What makes women interested in a man varies from one woman to another, but there's something at the core of it that probably all of us women who are attracted to men have in common: we want men who show interest in us. If a man exudes an attitude of, "I want a woman for my own needs, you will do," that's a complete turn off.
I don't know if you are exuding that attitude in person, but between your chart and the way you phrased the problem, I suspect that you are. You didn't say you were interested in any particular woman. You didn't say you'd noticed any woman and thought, "I like talking to her, would like to spend more time with her," or, "She's such an interesting person, I want to get to know her better," or even, "She's attractive and seems nice, I want to get to know her better."
What you did say sounds to me like your wish for a woman is essentially a wish for a commodity. Arm candy, to make you feel like a man. That's not what any self respecting woman wants to be treated as.
Turning to your chart, I see a tight sextile between Venus and your ascendant, which suggests that you come across to others as attractive and pleasant. It's not looks that's standing in your way.
But you have most of your planets sandwiched in between (besieged by, in astrology speak) Saturn and Mars, which square each other. Saturn being the first planet in a stellium, and nearly all of your planets below the horizon, suggests deep introspectiveness, introversion, and likely social awkwardness, shyness, difficulty connecting with others. If you are socially awkward, or were in your formative years, that would be a huge barrier to getting to know women and drawing them in. Especially in a society that puts all the pressure on the male to make the first move. Your early experiences shape your perceptions. If you had difficulty connecting with the opposite sex when you were young, chances are you continue perceiving that as difficult, even insurmountable, for you, whether or not it actually is at this point in time.
Saturn square Mars would exacerbate your sense of frustration. When Saturn and Mars are in aspect, especially a hard one, that tends to create a certain kind of impatience. Mars wants to charge ahead, wants what he wants NOW. Saturn slams on the brakes. Mars reacts by becoming more impatient and, often, belligerent.
That, along with your wording, is what makes me think there's a good chance you're exuding an attitude of entitlement, rather than personal interest, towards women. If that's so, then as long as you are carrying that attitude, you're not likely to get very far.
You also have the capacity to make deep personal connections with people who interest you. Venus in deeply honest, connective Scorpio and DC ruler Jupiter in intuitive, connective Pisces, at your DC, speaks to that. If there is any woman you're genuinely interested in, for herself and not just thinking of what she could do for you, what stops you from connecting with her? You can do it.
If there's no woman you're genuinely interested in, it's not really a woman you want, it's an idea that "woman" represents to you.