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[Super Friend]

Will me and my married boyfriend end up together, or will we at least be together for longer, or is it over. should I keep singing in his group, and if i do, what will happen. Does he love me, and how can i make him leave her. I dont have any astrology experience, but am curious.

 

[Xibalba]

I think to post questions like this in this subforum, you will need to post a natal chart. Also, you might want to add more information like the background between the two of you, or what you feel you need to change to change the current situation.

 

[RockFish]

Sorry Super, this is not a psychic forum, this is an astrological forum.

 

[astrologer50]

Will me and my married boyfriend end up together, or will we at least be together for longer, or is it over. should I keep singing in his group, and if i do, what will happen. Does he love me, and how can i make him leave her. I dont have any astrology experience, but am curious.

[Moderator's note: I have left in this post as an introduction to horary astrology, but note that beginners cannot post on those boards in this Forum: see my post, below. W]

Sounds like you want to ask a horary question
Anyone can ask a horary question. You do not need a birth time to use this method of astrological enquiry. What you do need is the exact time the question was clearly worded in your mind. An experienced horarist can, using the time you have asked the question and the place from which it was asked, explore a particular matter in great detail.

Horary astrology can be used to enquire about health, marriage, love affairs, work matters, travel, relocation and many other matters that affect our daily lives. It can be used to find lost things, people, pets, and many other subjects. Try not to attempt horary without first acquiring a sound knowledge of Natal chart basics though.

Horary astrology learning links
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=12782
http://www.antiquus-astrology.com/Chap2-5.html
http://www.renaissanceastrology.com/traditionalastrology.html
http://mithras93.tripod.com/lessons/lesson1/lesson1.html

 

[waybread]

Superfriend, Hopefully you have read the Forum rules, scanned the stickies and "education" material, and followed around a few threads by now.

Most of our boards (including horary) require you to have some knowledge of astrology, and to attempt to answer your own question. The Greenhorn's Lounge is for newcomers to astrology, but:

As the others have indicated, we're a bunch of astrology people here, not psychics. To answer your question, we would probably need your natal chart, your BF's natal chart, and "her" natal chart, then these would have to be compared in various ways. Generally this won't give you "yes or no" answers, but good or bad times in which it is likely or unlikely for something to happen. It can say a lot about compatibility.

Horary astrology can answer "yes or no" questions, but it is one of the boards restricted to people who have studied this type of astrology.

 

[Effie]

Will me and my married boyfriend end up together, or will we at least be together for longer, or is it over. should I keep singing in his group, and if i do, what will happen. Does he love me, and how can i make him leave her. I dont have any astrology experience, but am curious.

Astrologically speaking or not, honestly, you do not want "to make" anyone leave anybody else in order to be with you because you are interfering with "their" free will! This is a big no-no, as it will backfire against you eventually because you are disrespecting very basic Laws of the Universe. Never interfere with the Free Will of another individual even if their choices hurt you personally. If you interfere, and "you make" somebody to do something that they haven't really chosen themselves with their personal conscious thought and emotions, they will snap out of it eventually, and they will hate you for it because deep down inside they will be very unhappy because an external force or will forced them or talked them into doing something that they didn't really want or choose to do themselves. There will be a lot of conflict between the two of you if you interfere in any way with his free will and emotions.

This is one of the very basic laws of magic, especially when you know that your intent will interfere with the energy of another entity, and that's how you can actually recognize a white magus from a black magus ultimately. A white magus, and even a person who is not knowlegeable about the theory and practice of magic but he or she is just a regular but ethical and consciensious person, NEVER disrespects the "free will" and personal choices of another individual, and he/she NEVER manipulates energy or information or occult systems (because astrology is one of the very basic occult systems that any Hermetic initiate has to learn in order to advance his/ger Grade inside the Order) "to make" this individual to make choices against their personal, conscious will and liking.

Go with the flow, respect the choice of the other person even if he chooses to be with the other woman and rejects you. This will mean that it wasn't meant to be, and that there is another individual out there whose free will is in synchronicity with your free will, so there will be no spiritual conflict at the etheric plane, and, as a result, your relationship will be of true love and successful in the physical plane even if there will be challenges.

Please, do not ever ask to use astrology in that way, because you are actually starting to practice "magic" out of ignorance if you start using astrology with this intent, and this is dangerous and highly unethical at the same time according to the most sacred and basic Laws of the Universe with its etheric planes.

Best,
Effie.

 

[Claire19]

Will me and my married boyfriend end up together, or will we at least be together for longer, or is it over. should I keep singing in his group, and if i do, what will happen. Does he love me, and how can i make him leave her. I dont have any astrology experience, but am curious.

We always need to post our natal charts. Yours and your married lovers both. We can do the composite then and see where the relationship is going. You need accurate time of birth for both for this to work.
If you have to ask if he loves you then there must be major doubts. You cant make anyone leave a person and who would want that? Love must be given freely or it is not love at all.

 

[danieycc]

I sorry, but he's not your boyfriend if he's married. Im not saying that to be cruel, it's just the reality you got to face. Tough love babbyy.
Go get someone who actually appreciates you!

 

[Effie]

We always need to post our natal charts. Yours and your married lovers both. We can do the composite then and see where the relationship is going. You need accurate time of birth for both for this to work.
If you have to ask if he loves you then there must be major doubts. You cant make anyone leave a person and who would want that? Love must be given freely or it is not love at all.

I agree with Claire:

Do what thou wilt shall be the whole of the Law: Love is the Law, Love under Will!

...Every man and every woman is a star, etc. -read "The Book of the Law" (1904).