"Its not about what we go through, but its about how we handle what we go through."
Sun in a woman's chart also symbolises the men in her life. Conjunct Pluto would indicate a powerful, dominating man who takes control of your individuality.
Wow, I never thought of it that way but good perception. It's also my mother in my chart (10th ruler). And she was the driving force in my family but I trusted her. She does have Leo qualities that I like but she's also in the 12th house. We relate very much in regards to being victims. Sorry, I don't want to sidetrack this thread.