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Message: <blockquote data-quote="moonwitch" data-source="post: 836946" data-attributes="member: 56875">Hello:Thanks to everyone who responded.  Thanks for pointing this out katydid. This made me look at the chart differently and I think I see it more clearly now. The Lord of 7 is Saturn, (the Grim Reaper) found in the 8th house of death, opposing Sun, Lord of the Ascendant. I see that as meaning that it's possible that any relationship that I enter into will threaten my life which is what has happened in the past. The first person I had a relationship with when I was young (age 18/19) was violent and the second person (age 22/23) went from being my friend to being a "textbook" abuser. When I tried to dial back the relationship to friendship he threatened to kill me. I managed to extricate myself from that situation but he then stalked me for two years. So this is really what I wanted to know: is every relationship I try to have going to be like that? And now I think I see that it will. So yes you are correct, except that an opposition will show an external conflict. I simply have not been able to overcome my fear of having my life threatened again and I end up dating people for a few dates and then breaking it off because I can't deal with the tension that I feel. But maybe, given the configurations in my chart, it's a good thing that I haven't followed through.I have been fiddling with different "formulas" for marriage, including Lilly's aphorisms which don't turn up anything very positive; the method outlined in the sticky on the horary section of Astrologers' Community which basically comes up with nothing (no relationship); and some of the Lots of Marriage, especially ASC + Saturn - Venus (Paulus). This particular lot lands exactly at the Mars/Saturn midpoint and Mars and Saturn are in an exact trine. So together they make a perfect small trine. I can't think of two planets I wouldn't want getting together in terms of a relationship than Mars and Saturn! So I guess I am doomed in terms of this which makes me really sad. I always thought it would happen at some point but this really looks like it's better off if it doesn't. That's life, I guess. Best to count my blessings.Thanks again to everyone who replied. I appreciate it very much.</blockquote>

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