It's an aspect I have difficulty *interpreting* in a natal chart, as one would think mars and venus together would be conflicting energies...
hmm interesting..i wonder this also bc i haven't had a relationship for a while even though i've been ready for one. i feel akwardly creepy sometimes too. i have libra rising with venus conjunct mars in leo in H11, trine neptune sextile pluto (pluto conjunct saturn in 1H) but venus is inconjunct moon (in pisces). i wonder if the venus moon inconjunct makes it difficult for me to enter into relationships? i feel i am not an initiator in relationships but am definitely responsive, my friends and family always tell me it's just bc i "don't put myself out there". what does that even mean? i'm out there! i think they just say that bc they don't really know what else to say. in my younger years (like in high school) i got a lot of male attention and i was def much more extroverted those days bc i didn't feel the need to protect myself, but now i feel i'm actually much better looking then i was back then but don't get any offers! very rarely and from guys that i am not interested in.lilllybelle said:I've seen how my conjunction can be sexy, but I think it can also be repulsive at times. I've often pondered on whether a venus/ mars conjunction can fluctuate between being repulsive and magnetically attractive.
quoting katydid: I have also seen a curious kind of personality aspect to some mars/venus conjunctions in a chart. A few of the people I have seen with them have little interest in 'relationship' issues per se. At first I thought they would want to know a lot about their relationships, and prepared for that in my pre-reading
preparation. But each time, with 3 different clients, I was told that they were not that interested in the relationship aspects, and felt 'content' being single because they felt fulfilled at this point just pursuing their other goals.
I was surprised by that, and I wonder if any other mars/venus conjunctions
feel the same way?
In the case of my gorgeous, but psychotic, ex-husband - and in the case of my ex-model friend...... both of the rulers of their ascendants happened to be Mars. I wonder if that explained alot of the beauty? The ruler of the Ascendant was tightly conjunct Venus.lilllybelle said:I'm not sure that the venus/mars conjunction has a lot to do with looks. I think it's more of an energy or vibe of attractiveness that the v/m person radiates.There's just something about them that is sexy even if they don't have conventional beauty. I would look to the ascendent for traditional beauty.
freedomlover said:My ex-husband has Venus Mars tight conjunct in Cancer... . He was ( and still is) drop-dead gorgeous. Milky-white skin, sea-green eyes with long black lashes, and a head full of wavy black hair. ALL the girls went ga-ga over him. Emotionally - he's a different story. He has serious mother issues though. ( Mars conjunct Venus in Cancer - ahem)