although your significator will conjoin hers in the future, SN in the First House and the Moon in the twelfth house looks like a no to me.
What I see is you may continue ~things with her, try to court her, and then when push comes to shove, she won’t divorce him, and then you’ll both go your separate ways.
Best to stay away. It will hurt less to let her go now than it will in the future when you’re more emotionally invested in her.
aquarian.sun
Active member
We'll see what happens...now i'm a little confused because some of you say yes some no.She definately doesn't feel anything for him but maybe she's lying....
So we've established that the querent is aquarian.sun, and the lady would be his eventual "other", which is the 7th.
But the question is not about whether the querent should or should not go with this lady, but simply whether her marriage will end in divorce.
She is mars, in her 3rd but nearing her 4th of endings. Mars in its fall shows her not in a happy position, in addition to Chiron who has just passed a conjunction with the 7th. South node is in her 7th house, another sign of difficulties in the marriage, with problems from the past still to be worked out by her.
Moon in the sign of marriage will square mars, traditional planet of divorce. This is a sign that she will divorce.
Her husband, and marriage, is the 1st house, Venus. Venus approaches a square to Neptune, another sign of possible divorce.
Pluto of breakups and transformation on the 4th cusp of endings, and family life, squares the nodes, that involve both 1st and 7th.
Again, a sign of difficulty and disruption of the relationship.
The vortex, which is symbolically a descendent, is conjunct Uranus, the other planet of divorce.
The Part of Divorce is at 26 Sagittarius, opposing Venus of the husband/marriage, and squaring Neptune.
Although mars appears to be approaching a square to Jupiter on the 7th, it will go retrograde before it makes the contact.
Jupiter rules her 9th of documents, divorce.
Venus is on her 3rd, opposing her 9th of divorce.
So, it does look like she is sincere in wanting the divorce, but it may not go ahead.
Not a reassuring answer for aquarian.sun, and understandably there are yes and no replies here.
Note that her POF is in her 11th of friendship, trine her ruler mars.
She may just choose to continue the marriage, as a friendship relationship but not divorce.
But the question is not about whether the querent should or should not go with this lady, but simply whether her marriage will end in divorce.
She is mars, in her 3rd but nearing her 4th of endings. Mars in its fall shows her not in a happy position, in addition to Chiron who has just passed a conjunction with the 7th. South node is in her 7th house, another sign of difficulties in the marriage, with problems from the past still to be worked out by her.
Moon in the sign of marriage will square mars, traditional planet of divorce. This is a sign that she will divorce.
Her husband, and marriage, is the 1st house, Venus. Venus approaches a square to Neptune, another sign of possible divorce.
Pluto of breakups and transformation on the 4th cusp of endings, and family life, squares the nodes, that involve both 1st and 7th.
Again, a sign of difficulty and disruption of the relationship.
The vortex, which is symbolically a descendent, is conjunct Uranus, the other planet of divorce.
The Part of Divorce is at 26 Sagittarius, opposing Venus of the husband/marriage, and squaring Neptune.
Although mars appears to be approaching a square to Jupiter on the 7th, it will go retrograde before it makes the contact.
Jupiter rules her 9th of documents, divorce.
Venus is on her 3rd, opposing her 9th of divorce.
So, it does look like she is sincere in wanting the divorce, but it may not go ahead.
Not a reassuring answer for aquarian.sun, and understandably there are yes and no replies here.
Note that her POF is in her 11th of friendship, trine her ruler mars.
She may just choose to continue the marriage, as a friendship relationship but not divorce.
aquarian.sun
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She could choose to do that...the question is if her husband will accept this.Like i said before...she's forcing him to make the step...maybe she won't divorce...he will.Also i want to say that im not interfering with her marriage.I have nothing to do with the situation...is strictly between them.
Oddity
Well-known member
Elena- one of us is misreading the question. I read the primary question as 'Will I have an unencumbered relationship with this lady?' (which means that she will divorce her husband so that can happen), which puts the querent as house 1. Not as a question of 'will she divorce her husband', because if that were the primary question then really, Aquarian wouldn't be asking a proper question on account of it not really involving him personally. E.g. the primary question would be idle curiosity about her marital state, and not whether Aquarian and she would be together.
AS, am I right here?
AS, am I right here?
aquarian.sun
Active member
The question was indeed if she will divorce...or get divorced rather..doesn't matter if she's the one who makes the papers or her husband.Antiks72 got i think the perfect picture...indeed her husband might search for a lawyer or something...
This would be another question, another horary.
aquarian.sun
Active member
Well...she said we can be together if that happening...if she got divorce by her will or he's.She actually promised to be more precise.