While I agree with everything Waybread said in her post, there has definitely been a theme of shaming prevalent in all cultures. This does, of course, include men as well, because men are also told to wear clothes and that being naked is ‘bad.’ It started out as needing to wear clothes for the sake of warmth, protection and survival, but a subtext was created wherein clothes were used to ‘hide’ our nakedness. What exactly were we ashamed off?
It seems that clothes became a symbol of boundaries - as in, you do not have access to my body without my permission. Although women can be sexually assertive too, I think it is true to say that the typical male nature is to be more sex-minded, in a hunter-gatherer type of sense. Even though it was women who needed protection from men, this protection manifested as shame towards women, as in, it somehow became a woman’s responsibility to hide ourselves from men, rather than men being taught respectful boundaries towards women.
However, I see the rise of a different type of shaming toward women - in the ‘gender dilemma’ that is currently prevalent in society. This is quite a heavy and multi-faceted, complicated subject but the area I would like to concentrate on is the debate around whether biological women have a right to keep their place in society as strictly to other biological women, or whether that should now include trans women. Problems areas crop up in professional sporting competitions; female public restrooms and female jails. The sport dilemma comes from the fact that biological males are usually mchh stronger than biological females. The public restroom dilemma comes up due to it being a vulnerable and private setting where predators could easily take advantage of the situation, and it’s the same type of scenario in the female jail setting.
What I am getting at is, there is a new type of shame in town. Biological females are now being forced to fight back and defend against their right to a safe and private space. Not only have biological women had to fight to protect their sexuality over the years but they are now having to fight to protect their right to identify as a women.
I don’t really get the reason behind this yet, all I know is, there is indeed a definite shaming around women, stemming from their body parts, and it’s now recently taken on a new angle, to the point that there is an element of fear and shame to say, ‘I am a biological female and I have a fight to privacy and safety.’