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unbearable living situation, when will it end?
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<blockquote data-quote="Suze" data-source="post: 707381" data-attributes="member: 17377"><p>Thankyou for your replies.</p><p></p><p>theV: sister's job ending, like tornado, wants to catch up on backlog of her own stuff. Once makes progress, likely tornado turns to big ongoing job going through parent's stuff. That could be Sept problems beginning. No problems neighbours. Early childhood schooling difficult due to emotional abuse & neglect from parents.</p><p></p><p>ashriia: Thankyou for your advice. Done 20yrs personal dvlpmt incl assertiveness training. Sister is abusive, dominating, controlling, overbearing & overpowering. Parents complained of this also."She just takes over" they said. How to take control? Be assertive? Don't let her boss you around? How to not be a victim of her? Tried everything, doesn't work. She's constantly discussing our personal business with friends, even when mother told her not to. Extremely difficult just turns up whenever she likes,lazy boyfriend in tow, hasn't done a thing to help looking through belongings. Politely told him not to, she could see how upset I was about it, he refused, threatened to knock me out. She stood by smirking saying how wrong I was. </p><p></p><p>Feel the 'changes' are parents passing on, having to deal with what they physically left behind. The situation does change day to day (what have to do etc). I'm the same person. Hasn't changed me or my big life dream - own home.</p><p></p><p>When will the end of the transit through the 4th be? (I know, but I'm a Taurus Sun, Cap rising, need to know). Using every ounce of inner strength to hang on until own home. Difficult to describe in words how very badly I want and need this.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Suze, post: 707381, member: 17377"] Thankyou for your replies. theV: sister's job ending, like tornado, wants to catch up on backlog of her own stuff. Once makes progress, likely tornado turns to big ongoing job going through parent's stuff. That could be Sept problems beginning. No problems neighbours. Early childhood schooling difficult due to emotional abuse & neglect from parents. ashriia: Thankyou for your advice. Done 20yrs personal dvlpmt incl assertiveness training. Sister is abusive, dominating, controlling, overbearing & overpowering. Parents complained of this also."She just takes over" they said. How to take control? Be assertive? Don't let her boss you around? How to not be a victim of her? Tried everything, doesn't work. She's constantly discussing our personal business with friends, even when mother told her not to. Extremely difficult just turns up whenever she likes,lazy boyfriend in tow, hasn't done a thing to help looking through belongings. Politely told him not to, she could see how upset I was about it, he refused, threatened to knock me out. She stood by smirking saying how wrong I was. Feel the 'changes' are parents passing on, having to deal with what they physically left behind. The situation does change day to day (what have to do etc). I'm the same person. Hasn't changed me or my big life dream - own home. When will the end of the transit through the 4th be? (I know, but I'm a Taurus Sun, Cap rising, need to know). Using every ounce of inner strength to hang on until own home. Difficult to describe in words how very badly I want and need this. [/QUOTE]
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