what placements could indicate harsh treatment/violence from other ppl or society in general, specifically from women
ive had this problem my entire life n its been a very painful and isolating experience. friends, family, teachers, even counselors ive had!!! its like being given a complete lack of nurturing. its really weird because i havent done anything to set this off. i learned to nurture and care for myself and also to keep to myself to protect myself…but it gets so tiring. example: when i was younger my best friends would beat me for no reason or mom would take her anger out on me when my siblings did something bad.
astrologicallyi have saturn in the 7th in placidus, its in the 8th house in whole sign. and also pluto in the first in placidus and 2nd in whole signs.
i read that the moon can also show ur relationships with women in ur life. mine is receiving some harsh aspects, in whole signs it is in the 10th house which seems fitting to me in this context. its interesting because i have received this behavior especially from women who should be supporting me like positions like mother, counselors, teachers, friends.
i wonder if you can break free from this or how, or if transits could play a factor in this. im not trying to be fatalistic but i know for a fact that u can see things like this in ur birth chart
sorry this got a bit long and sorry for being so personal but i dont have anyone else to talk to about this so i came here. Its impossible for me to trust anyone because i feel like everyone just has bad intent towards me now. I was really naive by nature and now im the complete opposite i cannot open up or connect to people at all, just learned to keep to myself and i havent confided in anyone about my problems since i was young, its a positive too because i can support myself really well and i dont get attached to people at all now but its also frustrating when im trying to receive help for something or not being able to connect to anyone. even my close friends know nothing about me while i know everything about them because i hate telling people anything about myself now or confiding in them because i always get dismissed. thats why i like sites like these because no one really knows anything about me I feel like the world has so much kindness and love to offer but not to everyone
It's possible with your 5 planets in Aquarius, do you think that you could be rebelling against people, unconsciously? Another thing to think about is, are you a very quiet person? Some people see quiet people as an easy target to bully, ostracize, and/or scapegoat their aggression towards. I know this is outside of astrology, but I'm trying to see many angles of this.I thought about this too. but the thing is that i received this treatment from my family, even when i was very little so i dont know thats what confuses me the most because there isnt anything setting me apart from them yet they treated specifically me like this still. i would have friends but they would treat me like im dumb
but reading what u wrote about people in ur town treating u a certain way because of ur sexuality or body made me extremely upset.. you seem to be really mature and know how to deal with this better than i could but i just dont understand how anyone would treat someone like theyre less because of something like being gay or fat
its really a crazy world we live in and i will never understand!! i dont know why people go out of their way to be rude to someone who has done nothing to them. you can never know where someone stands in life as well so going out of your way to be rude to someone that already could be struggling in life is something i will never grasp. i know how bigoted people are but i will never truly understand the ignorance or how anyone could even believe in that mindset that they have
i think being treated a certain way and experiencing things like this can make u empathize more with others. i think twice about what im gonna say to someone
you are very right about the judging thing, i actually never judge anyone based on anything superficial but i watch people so much and the way they act and treat others so i know if it even makes sense for me to interact with them because when they do something i regard as bad i will think this person is “bad” and also probably gonna end up hurting me as well. you see i believe in the law of attraction and law of assumption as well so i know that subconsciously im probably doing a lot of this to myself
I feel like your childhood shapes u forever and what treatment you received growing up will shape the way you see the world for the rest of your life . so getting out of that mindset can be really hard and exhausting. even your adulthood, when you are treated bad it makes it hard to expect good from others
could you elaborate on the neptune/chiron part, i think i have aspects like these but i cant see them on astro.com astro-seek seems to show them though
Let's for the moment stick with one calculation, just to have a base, so referring to the Placidus chart.i read that the moon can also show ur relationships with women in ur life. mine is receiving some harsh aspects,