Hey guys,
So was wondering if we can explore:
1. Will we meet again.
2. Any chance of intimacy - emotional/physicalsex between us.
3. Are they going to break this off. She seems to be in this only because her father likes him.
Chart was casted last week after our encounter
Basically since venus rx, my gf who I was talking marriage with broke up with me. Because of long distance, it was difficult to address the situation till when I arrived in her city in late Sep. But I came to reconcile with her and she'd agreed to do so before she retracted her decision.
Over venus rx she had met 2 guys, both of which she felt a "connection" with and thought that there was a long term future there with both of them. Those guys are gone now. Now she's been introduced to a 3rd person by her father. She really wants to get married, and so she is with this person and sees him as the new boyfriend. Prior to the third person coming in, she was communicating less but she was open to working things out and we were still "together".
I met her last week and casted this chart after the meeting. It was an intense meeting, full of tears, confessions, sadness, intimacy, embracing, she was feeding me with her hand etc. She had tried to cut off from me completely prior to this meeting according to the new guy's instruction. She was defensive at first, saying "don't try and rekindle anything, we will never get back together" - and then after a drink she was so happy to be with me.
And so after this meeting she wanted to see me again and she was offering me a place to stay in her apartment, wanted to give me money, food etc. then the following day she didn't want to meet and that i should leave.
She'd been going back and forth. Finally i said "ok we don't need to meet" and she said "sorry wasn't thinking straight let's meet".
Basically this new person doesn't like me because he suspects my ex still has feelings for me and she's told him if he wasn't brought into her life she'd be with Dr. Time, and she's said to him that noone has loved her like Dr. Time etc.
She even had told me that she knows he's a rebound and that she doesn't love him and is taking it slow. She's only known him a couple weeks. She only told me about him even after we woke up together in the same bed on the night I arrived.
I have a feeling that she's with the person simply because her father has introduced her to him. I have a feeling that she might find him attractive but there's no substance to the relationship and she's projecting a lot on him.
She is also able to escape guilt from some of the hurt she's caused me by getting affirmation from the new person that it won't happen again and that those things were done out of lack of love for me.
She'd acknowledged that those things weren't done out of lack of love but due to other reasons. I am telling her also that I understand and I am not bothered by those things.
I see my ex as really confused and broken right now, so much stuff going on in her head. She wants to marry to for the sake of marriage I feel, primarily to escape.
I feel like our chapter isn't really done. She seems to still kind of want me.
Thanks! Apologies for the long message.
So was wondering if we can explore:
1. Will we meet again.
2. Any chance of intimacy - emotional/physicalsex between us.
3. Are they going to break this off. She seems to be in this only because her father likes him.
Chart was casted last week after our encounter
Basically since venus rx, my gf who I was talking marriage with broke up with me. Because of long distance, it was difficult to address the situation till when I arrived in her city in late Sep. But I came to reconcile with her and she'd agreed to do so before she retracted her decision.
Over venus rx she had met 2 guys, both of which she felt a "connection" with and thought that there was a long term future there with both of them. Those guys are gone now. Now she's been introduced to a 3rd person by her father. She really wants to get married, and so she is with this person and sees him as the new boyfriend. Prior to the third person coming in, she was communicating less but she was open to working things out and we were still "together".
I met her last week and casted this chart after the meeting. It was an intense meeting, full of tears, confessions, sadness, intimacy, embracing, she was feeding me with her hand etc. She had tried to cut off from me completely prior to this meeting according to the new guy's instruction. She was defensive at first, saying "don't try and rekindle anything, we will never get back together" - and then after a drink she was so happy to be with me.
And so after this meeting she wanted to see me again and she was offering me a place to stay in her apartment, wanted to give me money, food etc. then the following day she didn't want to meet and that i should leave.
She'd been going back and forth. Finally i said "ok we don't need to meet" and she said "sorry wasn't thinking straight let's meet".
Basically this new person doesn't like me because he suspects my ex still has feelings for me and she's told him if he wasn't brought into her life she'd be with Dr. Time, and she's said to him that noone has loved her like Dr. Time etc.
She even had told me that she knows he's a rebound and that she doesn't love him and is taking it slow. She's only known him a couple weeks. She only told me about him even after we woke up together in the same bed on the night I arrived.
I have a feeling that she's with the person simply because her father has introduced her to him. I have a feeling that she might find him attractive but there's no substance to the relationship and she's projecting a lot on him.
She is also able to escape guilt from some of the hurt she's caused me by getting affirmation from the new person that it won't happen again and that those things were done out of lack of love for me.
She'd acknowledged that those things weren't done out of lack of love but due to other reasons. I am telling her also that I understand and I am not bothered by those things.
I see my ex as really confused and broken right now, so much stuff going on in her head. She wants to marry to for the sake of marriage I feel, primarily to escape.
I feel like our chapter isn't really done. She seems to still kind of want me.
Thanks! Apologies for the long message.
