On the contrary, I get sick very fast. I have never worked in my life, haven't found any job yet. I studied engineering. What about job in foreign?Hi,
You have a good chart overall, especially with one of the most important factors, the Asc.'s ruler, Jupiter, exalted in Cancer. Jupiter, as we all know, is all about expansion and progress, and the cardinal sign of Cancer provides it the perfect energy to do so.
I am quite sure that you enjoy quite robust health and a strong career (something you enjoy and are good at). What do you do, btw?
In regards to your question, I think an important point is that you are a bit of a loner and reserved, too, with, firstly, a Pisces Asc. and Sun, and then a Cap Moon, as well as Sun sextile Saturn, with the latter ruling your 11th house (friends and society) and sitting there as well. I think you perhaps make friends that are either at least 5 years older than yourself, or you have that age gap to them from your side.
I think next two years will be quite consequential and helpful with having more people in your life and acquainting more with others.
As you mentioned, you are all of a sudden feeling the need to have a friend. This has to do with your Saturn return that is to happen this year and next and that in your 11th house of friends. Right now, Saturn is transiting over your natal Moon and making you feel lonely. Saturn often points out, during its transits, the areas that we lack in or feel that we have failed at. That is exactly what is happening in your case. You perhaps also feel like going out and having some fun right now - with Saturn on your Moon and that Moon ruling your 5th house.
Nothing good ever happened in my life, I mean big achievement. I don't have a job, live with my parents. When will I get a job?Here’s the good: you are Jupiter in your chart, angular in the cardine of the earth. A strong place to be. Might come across good fortune near the later years of life due to the fourth house ruling “the end”.
Now the meh: your 11th house is essentially “friends” — people who help you. That one is ruled by the greater malefic, Saturn. But good news is, he is in domicile and NOT retrograde. Unfortunately your chart is night, since the Sun is pretty plainly under the horizon. This makes Saturn, who is already super cold, even more cold. Like...megacold. So he might not be helping too much in terms of friends because of that. But still, he is in the 11th and rulership (I also have this, albeit with minor differences).
I would grab some ancient texts but I can recite from memory: basically Saturn in the 11th denotes that you’ll make friends with older people — lowly, dejected old people. There is NOTHING wrong with this. Maybe I’d suggest going to volunteer at a retirement home. I guarantee you’ll find some people to talk with.
Well, I don't want to kill the astrological discussion, but when did you graduate? It can take up to two years to find a job... we're not living in a booming economy and unfortunately I think recent graduates and young people are particularly affected. I am guessing you live with your parents as you can't yet afford rent. Just persist, it's genuinely a ****** situation for your entire generation. Maybe take on a casual low-skill job (while you keep looking for a proper job) and move into a flat-share... it'll give you more opportunities to interact with people your age. This might help with making friends.Nothing good ever happened in my life, I mean big achievement. I don't have a job, live with my parents. When will I get a job?
I don't project my self as a loser (ever) because I'm not.Astrologically, I think the problem is that you have the planets Saturn, Neptune, and Uranus in the 11th house of friends. Negatively, these planets can give feelings of disillusionment, disappointment, and disruption.
Everybody born in your year will have these 3 planets together in the sign of Capricorn, but because the astrological house of a given planet varies with the time of one's birth, different 1990 babies will find different areas of their lives affected. They're in your house of friendship, but somebody else born in your year will find something else affected, perhaps their money, ability to form a romantic relationship, or career.
So let's consider what's to be done.
In the modern astrology I practice, each planet, sign, or house has multiple interpretations and rulerships, each consistent with the planet's core meanings. But some interpretations will be negative and disempowering, and others will be more positive and empowering. So I don't think the issue is that you cannot have friends, so much as that life will probably go better if you seek out friends who match the core meanings of Saturn, Neptune, and Uranus.
Saturn: an older person, or someone your age who seems old for his years
Neptune: the visionary, the creative person. (Just be a little careful here, as Neptune also rules drugs and alcohol!)
Uranus: the scientist, the inventor, the aviator, the person who seems a little unusual or eccentric, because he is more interested in pursuing his own ideas than with fitting in with society's expectations.
Even without the astrology, please recognize that the world is full of lonely people. Because of this a lot of books have been written on how to make friends. One recommendation is always to start with people who seem to be lonelier than you are. Nursing homes are full of lonely old people, who would be thrilled if you would volunteer to spend time with them. Maybe during your engineering school, you met guys who were visionaries about what they could develop in the future, or other loners who didn't seem to fit in. You might try to get in touch with them.
Volunteer, if you can, with a non-profit society or charity that appeals to you. You will not only help people, but you will become acquainted with other like-minded volunteers.
Then don't be so hard on yourself! People will normally adopt the image of you that you have for yourself. If you define yourself as a loser, that's how you play the role of your personality to the outer world, and that's how other people will see you. If you define yourself as a friendly guy who is comfortable in his own skin, then other people will see you in that way, instead.
With Pisces rising and sun-Mercury in Pisces, you are probably a very sensitive person and an excellent listener. If you want to make friends, being a good listener is a huge asset.
Just try to minimize your contact with negative people. Pisces people tend to be psychic sponges, and if you hang out with negative people, they are apt to upset your inner equanimity. But often, just by listening to people, and "getting" who they are or what they love in life, you can draw them out and make them happier.
My brother was an engineer, and one of his favourite sayings was, "Problems are for solving." You might tackle the problem of making friends in this spirit. Read up on how to make and keep good friends. Try out the recommendations made by your readings. Give yourself credit when you get a good response.
You have a lot to offer.
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traits-talents-health-events-prospects etc etc :
virgo-mer 7th inimical-badhaka for pisces asc,
stress-delay in marriage/relationships and vocation-business,
mer aspecting own virgo, protective of relationship-business;
badhaka mer over pisces asc, debilated, emotional and confused;
jup trine aspect own pisces, debilation cancelled,
gradual improvement in health and personality;
wear emerald over a pendant touching heart;
not very good at talking. Not able to say the right things at right time, realize later what I should have said.sun-mer pisces asc, literary-oratory abilities;
weak health during infancy; impressive personality;
Truemars-venus prone to relationships by mere attractions;
artistic and technical/innovative aptitudes, electronics-mechatronics etc;
Untruesat own cap 11th, gains from govt, gains from old people, and old friends;
moon-sat cap ambitious, hardworking, economic research etc;
aquarius7000 said that asc Jupiter is exalted in cancerjup-sat/moon opp, misjudgments-missed opportunities in
income-friendships-property matters-mother-etc to avoid;
jup debilated aspect over sat-moon cap 11th for gains-friendships-career;
I will go to book fair today and try to start conversation with someone, forgetting the fear of rejection.Can you say what steps you will take today to become more outgoing and friendly to people? (Oh, and it's OK to feel snubbed and rejected. This happens to all of us. It's common. They key is to push through, and try again. And again.)