Very confusing love. I can’t tell if this person is in to me or how they feel about me. Unrequited love maybe.
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First, you both have moon in Aquarius. Free spirits. Compatible, comfortable to talk to each other.
The "inner circle" person, with the blue font, has venus and sun in cancer, trining saturn. This makes them loyal and consistent in their life and love life. Is this person you? More emotional.
The outer circle person, in the orange font, has venus in Gemini (fun loving, loves communication, but not too expressive or emotional), squaring Saturn in Pisces. They are not good at demonstrating love. This square is in mutable signs, which shows they feel confused and uncomfortable when it comes to emotional commitment.
I assume the outer circle is your friend. And I think that you are compatible, but the other person needs to get over their own inner demons that prevents them from close bonding.
The "inner circle" person, with the blue font, has venus and sun in cancer, trining saturn. This makes them loyal and consistent in their life and love life. Is this person you? More emotional.
The outer circle person, in the orange font, has venus in Gemini (fun loving, loves communication, but not too expressive or emotional), squaring Saturn in Pisces. They are not good at demonstrating love. This square is in mutable signs, which shows they feel confused and uncomfortable when it comes to emotional commitment.
I assume the outer circle is your friend. And I think that you are compatible, but the other person needs to get over their own inner demons that prevents them from close bonding.
Satinmood07
Member
Yes, I am the blue person. We both are great at giving each other space but when we do bond it seems to lack an emotional connection even though my person “says” how much they feel.
It had me thinking either he’s playing games or I’m the one who’s only attracted really.
It had me thinking either he’s playing games or I’m the one who’s only attracted really.
IleneK
Premium Member
Both Venus to Mars contacts in your charts square by sign, so there is an inherent tension between you in the way that you relate to one another.
It may be helpful to consider what an emotional connection really means? What does emotional connection look like to you? For example, is it is a physical kind of bonding? Or is it what is said to you?
With both of you having Moons in Aq is seems like emotions might be more measured or cool...? But there is nothing wrong with that if you are both in agreement about it?
So it brings me back to the original consideration as to what emotional connection looks like to you? If you can get that clear, maybe you could have friendly discussion about what emotional connection looks like to your friend?
Building sincerity and honesty between you from the ground up.
It may be helpful to consider what an emotional connection really means? What does emotional connection look like to you? For example, is it is a physical kind of bonding? Or is it what is said to you?
With both of you having Moons in Aq is seems like emotions might be more measured or cool...? But there is nothing wrong with that if you are both in agreement about it?
So it brings me back to the original consideration as to what emotional connection looks like to you? If you can get that clear, maybe you could have friendly discussion about what emotional connection looks like to your friend?
Building sincerity and honesty between you from the ground up.
Satinmood07
Member
Thank you for your response. I’m not quite sure where to place our planets in each others houses, such as his sun in my 5th or 6th as well as my Venus in his 8th or 9th.